Why are women that have more money easier to obtain then women who have less?

[Summeroflove]

It’s weird. I am guessing that women who have money don’t need to use someone to get money as well as are financially responsible not needing a bailout.

I am not attacking women that are working and struggling. It’s just women who tend to be not financially responsible and use men for money. But nothings good enough….

[MrOracle]

They aren't. Obviously making a generalization, but women are not men, and women always want a man who she feels is of higher value than she sees herself. This means that the higher she sees her own status, whether that's because of her education, career, income, perceived beauty, or social status, she still wants a man who has more.

She's not trying to reach a certain level where she can be comfortable, she's trying to be better than everyone else she knows, and that's a constantly moving target. No matter how much she has, it's never enough. She always wants more. Again, this is a generalization that applies to most - but not all - western and westernized women. It's directly tied to Feminism.

Once you understand this, you will see why her having money doesn't mean she wants less money from you (the man). Unless you are top 1% in looks and charisma, or are a celebrity, you can't be poor and get her attention.

[MzAsh]

A woman with money doesn’t want less in a man, but she does want different things in a man than others. She’s going to be more interested in his relationship skills, life skills, and domestic skills rather than his ability to be a financial provider.

[MrOracle]

That's largely untrue. Yes, she definitely cares more about those other things than a poorer woman, but she STILL insists not only that the man has a high income, but it must still be MORE than hers. Which, of course, gets more and more difficult, and exponentially less common, as her income increases.

That's why so many women who want a man can't find one. They're all chasing the top 1% men, and that's more true the more she makes. The irony is that the more a woman pursues her career and prioritizes earnings, the LESS these same men are attracted to her, because those are masculine pursuits that make women hard and cold. The men who have the MOST choice tend to only consider the most feminine women.

Of course, a decent percentage of those men just remain single, refusing to commit to anyone. These guys will sleep with careerist women, but rarely for long, because they don't see them as being "relationship material."

[Finchie40]

Because a women with money is looking for love and a partner , she understands that this economy is shit and that it takes 2 incomes to make it by , Women who have no work ethic or ambition are users , they are just looking for a desperate guy that will support them , and when money gets tight, she will blame him for not making enough money and spread her legs to another guy

[emeraldsaphire]

I feel like my hard to getness has been the same regardless of my income level, but I may be bias.

I don't think most women are looking for a bail out, but women who are more financially stable may have more predictable work schedules, they may have more clothing and make up, they may also be less stressed. All of these things might make women more prone to go out.

[beenherebefore]

Women with money don't get impressed by material things.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah….. yeah. And what they want they can just buy.

Look. I don’t judge people based on money. But you learn that financially irresponsible people. Not working hard making ends meet…. But they will drain you.

I even tell women this for men. You can date someone “broke” but not someone who can’t manage money and wants a bailout.

[Summeroflove]

They can financially drain you.

[beenherebefore]

Absolutely.

[Summeroflove]

I’ve seen it happen. The same is true for women with money. Because a man can sag the right things. Act like he’s ambitious…. And then financially suck off a woman.

Make her feel bad for him and her her so wrapped up.

[NathanDavis]

Madoff... had all the money in the world already

and he was still out there at 300 years old stealing money from people

"people with money don't need/want more money" is a funny thing to say... lol

[Summeroflove]

Yeah and that’s true. There are women with money who still want a equal or higher financial status man.

[Summeroflove]

Not all women who don’t have tons of money use men either.

[MikeMcMansion]

Because most of the rich guys want a woman to be a good wife, mother, lover, and #1side kick. They ain’t lookin for boss babes and muhslayqueens. He vast majority of tall good lookin guys aren’t lookin for rich chicks, they just want hot chicks, and to settle down they might want a chick that works but they want a good momma for their kids too, just like the rich guys.

So, if a guy is just slightly above average he can get a sugar momma today with relative ease.

[MJVillarama]

From Jared Lawrence podcast: it’s not about money, it’s about confidence and options. Women with more resources often have more social proof and freedom, which can make them seem more approachable, but it’s really about how they carry themselves.

[fantasticass]

When you have money, time is an investment. Therefore, when you are looking to pursue a relationship, you want to make sure your partner is someone whom enhances your lifestyle and is not a waste of time.

[Zionne]

its because they want men who will be able to provide

[Summeroflove]

Yeah I get that. The issue is that women who aren’t seeking genuine love (not that wanting something traditional is wrong on its on)

But only wanting someone whose like you said. Able to provide. Money… the relationship hardly ever lasts. Especially when she’s not honest about it and leads a man to believe she genuinely loves him…. But she’s after his money

[Summeroflove]

It’s hard to be with someone if genuine attraction isn’t there. Especially, if she’s bad with money. Chances are she will just blow his.

[WonderingManII]

I never noticed. I feel all women are hard to get.

[LiamJHayden]

Women who have sufficient are not usually looking for you to pay their bills.

[Anonymous]

Because they don't need money, as long as you aren't clearly after theirs then they aren't worried

[queenofcardio]

Based on your observations?

[Anonymous]

I don't think they are.