Do you think it is okay for a girl to ask a guy out?

[hotcrossbunny]

We had a discussion at school and it was fairly mixed opinions.

[ohsheeT]

Do you like the guy is he who you think he truly is is he kind to you does he smile does he look. Into your eyes when you communicate is he a gentleman then ask him out if he is who you like you can ask him out there's nothing wrong with that or at least have a talk about you and him and what does he think about it and go from there and let me tell you this too if he says no or something like that for some reason that is not a rejection that is I have something else going on in my life and I can't do anything about it at the moment so whatever you do if he says no don't look at it as rejection and don't let it affect your heart or who you are because it doesn't mean that

[Zack-Bann]

It is


And I would argue it can yield a stronger relationship


Because guys will eventually be expected to take the lead anyhow.
So if the girl shows initiative from the start it would create a dynamic of two people very motivated to be together

[Beckybooboo]

It's called Sadie Hawkins. We would have it every year at school! It's when the girls would have to ask a guy to accompany them to a school dance lol Didn't any other school do that? It's funny though, because the guy would still ask the girl to ask him 😂😂

[hotcrossbunny]

Sounds fun

[DishLady]

Meh. It's not frowned upon, however I personally prefer for a guy to ask me out. It's nice when a guy makes that little effort.

[yummyJoe]

Absolutely! Waiting for a guy to make a move is like leaving your favorite dessert on the table, hoping it jumps into your mouth. If you want him, go get him. Confidence is sexy as hell, and most guys love a girl who knows what she wants. Worst case? He says no, and you move on like the queen you are. Best case? You just made his whole day—and maybe his whole night.

[Nikki1989]

Of course, done that many times back in my single days.

[HungTexan]

I think it’s fine, and should be flattering for the guy.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sure, love has become so hard to find nowadays people stopped giving a shit about who initiates lol

[MikeRJ]

Absolutely! What a great thing for shy guys.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I believe more women would have themselves a man if they took that step instead of always relying on the man to be the one to initiate the process.

[Nightmoon23]

I mean it’s 2025 I don’t see the issue with it

[Abbycado]

Yeah, of course.

[Agape93]

Yeap, I usually do if I'm interested

[Fury_storm]

it is but it's better to let the guy do it

[Anonymous]

Why wouldn't it be.

[Anonymous]

Yes, of course it's okay.

[jahaims]

Of course

[Circushowcowboy]

Yep.