Do you think it's wrong to hookup with someone who's married?

[Anonymous]

When you're single.

I feel much more attracted towards married men, I'm not sure why. I wouldn't actively try to seduce someone who's taken, but if he does the first move I'm ok. I think it's not my relationship and if he's not doing it with me he will do it with someone else. It's not my responsibility so why should I care

Yes it's morally wrong

No you're single it's not your problem

Updates

1 y

I guess the result is very clear... 😅

[Finchie40]

It’s wrong , but really not Your problem if they choose to do so , I can’t tell you how many times I hooked up with girls’ at bars and clubs that I hit it off with and found out after we made out that she was married or already in a relationship already , when alcohol is flowing , and I am there having a good time , I am having a good time , I don’t play investigator. So it’s her problem not mine. She is the one cheating not me. So that’s her problem and I will tell her to not make it my problem. If you want to continue seeing me , you need to end your relationship if not? Oh well thanks for a good time but not a long time. Now if I know she is married beforehand then I will not pursue her , but if she pursues me and constantly throwing herself at me then I might end up fucking her , depending on how attracted I am to her , but I will make it clear to her it’s just sex and nothing more. Some of the married women I had sex with were amazing experiences because she rocked my world , even though I knew it was wrong , it was still an amazing experience , I am not going to lie. I just think to myself that she is clearly not happy in her marriage and that she should end it as soon as possible if she wants to continue seeing me and wasting her time on someone she clearly doesn’t love. I just know she is a selfish girl that wants her cake and wants to eat it to if she goes back to her partner like nothing happened. When I am single , I am single , so if I meet a very attractive girl that wants me , I am more than likely going for it , her boyfriend or husband is her problem , not mine.

[OlderAndWiser]

You may convince yourself that you are not responsible for him being unfaithful, since he is the one who is married and it is his responsibility to remain single. However, more than one person can share the responsibility for these failures. Do you want to have a woman point at you and say to her child, "Honey, that woman is the reason why your daddy stopped living with us."?

[Screenwriter]

I think you're attracted to married men because they're "safe." They're in a relationship and your aim is not to break that up, but you can have some fun.

But isn't the real point that you really don't want a relationship. You simply want sex? So why not a friends with benefits? Or, why not look for an actual romanic partner of your own? What's going on with you about this?

[Asker]

I have no problem with being in on a relationship. My last one ended earlier this year. But I'm not entering one just for the sake of being in one. Until I find the right guy I will enjoy my single life. I have some friends with benefits but I don't see the point of limiting myself to one person I'm not together with.

[Anonymous]

No some of those guys need it. If I wasn't giving sex to my husband for whatever reason, I would be happy some young girl was taking care of that for him.

[DryGermanGuy]

homewreckernoun [ C ] disapprovingUK /ˈhəʊm. rek. ər/ US /ˈhoʊm. rek. ɚ/Add to word list someone who is responsible for breaking up a marriage or relationship

[Nikki1989]

Play with fire and you will get burned eventually. Not worth it.

[AhmetHasanCan]

It's not your responsibility, you're right. The man who made a promise to his wife is not you.

[Flower7]

Duh. How is this even a question?

[Danny_dan92]

Why is this even a question?

[Anonymous]

It makes you a disgusting person.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, its wrong.

[Jmmmfi4]

Very wrong