I am planning to lose my virginity to an escort just to gain experience, how many times should I pay for sex?

[Rendozov]

I won't PAY FOREVER, JUST AT FIRST.

I suffered very bad PTSD that killed my sex drive for years. This I have no experience and I’m a virgin at 28. To solve this problem, I am going to hire escorts. And I’m asking you to tell me how many times I should do this to gain experience in the bedroom.

Do not try to talk me out of it. Do not appeal to emotion. You won’t succeed.

I only need to know how many of these paid sessions it will take to that I don’t spend more money than I need to when gaining this experience. That’s the only reason I’m asking.

So, how many sessions will it take?

[RespectfulGuy]

1. Make sure you look for one that agrees to give you "First Time" experience. It's OK you tell her that you're a virgin. She MUST lead, not you.

2. She will insist on using a condom. It's professional ethics. But this will reduce enjoyment for sure. Be prepared for that. If sex work is regulated, make sure she is clean. Don't get a STD just because you're not diligent.

3. Tell her your "vanilla" desires. She should be able to funfill. These include asking her to pose naked in various positions, bathe together, give each other sensual massages (you'll find giving her a great opportunity to explore a female body). And if you're a butt guy, know that she can pose and you explore, then later have PIV in another position.

4. Ask for an extra hour. Perhaps free or discounted.

With the above, you'll gain "experience" and no more blind to sex. But you may become "addicted" in a sense that you started to call escorts because your body calls for it. This will make you a poor man if you earn only regular income.

[Rendozov]

I’m only in it to not disappoint a real girlfriend who actually matters to me

[RespectfulGuy]

Interestingly, sex carries an intimacy that goes beyond talent.

If she's a girl that judges you (virgin) who fails to satisfy her the first time, then I dare say she's not worth it.

For me and my wife, we married as virgins and our First was among the worst. But it was so memorable (how we screw up, pun intended) that we celebrated our First almost every Anniversary (now 30th).

Hence if your goal to get an escort is to avoid disappointing your future girlfriend, then I think it's a weak move in life.

[Chazmatazz269]

There’s no point in pretending that you will never go back to a professional. If you pay too little, you’re not going to get a quality experience. If you pay enough for a quality experience then you will find that no other woman measures up if you’re not paying her.

[Rendozov]

I care about emotional connection too. They won’t give a fuck about that.

[Abbycado]

Well, I have no idea what these girls are like. I am wondering if they just "go through the motions" since I am sure they have personal rules.

[Rendozov]

What do you mean “go through the motions”

[Abbycado]

What I mean by that is they are just going to lay there and take it. They likely have sex with so many people they are numb emotionally to it.

All I am saying is that if that’s the case, I don’t know what you’ll learn.

[Rendozov]

All I want is to make my first girlfriend who I truly care for happy

[Abbycado]

You won’t find that knowledge in a whore. Just saying. You do you, tho.

[Rendozov]

Got any better ideas?

[Abbycado]

Yeah, follow the guys’ advice on your post. Sure that’s good XD

[DishLady]

Leave some extra cash to pay for the clinic you'll have to visit after the "escort."

[_piotr]

No. Sex outside marriage is a sin.

[moviedude714]

Works out well for plenty of guys

[Zionne]

wtf nooooo

[Vegasrunner]

Do it 3 times