What are men supposed to do to get women to like us?

[Jerry_Jay]

[BobbieBoy666]

To get women to like you, the most effective approach is to focus on personal development, exhibit confidence (not arrogance), and practice kindness and effective communication. Cultivating these qualities helps build genuine connection and attraction.

Focus on Self-Improvement
Rather than trying to fit a specific mold, work on becoming the best version of yourself.
Maintain good grooming and hygiene: Shower regularly, wear clean, well-fitting clothes, and take care of your nails and hair. Smelling good is a significant factor in attraction.
Prioritize fitness and health: Regular exercise and a healthy diet can boost your physical appearance and, more importantly, your self-confidence and overall well-being.
Pursue a purpose and hobbies: Having passions, goals, and a life outside of relationships is highly attractive. It shows drive and a sense of self-fulfillment.
Develop emotional maturity: Learn to understand and manage your own emotions. Being emotionally available and stable is key to building lasting connections.

Cultivate Attractive Personality Traits
Women generally prioritize personality traits over physical looks, especially for long-term relationships.
Be confident: Confidence stems from self-assurance and knowing your own worth. Stand tall, maintain good posture and eye contact, and be comfortable with who you are.
Show kindness and respect: Treating everyone, including service staff and family, with kindness and respect is a highly sought-after trait. This demonstrates your character and potential as a supportive partner.
Develop a sense of humor: The ability to be playful and make her laugh creates a positive and memorable connection.
Be dependable and honest: Follow through on your commitments and be trustworthy. Reliability creates a sense of safety and security in a relationship.

Master Communication and Interaction
Effective communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship.
Listen actively: When she speaks, give her your full attention. Listen to understand her perspective, rather than just waiting for your turn to talk.
Ask open-ended questions: This encourages deeper conversations and shows genuine curiosity about her thoughts and feelings, moving beyond small talk.
Be vulnerable: Don't be afraid to share your true feelings and be open about who you are. Vulnerability builds trust and emotional intimacy.
Use "I" statements during conflict: Instead of blaming ("You never listen to me"), phrase concerns using "I" statements ("I feel unheard when I'm interrupted") to foster productive problem-solving.
Show appreciation and affection: Regularly express gratitude for her and use appropriate, non-sexual physical touch, like holding hands or a warm hug, to build emotional connection.

Getting women to like you is less about grand gestures and more about becoming a confident, well-rounded individual who is respectful and engaging in conversations. Women are generally attracted to men who show positive personality traits and a genuine interest in them as people.

Develop Attractive Personal Qualities
Be Yourself: Authenticity is crucial. Don't put on an act or lie about your interests to impress someone; a healthy relationship is built on trust and honesty from day one.
Build Confidence: True confidence comes from being comfortable with who you are and believing in yourself, not from an overinflated ego. You can boost confidence by setting and achieving personal goals, maintaining a healthy lifestyle (exercise, good diet, sleep), and practicing self-care.
Cultivate Kindness and Respect: Kindness, honesty, and integrity are universally attractive traits. Treat everyone, including your date and her friends/family, with respect.
Have a Sense of Humor: Being able to laugh and joke around creates positive energy and a special bond. It makes you fun to be around but avoid jokes at her expense and don't rely solely on humor for connection.
Pursue a Purpose: A man with a sense of purpose and goals in life (career, hobbies, etc.) is highly attractive because it signals drive and self-sufficiency.
Be Emotionally Available and Mature: Women appreciate men who can understand and manage their own emotions and empathize with others. Being open about your feelings and vulnerable (sharing fears, dreams) helps build a deeper, more intimate connection.

Improve Your Presentation and Social Skills
Practice Good Hygiene and Grooming: Shower regularly, brush your teeth, wear clean, well-fitting clothes, and smell good. This demonstrates that you take care of yourself.
Master Communication: Listen Actively: Pay attention to what she says, maintain eye contact, and use verbal cues (like "Yes" or "That's interesting") to show you are engaged.
Ask Open-Ended Questions: Ask "how" or "what" questions that invite stories and feelings, rather than simple "yes" or "no" answers.
Share Emotionally: Instead of just listing facts about your life, describe the emotions and stories behind your experiences to make conversations compelling.
Avoid Demanding Behavior: Give her space and don't be overly needy. A healthy balance of togetherness and independence is attractive.

Build Healthy Relationships
Focus on Giving, Not Taking: Approach interactions with the goal of being a giver of kindness and support, rather than focusing purely on what you can get out of it.
Respect Boundaries: Be clear about your own boundaries and respect hers. This ensures mutual respect in the relationship.
Manage Conflict Constructively: Disagreements are normal. Focus on solving problems together using "I" statements to express feelings, rather than attacking the other person.
Keep Outside Interests and Friends: Maintain your own social circle and hobbies. No one person can meet all your needs, and having a well-rounded life is an attractive quality.

