How badly did I mess up?

[LuciusTheOdd]

I met this woman, a tomboy actually and we hit it off big time, she was gonna ask for my number but i decided to leave.

Is that really a big deal?

[SueShe]

That is not really a big deal. You are just not ready to commit and I hope she understood the situation.

You are still young and there will be plenty of other opportunity to give women (or men) your number. Most of the time anyway, those numbers stay dead and are never called. You have saved yourself probably a lot of headache.

So, you have to think why you decided to leave. You were most probably not ready for the next step. A lot of people chicken out at the last minute and how knows, it is perhaps even better for you in the long run.

If she really want something from you, then she will find a way to contact you again.

[SueShe]

thanks for the MHO

[Zionne]

It’s not the end of the world, but leaving without giving your number might mean missing a real connection, you can’t replay that moment. If you still want to see her, finding a way to reconnect or start fresh is worth a shot. A dating coach for men can give you practical tips on confidently taking action in moments like this so you don’t miss opportunities.

[MrChinaski]

Presumably you chose to leave for a reason? Presumably that reason is still valid? If so, move on.

[LuciusTheOdd]

I’m only asking because basically everybody I know has been going on about it for the past three days, it was literally the first thing I saw on my phone when I woke up this morning.

[Staximus]

How do you know she was going to ask for your number if she didn't ask for it before you left

[Siggie2]

Nope, you can choose yourself who you have contact with. If you don't wanted it anymore, then you did good

[fonduegirl]

Need more details

[In_Trance]

You posted this already

[LuciusTheOdd]

There is only one post on my entire profile and this is that post, I in fact, did not post this already.

[In_Trance]

You did... Duplicate account

[LuciusTheOdd]

I do not have a duplicate account

[Mike_Hum]

well you blew it.

[Alex-Snow]

Your loss dude