Would you date an attractive person with zero personality?

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ArrowheadSW · Accepted Answer

Well, I have, but it really didn't work for me. The last woman who I dated. She and I had a lot in common with the outdoor activities and other hobbies. So that was our connection. However she rarely expressed emotion and didn't smile. She liked planting new things in her garden and she asked me to bring her seeds, which I did. (I had a lot of different vegetable seeds.) She never thanked me for the seeds. I had them in zip locks and labelled. Weird. I was supportive of her with her job struggles and I "got it" with how difficult her job could be. No thanks for understanding. After so long I just had to bail from that.

Hardon-Collider · Accepted Answer

There is no such thing. Everyone eventually awakens a personality. Imagine yourself 50 years older. Would you still have "no personality" by then?

Bárbara1402 · Accepted Answer

I would say no. Even though some people are very attractive if their personality is shitty my attraction to them completely disappears. Beauty is what attracts you but the rest is important too and should match your standards so you can vibe with people

MontBlanc · Accepted Answer

Probably not.

Attraction might catch my attention, but personality is what keeps me there.

Looks fade into the background if there’s no depth, humor, or emotional awareness.

Chemistry isn’t just visual, it’s mental and energetic too.

ohsheeT · Answer

I would give it a try just to see what I could do to snap that person out of it, because personally, I need to laugh. I need to have fun and you have to have a personality. Understand my sense of humor so it would be hard , but I would try it once

HawkPerception · Answer

Nope. Not about that life. I need a partner with a compatible personality. Similar views, interests (to the extent that a girl can have similar interests with a guy), sense of humor, aligning goals, sexual compatibility, etc.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course. We're just dating, not marrying. C'mon let's be honest here. Half, or more than half of dating is outward appearance anyways. Even if it doesn't work out with her, which it probably won't just dating her not only means I'm going to get to f*** a hottie. But being seen with her raises my stock in actually dating a woman with a personality down the road.

I don't know how it is with women dating men. But this is the unfortunate REALITY with dating women. Half of dating women is marketing. Women are jealous people and want what other women have. Guys are much more apt to be successful when they play women off other women. Because the majority of dating women is just getting your foot in the door.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

There is no such thing as zero personality?

I assume you're talking about repressed personalities or people with some form of mental impairment, or disorders, or even a combination. Eye-pleasing is one thing, but if there's no mutual understanding, it isn't attractive at all lol.

Rangers · Answer

Everyone has a personality, those who accuse others of not having one is just their way of saying what they like and care about isn't good enough.

Initial attraction doesn't last, I've had by all means hot girls be forward and I felt a sudden desire to be anywhere, but near them. You don't like quiet girls? Suit yourself, cause I do

MikeMcMansion · Answer

Guys do this. These days it seems you all do this. I should know, I’ve been dated by someone with no personality whom later thought I had no personality, really she just thought I was poor and didn’t like my back acne. I later began to use a floufa or whatever you call it, it cleared it up pretty well. Remember guys always use a fouffa if you have backne

Master_Debator · Answer

Maybe once in a while, but I prefer to just have sex with attractive women that have zero personality.

madhatters4 · Answer

no. it wouldn't be worth it investing the time and energy. attraction for me is only a small part of what makes for a successful relationship. i need a deeper connection or attraction than simply the physical

DecentMan · Answer

Vacuous dull people are not attractive in looks or personality honestly, its a combination of the two that makes the attraction.

VioletHaze · Answer

There would be no point at all. In fact, he wouldn't be attractive to begin with. No more attractive than a pretty painting anyhow.

ElenaSeluna · Answer

Nope.. never and I would never do such a thing  personality, personality and personality

OneViewpoint · Answer

Nope. I don't even hang out with attractive people who have zero personality. I don't have the patience for people who add nothing to my life.

Twodogs0525 · Answer

I did once, it was torture. Our relationship died of boredom!

jazzy34 · Answer

Nah. You have to have some depth. LOL. Being fine (as in, attractive) can only take you so far.

NathanDavis · Answer

absolutely not...

Shiprex · Answer

Possibly as long as it was possible to get them to open up. No one has ZERO personality until they get it brought out.

4ngelic · Answer

for a little bit to enjoy their looks but then when it would get annoying i'd dump them

MissSunshine2 · Answer

I already did that. Now I prefer to date better people, or not date at all.

FreyaRed · Answer

Zero personality doesn't exist. It's just often wrong personality

Keyboardkat · Answer

If she has no personality, then what on earth makes her attractive to you?

Unycorn · Answer

Theoretically no. But you never know until you get to know this person.

serious · Answer

The answer is No. For me both physical beauty and personality are important.

capriVib · Answer

Honestly? Yeah, but I wouldn't see it lasting long term.

Berethor · Answer

Men Are Strong, Women Are Pretty Trope, Men usually care about Looks, not Personality.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Well If a really attractive girl asked me out? I am not going to say no. So yes?

bowenw · Answer

A good personality is always the most important trait for me.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Date seriously no, a few dates to get to sex. Sure

Alex-Snow · Answer

I would give it a try and hopefully have some great sex and see where it goes

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Everyone has a personality, if she has a bad ugly attitude and character then I don't care how good she looks, so no.

TallAnon · Answer

Zero personality? That sounds like necrophilia. I'll pass.

MissPiggy2025 · Answer

God no, I have to have a connection with someone and something to actually talk and laugh about

Anonymous · Answer

there is can yaman on the question's cover image, i can't believe it

Anonymous · Answer

No. Back when I was dating, she would have been nothing more than a one night stand..

Nikki1989 · Answer

Nah. Personality is everything.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Definitely not

queenofcardio · Answer

No, sounds like a waste of time

DishLady · Answer

Nope

slatyb · Answer

Not for very long. I need someone I can talk with.

exitseven · Answer

yes but ony for a while. maybe she grows one.

Zionne · Answer

personality is important

Kelly6 · Answer

@clyde_123 Nope

AngryCarl3 · Answer

No, what would be the point?

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Nooooooo. That is no fun

CrazyRay43 · Answer

You can’t be attractive if you have no personality

ItsAshh2009 · Answer

No probably not

msc545 · Answer

What would the point of that be?

shortster · Answer

Yes, I prefer boring people.

sage2021 · Answer

Nope!!

Kelley1 · Answer

Of course

robocop666 · Answer

Like Lucy Pinder

Paige90 · Answer

No I wouldn't

tzdc21 · Answer

Nope

MicahRaine · Answer

Nuh uh 😭

Anonymous · Answer

Attractiveness is also including in personality

Siggie2 · Answer

Never

KostasKouvalis · Answer

No way

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Nope

dudeinohio · Answer

Nope

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Likely not.

CubaPirate · Answer

The hell nooo

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