Should A Girl Ask A Guy Out? Why or Why Not?

[Anonymous]

Some people (guys&girls) is all for a girl asking a guy out on a date then there's others (guys&girls) who think a girl should NEVER ask a guy out. I think the guy should ask. because guys always say how much they hate clingy/desperate girls so that always plays in the back of my mind. certain things guys are suppose 2 do ( and there's certain things girls are suppose...) like asking a girl to the prom or marriage. society make it that way. so should a girl ask a guy 4 a date? why/why not?

Yes.

No

[Anonymous]

Yeah I just asked out a guy and it did not go well, I ended up crying myself to sleep. I felt super embarrassed and I realized no woman should have to go through that. I agree with the mho winner, and I was in her mind set until I listened to these coward, mama basement living guys on this website who told me I should go for it. Worse decision I ever made, it hurt so bad and he did not even care, though he treated me so sweet before I asked him out. I should not have asked, it was not worth the confirmation. Just wait for a guy to ask you out then he has to respect you because he is the one who asked you. But if you ask him out you are not going to receive the respect and compassion you could have received if you would have waited for him. Do not chase no man, he should be chasing you, flattering you, you already go through so much that is the least he can do. Trust me it is worth the wait, you will miss out on a lot of hardship and pain if you wait.

[hallieb26]

I think its perfectly fine if a girl asks a guy out. I would even be a little jealous of her bravery actually. The reason I don't is because I'm really shy and well flat out scared. I don't think asking a guy out shows that you are clingy or desperate, you're just taking some initiative and a lot of guys will like and appreciate that. Of course there will always be those who don't think that girls should ask guys out, but I think its fine. For one, why should the guys always have to do the "hard" part? And why shouldn't the girls be allowed to take some control?

[rachel05]

dudes I'm friends with (not online only) all tell me that it's a guy's job to do that.. that a girl can be friendly but it's the guys job to initiate the dating.. all my buddies are very strong about this opinion and stick with it... they say it's a guys job and he's almost less of a man if he can't.

[MrNameless]

Because they are conditioned from a young age to have old fashioned views/being a gentlemen.. Sigh.

[rachel05]

yep :) I like when a guy can be old fashioned about such.

[rachel05]

wow thanks for the ba!

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Of course a girl should ask a guy out. Anyone who says no is an idiot and shouldn't date. And let's be honest, most of the time it's women who think they shouldn't ask a guy out first. It's bullsh*t and shows just how "equal" they really want things.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Though yes I've heard of idiot guys who claim it's not manly to be asked out by a girl, those guys are stupid and should just stfu. They're not doing our gender or equal rights movement any favors by opening their mouths.

[nandyoo]

If you are really into the guy then don't waste time and ask him out that's just same for us guys too because you never know unless you ask.

[lustful1]

i think so I do it a lot because I always get anxious and I don't like to wait to long for the guy. But everyone is different. But I do think there's certain things that guys should do first I'm just not one to wait

[sixstring]

Yes! If you girls want equality, apply it to all aspects of life.

[defytraditiongirl]

most of the guys I've dated, I asked them out

[imfreeze95]

In today’s world who gives a damn