What age did you have your first kiss?

[cherrytreeblossom]

it's been a hot topic at school this week

[Anonymous]

Never kissed a girl and I’m 40 now. Someone may read this and assume - maybe he’s horribly ugly, overweight, something must be wrong with him. I’m 5’8, decent looking, athletic build, university graduate, work 2 government jobs, funny, unique, enjoy sports, video games, travelling, girls in school were usually taken, met girls online and it didn’t click because of her personality or position in life. I’m on the boat as one of those cases of wrong place/wrong time or a good person being used.

I’m well aware of talking stages not going further if someone’s not feeling a “vibe”. I never had sex either, I don’t pursue a woman just simply for sex so I was never a fuck boy growing up. I think people’s perception of me was “oh I didn’t think you can do that”. I’ll give an example -

1) as a 5’8 guy, “I didn’t know you could jump high and touch a basketball rim” so people assumed I’m bad at basketball

2) “oh wow you’re strong, I didn’t know you can lift that”. As a guy at my height, people will assume I’m not strong

3) “I didn’t know you bought this food for the office, you don’t seem like the type to”. This comes across as stupid because I donate and help others in need. Just because I have a resting Mitch face as a guy doesn’t mean I’m some angry troll.

End of the day I wish I could mean a girl I find beautiful or pretty in my eyes and give her a kiss, I mean a proper lock in kiss. I would never resort to asking out a hooker or going to a strip club for sexual favours, because I find that incredibly unhealthy and pointless. I want to find true love one day and kiss that special woman.

[Zack-Bann]

I had 2 first kisses both at 22.


The first time was a night time bonfire at a beach we were playing dare games and a friend of mine was dared to kiss me so she did.


The second time was a date.
Funny enough it was also on a beach at night but it was a horrible date and the girl went psycho shortly afterwards


So while second one is technically my first real kiss
I prefer the story of the first one because at least I shared it with someone I liked and who liked me even if as a friend. And it felt sweeter and more sincere in a way


I kissed tons of girls since then and very few came close

[Razp_Sorbet]

Officially 13
But I accidentally kissed my friend when I was like 5 lol

[cherrytreeblossom]

what do you mean, "accidentally" :D
how does one even accidentally do that haha

[Razp_Sorbet]

We were playing pretend as a family mum and kid or something and I went to air kiss her good bye and she went to do the same thing at the same time so it ended up being a real kiss lol

[DishLady]

3… 3.5… I was the flower girl and he was the ring bearer.

[cherrytreeblossom]

so cute! did he "kiss the bride", or did you want to imitate the marrying couple?

[DishLady]

I don't know, we were both dumb kids. All I recall is that we looked at each other for a second and smiled then leaned in toward each other and everyone clapped and shouted. Probably our moms or the brides maids conned us into it. Afterwards he took my hand and dragged me to the dessert table where we had lots of chocolates. Lucky me, haha.

[cherrytreeblossom]

d'aww, he seems like a good boy :)
still weird why your moms or brides maids roped you into this
VERY weird
if he came up with it on his own or you did, cute. and i really hope so bc he then took you to eat some nice desserts.

[Chazmatazz269]

I don’t remember precisely. I remember the girl, that it was summertime and we were in my room playing “house”. I think i was between eight and ten. If i recall correctly she was just a few months older. She would point that out whenever we disagreed about something. Superior age is seniority in Kiddom. Ell oh ell! At least it used to be, way back in the day.

[ohsheeT]

I was 14 and it was really stupid because I didn't really want to kiss her lol.. she wasn't my type.. but I did it because my friends where there and they all liked her for the wrong reasons

[cherrytreeblossom]

your friends liked your girlfriend? female friend? acquaintance? for all the wrong reasons?
can you explain?

[ohsheeT]

They were older than me and the girl had really big boobs. 1 day she saw us standing out in front of my friend's house and my friend, and I had been talking about sleeping in his backyard. There was supposed to be a meteor shower or something, so she started talking to us. He told her that we were going to be sleeping out in the backyard and that she should come over she said OK

When she left, I asked my friend, how come you did that and he goes, don't you like her? And I go no, not in that way. And he goes well, I like her, I said, yeah, I could only tell he goes, dude. She has big boobs , make out with her and get your hands up in there. So she came over that night, we were sleeping out in the back yard, and my friend was trying to get her to kiss me and blah blah blah, and at the same time trying to pick up on her and I didn't want to do that with her, because I didn't want her. To think I'd like her that way

[AviatorTom]

I was 10, at a friend's birthday party.

