Guys, would you date an 18 year old who has already a kid?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Probably not. To much completion w the child as far as being able to randomly take her in a trip or a date. Kid gets sick plans cancelled. Kid always comes first. Now I will say a lot of men would try to date her if she’s cute in hopes of sleeping w her.

[idekJeremiah07]

Honestly, yes. At teen age people do stupid things if she’s nice and have a great personality yes why not? The child doesn’t effect the relationship, and if you can’t accept the child it’s you who are the problem because if you love a girl you love all that comes with it, if you need to vent just text me I’ll try to reply just don’t stress yourself with immature behavior like them, no matter the age of it, there is zero reason I man should have your WHOLE past before trying to get to know you, it’s not their business the situation, accept it or don’t, and yes you are also accepting the kid. If they don’t, then they aren’t worth your time anyway.

[Summeroflove]

I can’t answer that. It depends on her situation

[Asker]

What do you need to know?

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. Who she is now…. How she got pregnant. Random hookups? A ex boyfriend? Rape?

[Summeroflove]

Maybe she made some choices but she’s matured.

I don’t know 18 is pretty young for me. Even though I’m 23. But

[Asker]

From a friends with benefits... I used birth control but wasn't taking it properly... Then ignored early pregnancy symptoms until it was basically too late

[Summeroflove]

I mean…. That’s always a risk unless you get tubes tied or basically spayed. Even taking birth control can fail and many times does especially if someone’s engaging in sexual activity a lot.

[Summeroflove]

I mean…. I would ask. Do you still have friends with benefits? At the time you were still young.

If someone still casually slept around. No I wouldn’t pick them.

[Asker]

I know but I was stupid back then I took it almost every day at a different time I thought it can't matter that much and on some days I even forgot but I kept having sex almost daily. After I gave birth I got the hormone implant instead where this can't happen anymore and it has worked well for the last 2 years for me

I still have casual sex and I understand

[Summeroflove]

Then I wouldn’t pick someone still sleeping around. Regardless of the child issue…. There is the STD risk.

As well as the fact some women have gotten pregnant by other men and passed it off as another man’s. Not that most women would do that….. but there is some.

[Summeroflove]

There’s men too who intentionally will get women pregnant.

I mean…. Last thing I need. Is to have a kid that isn’t mine unknowingly date his/her sibling or cousin and have six toed kids running around.

[FunkyMonkee]

Been there, done that. My first girlfriend had one at 16 and we started seeing each other a few weeks before she turned 19.

[uzumymw]

Sure, depending on her maturity and if there's any drama from it

[Berethor]

The turn-off that she is a single mom would likely outweigh the turn-on that she is 18.

[HighValue]

No. I'm not interested in single mothers at all.

[Vegasrunner]

Hell no. Single moms are for recreational use only.

[Anonymous]

No. She's be almost a 3rd of my age. And no self respecting guy is going to CHOOSE a woman who already has a kid. Especially at 18.

[jahaims]

Only cucks and simps accept that kind of baggage

[zombiewoof]

I would have

[zombiewoof]

I dated a few nice ladies with children

[Jeff51]

Nope

[In_Trance]

No way