Why are most girls so shallow?

[Anonymous]

Most, (Obviously some are not) only want to date men who have money or are goodlooking. Young women date the "bad boys" and they only turn to the nice guys after their hearts got broken 50 times with the "bad boy" types. Only then do they come to the nice guys. It just shows how most women are shallow. They don't care about personality, they want money and looks. They only use the nice guy. I think men should just stop dating women, maybe it'll show them to not treat us as such pushovers.

I know what a lot of you girls gonna say. "Well your just an ugly guy that's why no girls go near you" but your wrong. I'm not hot but I'm not bad looking either. I've had sex with a few different girlfriends and I dated one or two really good looking ones. It's the other guys I mainly see this happen to.

[Anonymous]

I don't have many friends because I find a lot of girls to be lost inside and too focused on the material things. I am a very deep person and I cry easily because I am sensitive to other people's feelings, including my own. The first guy I dated was unhealthy and didn't have much money. He drove a junky car. Etc. But he had a good heart, so that's why I fell in love. I left him because he did not make time for me and I eventually realized that I was no longer important to him. So it was never about his looks or money. Our physical bodies change but who we are inside does not, so that's why I see through the outside and focus on who you are and the vibe I get from you. So bottom line, I am sorry for what you have been through and I can sympathize with you for having gotten intimate with people who are not ready for real, deep relationships for the right reasons. I exist however, and I believe that other people like me must too.

[Izumiblu]

Most people whether guys or girls are more interested in someone that is attractive. Like it or not, money is a big part of a long term relationship. It's foolish to not acknowledge that. No money creates unneeded stress and issues. Being nice is a very low bar to hit honestly. If that's what you are known for is being nice then you don't have much to offer.

[NyomiMcClinton]

Some females are shallow as well as men. It goes both ways here. You have men who are BIG on what a female looks like and her body type. Men are shallow big time. Noone talks about it and overlooks it. Because its considered a female trait to be shallow.

[Anonymous]

I don't know I find dating in general these days has gotten rather horrible. there aren't really a lot of obvious ways for a guy to be successful anymore if he doesn't have a great body or a lot of money. inter racial dating is also surging in some areas , leaving white guys mostly undesirable by the white girls who they'd normally date.
perhaps its a temporary downward trend for dating and it will get better at some point in the future but I'm not holding out a lot of hope