[Billybob46]

@AviatorTom Mine was at a friend's birthday party too, except the birthday girl rigged the kissing game so that her friend could kiss me.

[Lliam]

I think I was 12. We went on a class outing one weekend to the mountains during Christmas break.
Girls and boys slept in separate cabins but we all got together on Friday evening.
We played spin the bottle and when it pointed at me, a girl came forward to kiss me.
When she did, I loosened my lips but, for some reason, had my jaws clenched and I felt her tongue run across my teeth. I realized how badly I had screwed up and was embarrassed, but she didn't say anything. I learned my lesson, though.

The next time I kissed a girl, when I was 14, I did it right.

[RingOfFire]

We were 12. We hung out together since we were little kids. We were at her parents beach house in the Hamptons and it was a very romantic sunset on the beach. The kiss was unforgettable... a first for both of us.

A few years later we went our separate ways and I never saw her again. Our house there is still in the family and I got a call from my family member who lives there now that she stopped by a couple of years ago on a walk and asked about me and left her number... her parents had passed away and she and her husband inherited that house where we kissed on the beach. I can only imagine that what prompted her was that she remembered the kiss as well as I do. It was really sweet.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

3rd grade in the forest behind school. We static zapped eachother when our lips touched lol

Helped my confidence a lot because i wasn't popular which was startingbto give me what some people saw as a rough personality and she was the most popular girl. We dated from that day till the 5th grade.

was silly but those were good days. She convinced mom to have my birthday at the house, she baked a cake and brownies which was fucking awesome.

[Kaneki05]

No idea, will say I am not much a fan of kissing it hasn't ever really felt like anything to me therefore hasn't stuck with me. Which should be odd since I remember every girl I've interacted with. Must've happened in primary though? There is 3 I may have or not kissed.

[aaron13547]

When I was like 7 a girl I thought had "cooties" tackled me on the playground and kissed me. Its pretty funny now thinking back... that was the first time i received a kiss, lol

My first time trying to do the kissing and receive it back I was like 12 or 13.

[exitseven]

I was 16. There was a girl I liked and we hung out a lot over the summer. One day we were at the beach sitting on a big rock. I took hold of her hand and she did not pull it away. We sat for a while and then I decided I was going for it. I leaned over and kissed her. She kissed me back. Soon we were kissing each other. After about a half hour she tells me she had to go home for dinner.

[uzumymw]

My first kiss was at 8 years old. First kiss on the cheek was younger. My school was wild though. People were doing intimate things at a young age.

[cherrytreeblossom]

damn! now i'm afraid to ask

[uzumymw]

Definitely too graphic to just post out in the open lol
Anyway first kisses are something that stick with you as is any first and savor that.

[serious]

I never had my first kiss and neither will that ever happen. Anyways I find french kiss very disgusting.

[cherrytreeblossom]

i used to be the same, until i met the right person

[serious]

Well, we have our opinions and situations are not the same for everyone. As for the right person, my understanding of that right person is different and it is logical also.

Logical in the sense that I have standards both in terms of physical looks and personality also. Hence if the person fulfils both my physical and personality standards then that is the right person for me. Not otherwise.

[cherrytreeblossom]

i never claimed otherwise

[serious]

It's okay. No problem

[Pterodon]

I was in the eighth grade and she was in seventh. She was my first official girlfriend. The kiss was an embarrassing disaster

[cherrytreeblossom]

oh no, what happened?

[Purpleronnie]

We were both 12 , her name was Nikki and she tasted like strawberries ( lip balm )


She asked me to be her boyfriend right after
… We lasted a week 😂

[Anonymous]

Age 5 for my first little girl kiss from a boy in kindergarten, age 12 when a boy put his tongue in my mouth and felt me up.

[cherrytreeblossom]

oh, i'm so sorry to hear! that must've been dreadful for you!
i hope it didn't leave you shocked and scared for too long?
i send you all my best wishes and hugs <3

[firenine909]

What’s the story behind that and how did you feel about it?

[unsteadydreadfeeling]

My first kiss and is was very confused since is was stole by one guy. bit sure if was proper kiss on lips or checks.

[cherrytreeblossom]

sorry, when exactly did it happen? too many typoes snuck in for me to understand

[unsteadydreadfeeling]

@cherrytreeblossom. i think my first kiss was stolen by one ex boyfriend that verbal abuser and did lovebomb me. not sure is happen a long term ago. when i was 13 year old. I'm not sure with . just been my experience so far with men. that has happen at learning disabilities school and high school

[cherrytreeblossom]

oh no, i'm so sorry for you!
i hope you're doing better nowadays and that you'll find a much better man soon <3

[Levin]

14. Her breath was traumatising.

Then she said to me she never knew anyone with such good breath.

