When a guy asks a girl out for a date does she immediately think he wants to have sex with her?

[Anonymous]

If she does then why wouldn't I be shy about asking her?

[RespectfulGuy]

I think girls in different regions of the world view dating differently.

From GaG I see more clearly girls in more promiscuous countries are cautious when guys hitting on them.

But in my country, premarital sex is frown upon. Hence girls here think of something else other than him wanting sex when he asks her out.

To conclude, the world is large. We cannot pass a general behavior on all girls. And religion, culture and personal principles dictate how she looks at guys asking her out.

[Zionne]

Not necessarily—most women don’t automatically assume a date = sex, especially if the guy shows respect, takes things slow, and makes intentions clear. Shyness often comes from fear of rejection or overthinking how she’ll respond, not from assuming bad intentions. The key is being confident, respectful, and clear about wanting to spend time together—if you want, I can share a simple approach that makes asking less intimidating and more natural, you may want to visit a dating coach for men.

[DishLady]

Even if she doesn't factually a guy has already imagined it at least once before asking her out...

[FunkyMonkee]

That's beside the point. Do YOU think he wants to fuck you? Do you think that's the ONLY reason he's asking?
If I ask a girl out, sure, I think it's POSSIBLE that at SOME point IN THE FUTURE, IF we hit it off great together and things go well with us there MIGHT be some sex between us but it's NEVER on my mind that, the REASON I'm asking her out is ONLY to get the chance to fuck her that particular night!! I'm just hoping that things WILL go well enough that things will pan out to be a long-term thing and then, MAYBE there'll be some fucking in our fairly distant future.
I'd consider myself EXTREMELY lucky if SHE chose to fuck me before the first date is over!!
Even with my first girlfriend, we were madly passionate that first night feeling each other up every chance we got but, even THEN I NEVER expected her to fuck me that night, or ever!! But she did!! Other than that time, I've NEVER had a girl fuck me on the first date!! It was always days, if not weeks after we'd started seeing each other.

[DishLady]

@FunkyMonkee Oh, I see what you mean.

Well... I would HOPE that's not the only reason. I would rather know the guy is into ME... my laugh, my humor, the whole package.

[FunkyMonkee]

Exactly. That'd be why I'd ask her out. I like her personality, her sense of humour, and her looks. I just want her to like me as much as I like her. Bonus points if she's into music and records.

[DishLady]

@FunkyMonkee YES, with you esp she'd have to know her stuff.

[FunkyMonkee]

Not really, my ex-fiance knew a LITTLE about records but our first 2 or 3 dates were me going to her place and telling her about all sorts of records she'd never heard of while she took voracious notes of everything I was telling her. Buit, that's what SHE WANTED to do! She was THRILLED to find someone that knew so much more about it than her!!
My present fiance doesn't SEEM to be all that interested but, we hardly ever talk records and music so, I have no way of knowing. My best friend, who just died 4 hours ago, was a huge record collector and we hardly ever talked records. It's an obsession but I don't make it an all-consuming one!! Like, EVERYTHING I talk about HAS to be about or lead to records!! Most often, someone else brings up records before I start talking about them.

[Anonymous]

I know guys want sex when they ask me out (and I know a lot of guys who want sex but don't ask me out), but if they didn't ask me out I would never have sex either.

[beenherebefore]

When I was younger yes, that used to be my first thought.

[Abbycado]

Nope, I don’t automatically think that.

[queenofcardio]

No...