Is it normal to still want to date a woman who's obsessive?

[Anonymous]

She's obsessed with me and I enjoy it.

[HollyK21]

Whether that’s normal or not is subjective but it sure doesn’t sound like a good idea. Obsession usually goes hand in hand with mental instability, and there’s nothing hot about being harmed, harassed, stalked, or worse if ever you decided to cut ties.

[Asker]

I can see that, but I also don't want to cut ties, I love the attention.

[HollyK21]

Attentive is one thing, obsessive is an entirely different beast. Tread lightly and be careful.

[Persephone02]

Personally for me I'd rather have someone who was obsessed with me than the total opposite.

[Asker]

It feels really good.

[Persephone02]

It does indeed though I've yet to have someone be obsessed over me like I have over them.

[Asker]

I'm admittedly obsessed with her as well.

[Persephone02]

That's good. It should be equal.

[genericname85]

i can see how the validation you get from it feels nice. you just gotta realize at some point, that a relationship isn't gonna be healthy long term.

[bobalife]

You like what you like. I want someone who’s obsessed & adored me too :)

[Asker]

Her energy matches mine, she's obsessed with me and I'm obsessed with her.

[bobalife]

That’s cute, it’s what I want in a relationship 🥹🥰

[queenofcardio]

A little odd but whatever works for you

[Nikki1989]

Whatever turns your crank.