[miana]

22, felt right out of a fantasy in the rain on our first date.

[WhitneySnow]

Thirteen with a girl (my BFF), fourteen with a guy (my first boyfriend)

[firenine909]

What led you to kiss your best friend?

[WhitneySnow]

@firenine909 she kissed me first

[firenine909]

How did it happen and how did you feel about?

[WhitneySnow]

@firenine909 I don’t really feel like getting into all that. It was a long time ago. But thank you for asking.

[firenine909]

I’ll just call it your experimental phase and move on then

[WhitneySnow]

@firenine909 sounds good!

[itsnaoxornever]

tbh my best friend kissed me in kindergarten. I don't know if she knew what she was doing but i'm not counting that one 😭 sixteen is my answer

[4ngelic]

for a full on on the lips kiss, pretty late. was 16 if a girl counts, 17 for a guy.

[aceleon]

6: got my first kiss

7: be the one who did the kissing

[Mynameisbobby]

13 she was 12 we were at a carnival and I won her a stuffed dog. We went behind food truck and kissed.

[mrkdvsn]

As far as I know, my 1st mouth-to-mouth "French" kiss didn't happen till I was almost 23. Instigated by HER while being pushed up against a refrigerator at a co-workers house.

[FunkyMonkee]

About 3 weeks before I turned 25. She was my first everything.

[DMC93]

16 at a summer camp. We met on the bus and after a week or so she gave me a kiss on the cheek when we were at the pool after she wrapped herself in a towel. But then one time our lips did touch and it was amazing.

[Mark987]

My real first kiss I was 13. She taught me how to french kiss.

[AngryCarl2]

My first "proper" kiss, I think I was 21.

[Dnice1]

I was 20 years old. It happened on my my front porch swing.

[Kelly6]

@cherrytreeblossom hard to remember but I'll say age 9-10

[LiamJHayden]

First "romaqntic" one was on my 14th birthday.

[LiamS95]

i was 12 when I kissed the girl of my dreams.

[NerdGuy89]

36, never been kissed. Probably never will be.

[Billybob46]

8, at a friend's party where we played the kissing game, and the birthday girl helped rig it to where I drawed the name of her friend.

[Persephone02]

21 but it was horrible.

[cherrytreeblossom]

owww, i'm sorry to hear that. wanna talk about it? (so i can avoid doing the same thing)

[Persephone02]

The guy kissed me at a bar with wet sweaty lips. It was so gross.

[cherrytreeblossom]

ewww
i didn't know lips could get sweaty!
thanks for telling me

hope it didn't ruin your night tho

[Persephone02]

It didn't. I just moved on with my friends to another bar.

[Anonymous]

Never had one , I kissed a guy on the cheek in school, but I was so young I doubt that counts

[queenofcardio]

In my teenage years

[Paige90]

I was 13 or 14

[loveslongnails]

Your age for my first REAL kiss.

[KostasKouvalis]

Like 6 or 7. Her name was Claudia

[Drumlin2001]

I was 35

[Chazmatazz269]

😂😂😂😂

[cherrytreeblossom]

@Chazmatazz269 hey, no laughing 😠
i was the one asking a question and @Drumlin2001 shared his story with us out of his own kindness

thanks @Drumlin2001

[jamesgoldman]

Eight

[cherrytreeblossom]

on the cheeks doesn't count ;)
or was it not?

[jamesgoldman]

It was an ill-fated relationship that lasted less than an a day but the kiss was the only notable thing in it

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

11 or 12.. I think it was 12 though

[Sunshinelips]

I was 10

[beenherebefore]

I was 11.

[Nicktx14x]

6yrs old... Behind the piano

[Badwomen]

8 years old

[oldman26]

Did it mean anything

[Badwomen]

@oldman26 not really

[sage2021]

I was 13

[PostHocFallacy]

20, it was good

[MissSunshine2]

Eighteen

[LazerBean]

I was 19

[Miristheiss]

9 or 10.

[zombiewoof]

Fourteen

[zombiewoof]

Have you had yours yet

[cherrytreeblossom]

working on it >_<

[zombiewoof]

You got this

[CountryWanderer]

I was 27

[Shortkay45685]

Maybe around 15

[marish01]

34. Never

[Staximus]

2nd grade

[jahaims]

Nineteen

[TonyMetal___86]

At the age of 19

[888theGreat]

8 I think

[Raydergman26]

32 years old