Should a girl ask a guy out?

[Anonymous]

Updates

+1 y

Won't the girl seem desperate if she's the one that asks the guy out?

[ohmyguy]

Yes 100 percent.. as long as u know for sure they're single... don't wedge in like that on those dating..

But please by all means... please do,

In some many cases a single girl likely has at least a couple if not a few guys looking at themselves as your new significant other. resulting to a hell of fiasco... which ladies do some time perpetuate... for emusement
... roo ha ha
Not funny... lol

Weeding out potential suitor process is painful for guys especially for ones who have their heart set..

So.. cut through that possibile nonsense..
So the unlucky fellas can move on..

[Med_guy1978]

Definitely! Problem is though, some men take it the wrong way so need to be cautious. I think a wink and a smile to the guy you like and give him a chance to approach you is enough. Most women seem unapproachable.

[CindyRuns]

Absolutely... It's 2024. If you see a guy you like, no reason not to make the first move.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I'd say yes. You never know what he'll say unless you ask him.

[AviatorTom]

Sure, we guys don't like doing all the work.

[NevadaTruth]

Yes, 100 %

It will make the dating dynamics on both the personal and the societal level so much better. Do it.

[Chazmatazz269]

Yes. In fact it should be the exclusive source of social dates for the next several generations.

[coolbreeze]

It depends on the type of environment to ask and if the guy is into the girl or not.

[RebelinSteel]

Yes it’s normal, had it a few times. My local barmaid has been less than subtle about it lol

[RebelinSteel]

@ asker ref update, no why should she? It’s just being sociable and confident, a guy can feel the same way asking out a girl.

[Fireguy17]

you betcha!
I always loved being asked out.
Then you know they are interested in you.

[Plugs]

No. Men are desperate would say yes to anyone

[handsomelad70]

Perhaps. Ever hear of Sadie Hawkins dances? (Of course you haven't, because most of you aren't nearly my age.)

[Alex-Snow]

OFC why not! I have been asked out a few times and it was fun.

[Booklover_90]

Not my style. I’ll show interest, but as far as asking him out? No. The ball’s in his court.

[SunnyRS]

Of course they should.
If they like someone they should definitely approach them, it shows confidence and some men like confident girls.

[SunnyRS]

No, do guys look desperate when they ask a girl out?
And if they do then no one should ask each other out

[Anonymous]

If she wants to go out with him and he ain't asking. It's kind of silly to let you pride stop you.

[Abbycado]

Sure, why not?

[Anonymous]

Yeah, in the MeToo era a guy does that and he will be arrested

[Anonymous]

Why do I get the feeling this will never be normalized

[slatyb]

Yes, she should.

[sirderpsalot123]

I wouldn't expect them to

[Wise4myage]

I see nothing wrong with that.

[BLP11520]

If you do you set the boundaries

[Asker]

What do you mean by set the boundaries though?

[BLP11520]

You initiated the dating relationship he shouldn’t assume anything

[Twalli]

Almost 0 guys would be opposed to it.

[Twalli]

The girl won't seem desperate.

[virtualwasp]

no...

[HighValue]

Sure.

[Anonymous]

No but you could talk or hint

[DrPepper12]

Yes. Yes. Yes.

[jahaims]

Sure

[In_Trance]

yeah