Why are so many women shallow?

[Anonymous]

about 50% of women set their dating profile preferences to 6 feet or above. That describes about 15% of men. Because that makes sense you’re trying to go for a pool where there is only enough for not even a third of you. Ridiculous. and over, probably the most vain thing. Something that a person has zero control over.

[Anonymous]

The illusion of feeling/thinking they can have it all.

The "patriarchy" has ruled for a couple of millenia. Or that's what today's feminism has convinced women. I say "today's feminism" because feminism is about equality, and that's not what today's feminism is about. It's about subjugating men. I'm not suggesting women want to do that. But today's feminism has convinced women that men are enemy (and to be fair a lot of men feel that way about women as well).

But the point is today's women want a men but only and completely on her terms. But the REALITY is NOBODY can have it all (be that men or women). And the "patriarchy" really only benefitted a small segment of men. Women think getting out of the house and into the workplace meant they'd become masters of their own destiny. And some have realized (and some have not) that it only makes them master of a pay heck. Same of what men have always known. It comes more with expectations and responsibility than anything.

So if you think women are shallow? Some are, but most of them grow out of that as they mature. But we're at a time in history where women have more control than they ever have (which isn't a bad thing) but a lot of them think that now they can control men. It just doesn't work that way is all. And if women have one fatal flaw. It's that most of them would double down on a mistake than back up and re-evaluate.

I think things will eventually normalize but it's going to take acouple generations. But till then unfortunately I'm afraid both women and men aren't going to be very happy.

Sorry man. That's just the way it is. But don't waste your time getting angry about this. Just be you, and forge a life without women until one comes a long that is reasonable and recognies your worth. Those women are out there, i promise you man.

[uzumymw]

There are plenty of women that don't only want a tall guy. I'm 6'5 and have been shot down because I was too tall and the height difference would have made it uncomfortable. You'll find someone!

[bobalife]

I think it’s overrated about a women wanting a guy 6 ft tall lol. Some women prefer someone near their height and I’ve seen it plenty of times. If anything, I think this is a common insecurity… both men and women are allow to have preferences and like what they like whatever they may look like. And you should focus on meeting someone who will like you for you & work on focusing building your confidence instead :)

[bobalife]

Whoopsie woman* 🥹

[Asker]

I am not saying every woman is like this, but it’s a statistical fact that about 50% set their height preferences to rule out 85% of men. That’s nuts. Ask for me, I don’t care if she’s 5 feet or 6 feet, I guess ideally it’s probably good if we’re close to the same height, but it’s not a deal record.

[Asker]

breaker

[PeachyPie93]

How is that true when most men I hangout with as a teen were 6'.. Plus if you are 5'10 and above you can say 6' and the bitch won't even know lol

[Spencer10]

You know in my opinion if you are dating and already have a negative pre conceived notion about an entire gender you are unlikely going to be successful.

[Nikki1989]

LMAO.

Dating profiles?

Perhaps, get up off the couch and experience the real world, and you might get somewhere.

[In_Trance]

For the same reason so many men are

[Brady]

They can choose what they like.