Guys, what are some qualities you are/aren't looking for in a woman as someone you want to build a family with (non-physical)?

[bobalife]

I'm curious about the qualities that men look for in someone to build a family with in their future.

[MicahRaine]

A few qualities I'd appreciate:

• Patient
• Intentional
• Seeks a similar relationship dynamic

A few qualities I would avoid:

• Mismatched values/worldview
• Domineering (banter is healthy, but that's different)
• Doesn't like children

The last one sounds like a no-brainer, but I've met too many women who want a family even though they openly dislike kids lol

[bobalife]

I really like your list, I resonate with it😊

[MicahRaine]

Yay 🙌

[Grond21]

Things that I looked for and found in my wife; she is kind, dependable, selfless, willing to put the effort into resolving conflict without letting it deteriorate or be dictated by feelings, loving, wants to have children, has a similar vision on how to raise them and how important they are.

[bobalife]

Aw I’m happy for you 😊

[Grond21]

Thank you! I am a lucky man

[ohsheeT]

Number 1 has to be happy confident. Wise smart has to know how to laugh. Must be able to talk with her eyes. Feel energy and just get along. I mean , it's so easy to do and no drama l o l

[Staximus]

Kind, loving, honest, willing to communicate, common sense, a level head in times of emergency, street smart so I don't have to worry about her all the time, not crazy, not on psych meds, not a current or former alcoholic or drug addict, isn't materialistic or looking for stupid shit that doesn't matter like status

[NathanDavis]

more than anything... they should be 111% on board with it

and actually wanting to become mothers and have a family

[SixFootSexy]

If you're starting a family: Loyalty & Permanence.

70% of divorces in the United States are initiated by women.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Loyalty intelligent a great personality a great sense of humor. Some who is goal oriented and family oriented someone who is nurturing and humble and a lady in the street but a freak in the bed. Now tell me is that you?

[Hopeless30]

If her name is Boba then i ignore everything.
🥰

[bobalife]

That’s very sweet of you 😊

[AgentG111]

Not sure if I'm quite up for answering this. Believe I'm done trying to build a family and just take care of what I have now.

[Still-alive]

Hmm ill have to think on this. Tagging for now so i remember later.

sloww day today!

[Still-alive]

pheww ok im here now. long day.

Anyways to answer your question im not sure i really look much into that in a potential partner at least not at first. All im most concerned with is compatibility. that doesn't mean that stuff isn't important it is, but i would be most concerned with making sure --we-- are well established first.

To throw you a bone though i would say we would have to have been together 2-3 years while we know each other fully through the good AND the bad so we both know how we truly are. We would have to have lived with each other as that can make or break a relationship too. and i would want someone i could depend on for things, like say errands she can run if i can't do it and vice versa for her to. we would need to have each others backs. major major Trust among us. The relationship needs like a major solid foundation of trust before we get to all that raising a family stuff.

THAT would be a person i would feel proud to raise a family with.

Here have a romantic song that demonstrates the 'we need to know each other' point.

www.youtube.com/watch

Hope you're having a great night over there Boba :)

[shortster]

Looking for:
Loyalty
Honesty
Kindness
Wants kids
Avoiding:
Narcissism
Smoking
Has pets
Does drugs

[fuddly]

That's a good question

Strong person

Has her own ideas, her own mind

[msc545]

For a start, no diagnosable mental disorder helps.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Did you say Curious?

[bobalife]

😂😂😂 curious indeed!

[slatyb]

Intelligence, emotional maturity.

[jahaims]

Same morals and values as me