Would it make you feel annoyed if your partner is jealous in a childish way? I mean, if she tells you that i got jealous and be grumpy about it in a cute way? Or is it better to not show any sign of jealousy?
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A jealous girlfriend is the worse. Always suspect even tho you aren't guilty of anything. Questioning everything. Never believing the truth. A jealous girlfriend or boyfriend even, spend more time trying to snoop and catch their S. O. doing something wrong then they do trying to contribute to the relationship. If they would invest that time and energy into making the relationship better than there would be no reason to be jealous. If your S. O. is doing things that make you jealous you need to bring it up or leave. I mean staying in a relationship that isn't making you happy is like going to a job everyday that you hate and you bitch and complain everyday but yet you don't look for another job.
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If my girlfriend doesn´t get jealous in certain situations, like at looking at other women at the pool or in city, I´ll assure you I´m about our relationship. Because this would give me the feeling like she doesn´t care.
But there are situations where I´d have a problem with that kind of behavior for example if I talked to a female waitress or saleswoman and I just want to be nice to her for a moment.
Generally speaking I don´t mind jealous women and I feel like sometimes it´s a good sign. It´s one of the key things I need to know about a woman while dating. But it´s not a dealbreaker for me.
Jealousy means you care.
I made my ex jealous dancing with another female. Not a guy, a girl!
Its cute but don't take it to the extreme
I. e. be mad for 3 seconds and then move on from it forever.
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No. I’ve dealt with having jealous partners. You think it’s cute until they start accusing you of everything and trying to control you.
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Men like a bit of jealousy to make them feel desired the same way women do. The problem is when jealousy becomes obsession
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Proper jealousy is toxicity incarnate, for both girls and guys. I've seen many a relationship turning into a living hell just because one (or both) of the parties would not allow the other to see people of the opposite gender, even as friends, or even worse demanding access to the other's electronics so that they could check their messages and emails.
As far as "small time jealousy", yes it can be cute, and it's inevitable at times. I do not like it, at all, but I wouldn't end a relationship over it. -
Jealousy is a lack of trust, and without trust, there can be no real relationship.
Any 'childish' jealousy is not 'cute' but rather immature and pathetic, a sign of someone not ready for a relationship.
I won't put up with it, and it is "bye, bye!" -
Depends on the guy. Some will get repelled by it, some don’t care, and some will create situations that trigger a jealous response from a partner just because they like the attention.
You should probably understand why you’re jealous and if it’s a problem talk to your partner about it. If the two of you care enough about each other you will then work towards making things better. -
There are positive and negative forms of jealousy. I've had girlfriend's be jealous and it let to them starting arguments with me. I've had other girlfriend's who got jealous and sought to remind me why I'm with them over other girls.
The second was far better for the relationship. So in my mind the right form of jealousy is good for the relationship. All about how it manifests. Do I like jealousy? Not really. Am I okay with it? Yes, it's just an emotion like any other. -
No, it’s suffocating. Never once cheated on anyone I dated, but I’ve been accused plenty. It’s normal to be territorial when you see a proposed threat, but that can easily be alleviated from a simple conversation. If I see she’s jealous, I’ll naturally go out of my way to make her feel more secure. Then everything is fine. A jealous person can be a lot to handle though.
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Not really no. My ex was so jealous that she committed felonies and broke in to private company email just to check on me. She was abusive in the extreme.. and she had rules for me like she was allowed to watch porn, and sex scenes in movies, but i was not permitted.. FUCK THAT.
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No. Jealousy breeds contempt. There is no 'good version' of it. If one is legitimately jealous for a good reason, the relationship is in trouble. If there is no good reason for it, it strains the relationship unnecessarily. It doesn't matter if you're 'cute' about it or not.
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A touch of jealousy can be cute and show she cares, and I think most people like that. But too much and it gets annoying. All things in moderation.
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jealous=insecure; insecure=clingy; clingy=obsessive; none of these things are attractive. Its not "cute" and only really insecure people like it when their partner is jealous because they think that it is a sign they really love them. It's not-its a sign someone is insecure, clingy and obsessive.
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That depends on what makes them jealous, and of course the manner by which they express that jealousy. It's nice feeling important, but anyone giving me shit about allegedly flirting with the cashier would find herself single faster than she could say "I'm a pathetically insecure woman".
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To a degree jealousy could be okay. However, let me explain an extreme example experienced by a coworker. He ends up unable to come to work sometimes for multiple days because his girlfriend is so jealous and wants him home with her that she would be retaliate by cheating if he goes to work.
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Doubt jealousy is a good thing in a relationship as you should be able to trust your partner, if you can't then why are you with that person then
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Jealousy is a response sometimes it is warranted, but when it is not it is more than just annoying it is destructive. Being committed in your relationship is good, but making false accusations or trying to steal back attention are not. If you need attention ask for time together. If time that isn't yours is spent elsewhere as long as that isn't in an opposing relationship then there is no use getting jealous.
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A little, because it shows that you care, but ONLY a little.
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No both my exes told me direct they were jealous things seem to be easy and rolling along for me but they struggle... i say some things outta my hands as much as i do anyways... they keep whinnning i moved on... toxic jealousy sucks only a very few times did either give me the type jealous advice guys actually like that part i do anyway... jealous advice almost never gave just powting and powting
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As long as it's a little bit of jealousy. That means she cares. I've dated someone who was highly insecure about anything and tried to suffocate me. Didn't take a while before I dumped her.
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Really not.
I hardly dislike jealous women. Be more free with your boyfriend. i like kind, intelligent, bighearted and interactive type women.
I don’t think other boys like jealous girls too. In most of the case that is. -
As long as it doesn't turn into a problem in the relationship, or gets out of hand. eg her forbiding you to even just speak to other women. It would be kinda cute.
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Sometimes it can be sexy, as long as she;s not psychotic about it
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