If your married do you think it's wrong to have an attraction to someone else?

[missindiana93]

[AydenHazor]

There's nothing wrong with feeling attraction, it's whether you act on that attraction or not

[Anonymous]

If you're not cheating, it's not wrong, it's natural.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[DishLady]

SOMETIMES there is a passing crush OR someone has a passing crush on you... but the important thing is not to ACT on that sense of attraction because it's completely immoral.

[serious]

Well, it is fine to find other people attractive. Of course there will be people who will be attractive and better looking than their husband/wife and that is fine.

Hence as long as only finding other people attractive is concerned it is totally fine. However, it only becomes wrong when the person decides to forget about the reality (they are married) and give in to the feeling of finding someone else attractive and take things forward. Acting on the feelings of finding other people attractive is when it becomes wrong.

[HungTexan]

An attraction is just that, and nothing you can control - nothing wrong with it. Acting on the attraction is another matter, and could be a mistake and a wrong decision.

[jahaims]

To recognize if someone is attractive or not, is different than being attracted to someone. You aren't in a healthy relationship if you are attracted to others.

[gangster123]

What do you think.. 🤔