[Summeroflove]

Focus on who likes you. Stop focusing on women in general… You aren’t dating billions of women…. So try focusing on the people who you genuinely like and who like you genuinely back.

[DishLady]

• Be real from the start. Too many guys get lost in fake things, or stalling and "negging" instead of being honest about your feelings for the girl.
• Be kind. Chivalry has taken a back seat to ego with a lot of guys, but bottom line is that a good, nice woman wants a kind, honest guy. That's all.
• Be consistent. I was "seeing" a guy who was one way one moment (doting, sweet, flirty, kind, open) and another way another moment (closed off/moody about his own life, blabbermouth gossip about my stuff, lying/hedging, etc.). I'm being told now that he's been nuts about me for over a year, which is cool, however trying to figure out which version of him I'd be facing from moment to moment was a very shady, exhausting nightmare. If you like a gal, be consistent.

[Subgurl]

Men in general? That’s gonna take a lot more work than I think you realize. To start with men are going to have to start being safe to be around. Mass shooters, family annihilators, sexual abusers, and domestic violence perpetrators have one main thing in common and that’s going to have to change before we start to see a cultural shift.

[Miristheiss]

Exhibit A of the man hating, demonic feminist.
Go live in Afghanistan, Syria, Saudi Arabia, India, Iran, Pakistan, Brazil, Mexico if the feminist wet dream west is so replete with endless monsters.
The society where women are pedalized the most complain the most about how hard they have it.
PICK. a damn lane already. Either women are strong, capable, empowered, can do anything or they are poor victims who cannot protect themselves and always manipulated because they are too meak and fragile to make their informed decisions... evil 24 old man tricked helpless 20 year old defenseless, naive, innocent into doing what he wanted.

Either you are strong and powerful WOMAN, or poor little victim who must always be looked out for.
You cannot be both.

[Subgurl]

@Miristheiss I don’t hate men, I have many amazing male figures in my life. I’m simply stating facts. If reality upsets you, that’s not my fault.

[CherryLove007]

@Miristheiss stop trying to father this young lady and get a life... were you dropped on your head?

[Miristheiss]

@CherryLove007
A nose ring wearing lefty takes umbrage.
To be expected.

[MrOracle]

Stop worrying about women, and by all means, never EVER simp for them.

Focus on building your solo life. Accomplish your goals and set new ones. Get your own place to live, a car (unless you live in a big city), some savings and investments, and a decent wardrobe. I'm not talking about designer anything, but be able to look nice. Make some friends, have people over, and do things. Live an interesting life. Maybe you play a sport, or play in a band, or you hunt, or you skydive, or whatever. Have some kind of hobby that involves being around other people.

You're never going to be the guy with the most money, or be the most handsome, or the most fit, or the most popular. You won't be able to attract every girl, or even most girls. That's okay. If you can attract a few, then you can start vetting them and you can pick a decent one - and that's what really matters.

The very LAST thing you should be doing is actively trying to do things that you think will "make" them like you. The only women that will work on are the ones you absolutely don't want.

Consider this: you're at a party, and at this party is a pretty girl, and there are 20 guys at the party who want her and are trying to get her attention. She may like the attention, but she's probably not going to be attracted to any of them. YOU, on the other hand, barely acknowledge her. You aren't impolite - maybe you say "hi" and introduce yourself - but you immediately move on and essentially ignore her. That's unusual - she's used to getting attention from every man. Now, you're a mystery to her - why don't YOU give her attention? Guess who she starts thinking about? Not any of the 20 guys vying for her attention - she's thinking about YOU and why you are immune to her charms. If she starts to flirt with you, be polite, but don't engage with her flirting, and when there's a pause in the conversation, walk away. Now you'll REALLY have her attention. Why? Because while every other guy acts desperate around her, you have an abundance mindset - you act like you have pretty girls flirting with you every day, and it's no big deal to you. You stand out from the crowd, and usually the only guys who do are the ones who DO have pretty girls flirting with them every day. That makes you desirable, because most women - even if they don't believe it themselves - care DESPERATELY what other women think, and if they think other women find you attractive, then THEY find you attractive.

Now, this is important - this girl may not be the kind of girl you'd want to be with anyway. She's pretty, sure. She may be the guy every other guy wants to bang, and many might even think they want to be her boyfriend, but often, this girl is crazy. BUT, if the OTHER women at the party see the pretty girl flirting with you, then THEY start being interested in you too. And one of THEM may be the golden nugget hiding in the big pile of ore - and now you have her attention too.

This is how the popular guys get popular - they have an abundance mindset, and so they naturally behave aloof, which makes them far more interesting to all of the women, and soon they have their pick. No guy is more desirable than the guy that all the other women are interested in.

[AviatorTom]

We men don't need to do anything to get women to like us, they need to respect us, as we respect them.

