Are women jealous of men?

[Summeroflove]

Obviously not all women are… But some people have been defending other women hate against men for being born men…

One reason being that men can start over. Even at 85 years old and have a new family. Okay…. Not that the average woman’s into 85 year old men but. Whatever.

Another is that some feel men can live without a woman in his life and be happy. As where… A woman needs a man. I don’t believe that…. I think women who NEED a man… are red flags. Verses someone who just genuinely wants you.

[cherrytreeblossom]

yeah there's been this concept at least since sigmund freud and all the bs he's been spouting over the years, in this case how women are envious of men bc of their little peckers. lol! no, why would want to be in severe, black-out-level pain when i'm hit there? total liability. and since the advent of the modern toilet and regular showers, there's not even small aspects that i'd want.

anyone can restart at any time, it's just that most people are (intellectually) lazy. if you've been cared for 90% of your life, you tend to get lazy and if you've been ordering people around for the majority of your life, you tend to get grossly incompetent at living on your own, that's why we see women "fleeing" into new marriages, whereas men at worst "flee" into new jobs when they get fired or try all kinds of new things when their old hobby gets boring or impossible to do due to age or injuries.

moral of the story: you've got to do sth with your life. no lifers have all the problems, all-lifers are left to solve all the problems.

[TwoDecisions]

Nah I think women suffer from toxic femininity (which includes the jealousy in-between women) not jealousy towards men.

And women can start over too, what you on about? You mean children? Well just because a man can doesn't mean he should. I know everything is often blamed on women (almost as everything gets blamed on Dems even tho they ain't in charge) but men shouldn't be creating baby when they old either. Just because sperm is swimming doesn't mean it is quality.

No one needs anyone, a man doesn't need a woman and a woman doesn't need a man. One won't die without.

[Summeroflove]

No I agree…. These women claim to stand up for one another…. But stab one another in the back.

Not all women are like this. Just like not all men are toxic… but some are. And the women screaming toxic masculinity tend to be the worst. But then don’t think women can be toxic. Lol

[Summeroflove]

People blame everyone for their problems…. Men and women who are narcissistic. When they cheat it’s never their fault they had sex with someone.

[TwoDecisions]

@summeroflove

Both women and men are effected by their environment. Toxic masculinity and feminity are remences from decades before us. We don't just erase decades of taught behaviour, changes take time, so it's not always about just "narcissist" women and men but something more complex.

But you're right, there are people who find it easier to blame their problems on everyone else because that is a lot easier. Not that it makes them narcissistic per say.

[Summeroflove]

But as adults people have to realize the choices they make. Narcissists just genuinely don’t feel any empathy, don’t feel guilt, shame, etc. They care about their public image so they may mask things.

I agree, many people have traits things passed through generations. Many people also learn from relationships around them especially their parents and other immediate family. If their relationships are toxic, they may think that’s normal.

[Summeroflove]

The issue is…. When they become adults. They choose not to change those patterns even when they realize they are wrong. They tend to double down and make excuses for themselves.

People can only be ignorant for so long. Willful stupidity is the downfall of many people.

[TwoDecisions]

@summeroflove

Yes and no. We are all products of our environments. That we as adults don't always choose right doesn't mean we are narcissistic. That diagnosis is used way to much today and it shouldn't be.

Social heritage is a thing. There are people out there that don't know their "pattern" is wrong. People can be ignorant till the day they die.

[Summeroflove]

I get people overuse narcissist. Especially narcissists. Sometimes people also are describing things that aren’t nonral… but are something else.

[Summeroflove]

People as adults choose who they are. Some people been through a lot of shit and aren’t bad people.

It’s like…. Even child molesters excuse their behavior because someone else did that to them…. Obviously that’s a extreme example.

But people do this. And once someone knows the reason behind it and don’t make any effort to change. Just make excuses. They just want to be that way.

[Summeroflove]

There are lots of well meaning people too. People who grew up in healthy environments and are good people. Can unfortunately project their own goodness onto others.

They can’t understand why someone would hurt someone or take advantage of someone willfully.

