Why would most men refuse to date a woman that’s 6ft?

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I mean I’m 6ft and dating is shit for me. Guys reject me, shun me and leave before dates start.

I’ve always been a bigger girl and. I guy has looked my way especially the guys I had a crush humiliated me. They always preferred slimmer fit girls and shorter girls.

I went from 260lbs to 245”lbs in high school. 5’10-6ft. My guy friend is the only one that found me beautiful even if I was obese (he was a fat tall teenager too) I ended up going to prom with him twice because guys rejecting me, humiliated me and already had dates or girlfriends. We’re still in contact today. My parents like him and I may have to consider giving him a chance and he’s way better than the jerks I liked and dated) I told him and them were just friends.

My older brother said he’s been by my side since DAY ONE and he’s always been the man for me but I am to stubborn and blind to see that. He LIKES me and he’s trying to impress me and get my attention. He said, “Why do you think he’s been texting you more often and always behaving a certain way when guys talk to you? He wants you DUH.”
Even if guys insulted my weight he stood by men and thought I was more beautiful than the gorgeous skinny girls. He never cared for the fit, slim gorgeous girls. Only chased fat me. He is 6’1, chubby but lost some weights.

After losing weight (got down to 178lbs) Had two boyfriends (6’0 and 5’7), one dumped me and one cheated on me with a petite, skinnier girl. Dates are a disaster. Two months ago I went in a date with a guy that was 5’3 and that was a disaster. Made comments on how HUGE I am.

I guess I’m just going to stay single for a while. I’m pushing 30 and not one single guy likes me! Guys I want won’t look at me! Now I am 219lbs getting back into shape.

Master_Debator · Accepted Answer

You're a fat... it's not your height. Deal with that or continue to only pull men that cheat on you AKA not valueing you. I'm not trying to be mean... I'm just telling you the truth. Dating shorter guys wasn't going to change anything... too many of you women think dating short or ugly dudes is going to make your sexual value skyrocket just because they are crap...

No... they were crap men before, during, and after you. You know I'm not wrong about that right? We men are what we are before the girl comes into the picture... so you need to deal with that too and stop picking up losers that will make you feel like a loser. I mean you're wasting time and energy giving it up to these guys as some kind of "try" at something more than what they and you are at the moment. Like let's say you get with one guy... how long does it last... let's pretend it's a month... that is a month you wasted with a guy you don't even really like.

So the TL;DR from me is stop fucking with shit men and get yourself into shape. You're life will change for the better if you put a lot of effort into fixing those two things. If you need advice on how that's done... I guess you can ask, but there is ton's of youtube videos out there. I mean if you want to figure out what men hate... start watching those videos of men that hate women... delve into the mind of a MGTOW or some red pill raged dude for a bit and you'll know exactly what not to be to keep a guy. That's all I'm going to say right now.

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

You just explained that you have been sh*tting on a man who has loved you for years. Yet you’re telling yourself guys don’t like you because you’re tall and/or fat?
You are a terrible person. Your outside can’t hide your inside. Men see that. Most people see that. Your “friend” just ignores it because he’s desperate and more than a little codependent. Hopefully he develops some self respect before you decide to settle for him and finish ruining his life.
If you don’t want to die alone, try being a good person for a change.

4ngelic · Accepted Answer

6ft is already tall for a guy, for a girl it's really really tall. most guys are shorter than you or around the same height. plus just like girls want guys to be taller than them typically, men want the women to be shorter than them. also guys typically prefer women who look more feminine and that they can feel more masculine with to some extent, a 6ft women often is pretty imposing, especially if on top of that she's overweight.

though you're not condemned to be forever alone or anything at 6ft, you can get a boyfriend. though please don't settle for your friend, for his and your sake.

at your height, you definitely need to be skinny or you'll look like a line backer. try to get to a bmi of 18-21 ideally, so you can look more feminine, dainty, and attractive. put a lot more effort into your appearance and make an extra effort to look feminine. try to go for guys 5'10+ and especially very tall dudes like 6'4 etc they're much more likely to want to date you since you won't emasculate them as much by being tall. very tall guys are less common in the wild but the internet makes it easier. you could 'passport sis' digitaly to holland as well, the average height there is 6ft. other nordic/baltic countries have much taller averages. the women's averages are much taller, and 6ft is less rare for women. i'm 5'8 and i felt very average height when i went to holland, my 5'10 mom as well.

CrazyKittyCatLady · Accepted Answer

There is plenty of men out there thats not going to care about your height. Everyone has their preferences and some don't care.

Summeroflove · Answer

The only time I have ever had a issue dating a taller woman was if she was the one who had a problem with it. There are women on the taller side who want a man as tall if not taller then her…. which is fine but it does limit her dating pool.

