Can a girl have interest in you but if you don't ask her out or pursue she will lose interest but still keep you in her life?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

It happens… and it happens both ways. People can move on easily especially from people they just crush on. Women do this too waiting on a man to make a move…. And all the sudden he’s showing less of a interest until he’s with another woman.

It’s a snooze you loose type of a deal. Sure, someone may keep you around as a friend. But if you like someone. Ask her out. If she says yes and is showing interest back. Great.

[slatyb]

Absolutely. You snooze, you lose. If you want something, like a date, ask for it. Plan a date and invite her. Her response will tell you whether she is interested. If you just wait for I have no idea what, another man will ask her out and then >poof< she's taken.

[Asker]

If she tells me through text she wants to be close is that a cue to ask her out?

[slatyb]

Are you really this dense? Ask her out.

[queenofcardio]

Happens often yeah

[Anonymous]

Its possible

[Asker]

From a girls perspective if you tell a guy you want to be close what does that mean?

[Opinion Owner]

Low key I wanna be with him... long story short

[Asker]

Really, why?

[Opinion Owner]

I would say I see something in him. To where I wanna be with him. I've always had a thing for him too

[Asker]

Even if you knew him for a short amount of time and didn't hang out yet?

[Opinion Owner]

In that case thats where she wants to get it to. There must be some strong chemistry or some type of pull he has on her.
My guess she sees something in him

[Asker]

Got it. So if a girl tells a guy she wants to be close she would be willing to hang out once to see if there is chemistry in person?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh hell yea no doubt

[Asker]

What if he doesn't ask her to hang out? Would she do it?

[Opinion Owner]

She might not honestly... she wants to see how interested you may be. Don't play games with her or she'll lose interesr

[Opinion Owner]

Interest*

[Asker]

I thought girls do make plans with guys

[Opinion Owner]

Its possible 😌