If a girl asks a guy to hang out with her, is she asking him on a date?

[Anonymous]

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I should clarify. She asked me to hangout with her and some of her friends.

[SocksRUs]

You'll find out soon. If you make a small move and she retracts, or she starts talking about her bad x boyfriends she is friendzoning you and wants to use you as an emotional tampon. Also, if she asks you any favors, chances are she is just wanting you as an orbiter. Women won't ask favors and shit from guys they want to fuck. I'd assume it was a date and act accordingly, if she doesn't like it, get rid of her.

[zxcded]

Yes, but says hangout to not feel rejected if she doesn’t or you don’t like her at the first impression. Way to say hangout to feel more safe.

[Asker]

what if she asks you to hangout with her and her other friends?

[zxcded]

Oh, wants to see if her friends will like you.. like they can help her to see if you’re potentially the guy. Seriously when I hangout with my friends and we invite a guy my friends are really protective and will look for anything and everything that makes the guy worth it or not.

[zxcded]

But usually i bring my sister my age because they’ll start flirting w/ him. And I trust my sis more.

[PrincessJess49]

No. Not if it’s with her friends. It’s literally just handing out.

[Asker]

Is she friendzoning you then?

[Asker]

And what if at first her friends were going to come, but then couldn’t, so she offered for her and me to hang out?

[PrincessJess49]

Just cause you hang out as friends doesn’t mean you’re automatically in the friend zone 🤦🏻‍♀️ you have to become friends before you date.

And still just friends.

[Jan_Classic]

She's asking him for more than one date. Like several dates and marry her =D

[Jan_Classic]

Ah cmon it always start with friends and if they approve you'll get married (hence f.. cked) =D

[Leimarie]

Not always, it depends.

[Asker]

how would you know if she is asking you on a date?

[Leimarie]

Saw the update. If she wanted a date, she wouldn't ask for you to meet up with her friends. It'd be a more 1 on 1 scenario. Even then, it's still hard to tell, since maybe she views you as someone cool to hang out with but not necessarily in a romantic light.

[Asker]

can you private message me? i would do it but i’m not at xper level 2.

[Leimarie]

I can't since you're anon. Plus, I'm about to sleep now. Sorry!