All men are different if someone rejects you the best thing a person can do even when it hurts. Move on…. Obviously they aren’t right for you.

AviatorTom · Answer

I'm guessing your overall size and weight (200+ pounds) is what many guys find as undesirable, not your height. You are obese, which guys interpret as you being unhealthy and insecure.

AI tells me that a 6-foot tall woman should weigh around 160 pounds, which I'm pretty sure most guys would be okay with.

msc545 · Answer

We have really great weight-loss medications now that have very minimal side-effects. Talk to your doctor about using one of these so you can get down to a weight where you feel well and where you are not obese. I'm not sure if that's going to improve your dating life or not, but I think it will improve your outlook to the point where you're able to go on dates and not feel angry or discouraged. Dating is hard for all of us right now, and you are not alone in this. However, I also acknowledge that your physical composition is challenging. But there is a way for you to work around this with some medical help and perhaps some counseling as well.

Hagar88 · Answer

Not the case. Most women refuse to date a guy thats shorter than them. So any woman thats tall requires a man to be taller.

Im 6ft7 so I've never had that problem but I know many guys under 6ft getting rejected by women. Good guys that are in shape, well educated, charming. Though I did date a few 6ft + women. My wife isn't 6ft, hell she isn't even 5ft.

MikeMcMansion · Answer

Before you complain just to let you know how fucked up it is for us, I look decent, 200 lbs ripped and just barely six foot, BUT dating was absolute shit 6 years ago. I had to put 6’1 and simply put big sole inserts into my biggest shoes or boots and wa-la 6’2. I just figured they figured we all had an inch so why was I being honest, When it was keeping me from being seen because of the filter they used

The uno-reversal card. Sexual dimorphism is a bitch best served short.

YourExLover69 · Answer

Although you are taller than me I'd still approach you if you are chatty, romantic, loyal, funny, kind hearted, open minded and we have few things in common together than I'm fine with you. 😊 I don't see any issue with you being taller than me.

Anonymous · Answer

I cannot speak for all guys, but I have a desire to be protector. If you are taller than me, I feel less like a protector and more like the person being protected. I guess some guys don't want to date taller girls for that reason. Whether or not I would date someone taller than me, I don't know. At this point in my life, I have never been in a romantic relationship, and I don't even want to be in one.

tzdc21 · Answer

They most of the time prefer the woman to be shorter than them or as tall as them. Oddly though its usually women who put more if am emphasis on height with dating requirements.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'm 6' 9" so, it wouldn't bother me, at all!! My present girlfriend is 5' 9"!! Suits me just fine! My previous was 5' 3"!

Berethor · Answer

Because a 6ft woman look masculine, it make sense for men to date petite women.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

My guess is short men want less reasons to feel intimidated. I do prefer shorter women personally, but it's not a dealbreaker at all!

Theunfadeable · Answer

All the guys I know like Tall women. It sounds like your problem with the men comes from you being big more so than you being tall.

Bowserforever · Answer

Well being in shape is important to me, but I'd gladly date a girl taller than i am if she meets my requirements

itsnaoxornever · Answer

i know a lot of men who date women taller than them so i don't think it's that

qwerty2469 · Answer

I am 5'5" and I dated a woman that was 5'10". The height doesn't bother me. It's the image of a Chihuahua trying to fuck a grate dane from behind that gets me. I can't stop laughing trying to clime this mommy mountain

slatyb · Answer

insecurity. I would date you if I were single and closer to your age.

Catsandpies · Answer

Damn i always wanted to be taller 🫣 im 5'2 i always wanted to be 5'10 or smth

888theGreat · Answer

Not for me. I like small , petite. I don't want to get a ladder every time I want to kiss her. I never was crazy about Giraffes either.

In_Trance · Answer

Most men would not refuse.  If you read the questions from anonymous users on here they'll bang anything they get the chance to

exitseven · Answer

A lot of guys are insecure. They are afraid they will get laughed at.

Nicole12t · Answer

I think so, i know a lot of guys want to be taller, and there's not too many people i know over 6 foot tall

LiamJHayden · Answer

Insecurity if they are shorter. Or just a preference for shorter women.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Men, who are usually taller than women, are conditioned to desire shorter ladies.

MasterKS · Answer

The more taller girl, the more sexier for me... i love being with them.

Anonymous · Answer

I actually like tall girls, they are more likely to be dominant.

robocop666 · Answer

I would not I am 6 foot tall and I like this in women

jahaims · Answer

It's because you're fat, not because you are tall

Alex-Snow · Answer

I would go for it. Im 5'11

shortster · Answer

They are insecure about their masculinity.

Pohjolan · Answer

Nah you are just fat.

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