[coachTanthony]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/UFnr0_q_GKU

Ha Ha Ha

[Anonymous]

Nothing.

Too many men make the mistake of thinking you can get a woman to do ANYTHING.

Be yourself and the RIGHT woman will find you. If no women are finding you then let me ask you this? Are you going outside you house? What's the b**** supposed to do? break into your house? OK, so if your going out are you sitting there like a slug? What I'm asking is do you look like you're having fun? Women are going to be drawn to a guy sitting there mean mugging. Think about the product you're selling. A good product seels itself. It doesn't mean every woman's going to be drawn to you, but the right one will.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Men as a whole? Being more decent, that sounds like a very good idea, but there's a lot of work to do to get there.

If we're talking about just one man then... I don't think it's a good idea for one man to want to be liked by women. Instead, I think it's a very good idea for one man to register what is happening with his peers and what consequences it produces in general.

[jshm2]

You either got it, or not. Dem are the rules. The problem most men these days have, is not travelling and seeing the world.

Instead you want to stand and fight 4 local guys, for 1 average without makeup chick, when two of those guys have already hit that ass at least once.

Then you bitch about them hoes not bring loyal.

You don't need women to like you. You need only the right woman to.

[MemeSupreme]

besides basic stuff people do (like grooming yourself)

honestly dont try to get us to like you. just be yourself and see if you get along with her, THEN see if her lifestyle/wants are compatible with yours. like you matter too in this

[Miristheiss]

I think the tipping point of demonic feminism, man hating, lack of female accountability, wokeism, social media obsession, degenerate hook up culture has already been reached.

Relationships are too far gone.

Maybe the next generation of girls will reject the poison modern women preach and come back to normal.

[OneViewpoint]

Be genuine. Be interesting. Be fun. Have some standards and boundaries. Show some respect for other people.

Be patient. Don’t chase women. Let them discover you. Meanwhile relax, chill, enjoy the moment.

[live2dance25]

Just be yourself. The best moments are when you aren’t trying and a woman recognizes you for who you are, genuinely.

[FunkyMonkee]

Apparently, beat the hell out of them!! They really see to love that over the sweet loving stuff you THINK they'd like! Maybe the cavemen were right and we SHOULD club them over the head and drag them home with us!

[andreasderjuengere]

We are supposed to not give a shit about "results".
Someone will like even you sooner or later.

[Anonymous]

Be the kind of man you wish your dad was to your mom

[Nikki1989]

Read what the blue anons say on here and do the opposite.

[Purpleronnie]

You know , full transparency… I have never ever given that any thought and I likely never will

[AngryCarl2]

Why does it matter to you if women like you? Did your mother not love you enough?

[exitseven]

Try this for starters

https://www.youtube.com/embed/pSe5x29_ANg

[AviatorTom]

@exitseven Crude but appropriate.

[msc545]

There are a number of things you can do:

1. Have leg lengthening surgery if you are under 6'2:

With such surgery, you can gain supposedly 3-6 inches in height. If this will make you 6'4" or over, it will be very effective in getting women to like you better than they do now. The surgery is painful, and recovery will take a long time. It involves literally breaking both of your legs. You should know that you may not fully recover. The surgery is very expensive. However, the benefits are what they are and it may be worth it to you.

[msc545]

Number 2: Have plastic surgery to improve your facial appearance. This surgery is again very expensive and painful, and the result may not be exactly what you want, in fact maybe worse than what you have now. You should be willing to take a chance. Along with surgery to improve your facial appearance, you might also want to have some surgery to replace any missing hair that you have and to improve your hairline, since women are very sensitive to the appearance of hairlines in men.

Number 3. Accumulate a very large sum of money. This is guaranteed to attract many women, but it should not be construed as having much value other than that. To the extent that it does, you may want to consider it. It may take a long time and it may be very difficult, but by the time you recover and accumulate at least several million, if not several billion, dollars, you should be prepared to be attractive to many, many women. The sort of women that will be attracted to you may not be exactly what you were looking for, but you didn't specify what you were looking for, so it may not matter.

If you are successful in this, then I think you can probably forget about #1 and #2 above, since money in large amounts seems to be differentially attractive to almost every woman.

[MikeMcMansion]

Nothing. It either works it doesn’t. Women choose now, if you have to try and chase then usually you’ve already lost.

[Staximus]

Just don't be a piece of shit and you should be fine. Social skills and getting out of the house helps

[grega239]

Dont waste your time on women. Find something better to do with your life than wastjng it on women

[slatyb]

Treat them like people.

[queenofcardio]

Be honest

[Zionne]

show her you really likes him, genuinely.

[ABC1x1x]

Have money, be funny, dont care about them at all.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Soak 'em in caish !!!

[Anonymous]

@ nikki1989 my answer is love women

[Anonymous]

Because of patriarchy.

[Opinion Owner]

They expect us to do everything, that's why I never had a relationship...