And that can break someone… and they can either learn or they can become dark evil people themselves. Not everyone does.

[beefcakebradybatson]

The relations between the sexes is getting like grade school where girls and boys talk about the other's yuckiness !!!

[DishLady]

(Can I just ask why this is a dating question?)

[Summeroflove]

Needed to post it somewhere.

[Anonymous]

I’m sure some are, but I don’t think most women are jealous of men, just like most men aren’t jealous of women. There are some people who are born women who identify as men, and some people who are born men who identify as women, but that’s different than toxic jealousy of the opposite gender.

[Summeroflove]

Not most no. Women who say stuff like that tend to live in toxic echo chambers. And they tend to be the most hateful towards women who disagree with them.

Even more so then they are with men.

[Anonymous]

Only their PERCIEVED place of a man. A lot of women have a very warped view of a man's place in society. Women feel that men have had an upper hand for a couple millenia. And to be fair I can understand WHY they would think that. But that is the problem. Women don't get with power comes responsibility. Now women today try to do the same jobs as men but then get angry that they don't feel they wield the same power. They want a pat on the back and a thumbs up just for doing what men have done for the last 2 Millenia and never have recieved a pat on the back or a thumbs up. They missed the most basic thing about being a man. 99% of men will toil in obscurity. Men do not run the world (at least not most of us), we just do our part to keep it running.👍

[Noredcarpet]

Yes agree, there are groups of women who hates men and groups of men that hate women, they find each other and may think they speak for the rest of their gender but they don't, so. They find all sorts of reasons, excuses for it. It's useless. Some live hate as it brings them energy but not good for others or themselves in the long, and doesn't amount to a healthy solution.

Yes, agree to if you can't stand being without a partner that is a red flag.

[MissSunshine2]

Agreed about most of it. Except about jealousy. I think it’s more a combination of two feelings; some women like some men, fear the other sex. Their power over them and some gays and lesbians feel competitive.

[AngryCarl2]

Well I think a woman needs a man and a man needs a woman (assuming straight orientation, obv.). If that makes everyone a walking red flag then so be it.

[slatyb]

This is all a figment of your imagination. Women love men who treat them like human beings.

[Anonymous]

Who told you we need men lol I've been living my whole life without any males around me

[wkhan_87]

Sure?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah pretty sure that isn’t something i’d forget🤣

[wkhan_87]

It is rare case lol ,
I thought women need men more than we need women hh

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you think women need men? As far as i know men are the ones depending on women for everything even their food lol

[wkhan_87]

Some women told me that lol

[wkhan_87]

And why you think we are depends on women for foods?
So many restaurants available

[Opinion Owner]

Many men tell their wives they prefer “house meals” and expect women to cook for them…

[wkhan_87]

Well , if you don't like men around you, it's all you.
You are different lady than most ladies
Best of luck 🤞

[Opinion Owner]

I live a good life thanks to that u enjoy life too🤣🫶

[wkhan_87]

Great 👍,, but i think you will change with the age

[Summeroflove]

Lol. People on this website…. Genuinely, women who are happy being single don’t hate men. They see men as people. Maybe they don’t want a relationship. Maybe they aren’t attracted to anyone. The list goes on

[Summeroflove]

It’s just bitter angry women…. That’s it. Who can’t get the men they want and have a sense of entitlement.

I don’t want a woman who just needs me. Why? Because that isn’t genuine love. That isn’t a real connection verdes someone who wants me

[Summeroflove]

As far as cooking and house work goes. If the woman’s staying home I agree…. Unless they man enjoys cooking but he shouldn’t be forced to.

But if both people are working. It isn’t fair to put everything on one partner. Unless you have split roles.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Some are, but some men are jealous of women.

[ponderingpaul]

Grass is always greener on the other side of the fence

[CuriousMufuxka]

Yep. And if they could just master the whole pissing while standing up thing..

[Flower7]

No, it’s the other way around.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Not really

[Summeroflove]

Yeah it depends on the person. Not all women or men are like that.

[wkhan_87]

Women generally jealous of women

[Zionne]

uhmm whattt?

[Iron_Man]

Yes…