Ladies, what do you want in a man? Guys, what are your good qualities you think a woman wants?

[Pinay_ako]

[MCheetah]

Oh, I think I have LOTS of good qualities. It's just that women don't want any of them. Anyway, here's what I believe are my so-called "good" qualities (not that any women care about them) as well as my bad ones.

GOOD QUALITIES (ONLY ACCORDING TO ME):

- My own personal, unique charm.
- Independence.
- Daily self-improvement.
- Awareness.
- Open-minded (to an extent; not to the point of losing my sense of reality).
- Very intelligent.
- Sarcasm.
- Wit.
- Abundance in creativity.
- Artistic skill.
- Strong work ethic.
- Patience.
- Politically moderate.
- Straight and monogamous.
- Nerdy.
- Resourcefulness.
- Bravery.
- Loyalty.
- Thoughtfulness.
- Responsibility.
- Masters degree (in English, though).
- Thoughtfulness.
- No drugs or vices.
- No diseases.
- No children.
- No crazy exes or divorces.
- No history of abuse or any arrests.

WHY AM I UNDATEABLE:
- Too short for women (I like).
- Unattractive looking/ugly face.
- Overweight.
- Lack of enough ego/pride/confidence.
- Small penis.
- Old (mid thirties).
- Brutally honest (and unwilling to change this).
- Unwilling to bribe someone into pretending to like me/be a Sugar Daddy.
- Unwilling to lie to someone or trick them.
- Unwilling to "settle" for someone who doesn't love me, nor I her, just to avoid being alone.

[FearedMoose]

Don’t see yourself as that. I can tell you, the BIGGEST turn off for women is a guy who think they’re a big deal but have this idea that women don’t want them because of x, y, and z. Just relax about it. The portion of women you think represent all of us is just that, a portion of women. There’s someone out there who would love to be in your company, so don’t bring up the idea that all women want is chris hemsworth and you’re so good but women are shallow because they don’t want to look past your looks. Because that’s a nasty, nasty trait.

[Lliam]

@FearedMoose. 😍 🎯

[Therisinghero12]

Someone with good chemistry, the kind of person you can have fun throughout life with and trust

[letuswaltzforthedead]

If I don't know the guy, I'd say my standards would be: makes at least $15,000-20,000 annu., family-oriented/likes and wants kids, similar values/culture, affectionate/open emotionally, not toxic or abusive, decent hygiene/takes care of themselves, (possibly with a decent libido too, I don't know if that's just a preference though). I feel like the girl from the pic, I'm going to die alone, aren't I? lol 😅

[Pinay_ako]

In short, you want a man who’s not jobless and is a good man with decent sex drive? Nothing wrong with that

[letuswaltzforthedead]

@Pinay_ako Thank you for the MHO and for your comment, if you put it like that it doesn't sound so bad, thank you.

[Pinay_ako]

You’re welcome 😇 honey!

[TheGentleGal87]

I am half tempted to state the obvious and say a guy who can read given some of the male responses.

[Chris7094]

My good qualities?
I'm a good father
I'm trustworthy
I'm loving and caring
I used to be a hard worker
I can be the life of the party if I feel like it, or I can go sleep on the bathroom floor.
I don't cheat
I'm always horny if sex is your thing
I'm clean and well-mannered
I have 15 years marriage experience.

[Lucy68]

I want a man that's kind, gentle, sweet, funny, loves to eat, is willing to cook together. Someone that wants to travel and loves history. I also want someone who wants a family as much as I do. Someone that will be my rock, my support, my shoulder to cry on. Someone that loves to cuddle and will be romantic

[RavVid]

I have often thought white night fairy tales sums it up for girls pretty well.
* Pots of money
* Powerful
* Handsome
* Brave and protective
* So enamored he wouldn't even think of another girl.

I don't think being a good listener features in those fairy tales.

[MCheetah]

You forgot
* Tall
As well.

[RavVid]

@MCheetah So I did. Thanks for correcting.

[Lliam]

Treat her like a lady but not as an inferior. Make her feel safe and secure when she is with you. Respect her intellect, intuition, perceptiveness and character. Adore her femininity and sexiness. Be honest, trustworthy and sincere.

[Pinay_ako]

Agree 💯

[FearedMoose]

I like guys who are attentive listeners and make me feels special. Like there is a side of him he allows me alone to see. Besides that, it’s just the small things that don’t count in the bigger picture. As long as they don’t have a quick, physical temper.

[midnightmoon05]

Loyal, honest, loving, have goals, is ambitious, takes care of himself, responsible, have a positive outlook in life, have confidence, financially responsible, trusts me that I have us as our best interest, can work in the house (domestic duties) and outside the house… garden, fix car, computer… friendly, open minded with food, sexy in bed.
he wasn’t like this when we first met, no one is perfect… We are learning to meeting these goals together as much as possible.

[DrewJay]

My qualities change as I have some one. Every ones to talk about me being this big cheat but the other day or week when offered i didn't take it. As for my job I am going to use my cdl before I am trapped a rewardless job as a manager and family dollar. As the women I talk to online can we talk a little too

[StevieNix]

I have to agree with the cartoon.

[Pinay_ako]

🥰 🍠

[MrPickles13]

Well I'm kind, honest, I've been told I'm funny but not sure, Im relatively intelligent, modest.

I'm willing to try and learn new things which I think is a good thing. I'm a good listener, dependable and responsive to communication. Also very loyal.

That's the qualities that I have or been told I have that I can think of and I do hope they are ones women are interested in.

[PamelaRivers]

Honest, dependable, trusting. One that will do things with me. Won't question every move I make when I've done nothing that can be took as a sign not to trust.

[FunkyMonkee]

What I THIN she wants and what she ACTUALLY wants are two different things!!! They ALL SAY they want all that stuff in the Bizzarro strip but, when I offer it to them, they turn it down and go chasing after the first guy they can smell that does the exact OPPOSITE of that stuff!! If he cheats, beats her up, lies to her, abuses her to no end, THAT'S the guy she REALLY wants!!

[Pinay_ako]

Not all women want abusers, tyvm

[FunkyMonkee]

Nearly all the ones I ever met, do.

[SiberFox]

What do I think a woman wants?
Someone to provide, protect and confide in.
A leader, someone dependable and resourceful, hard-working and capable.
They don't say it like this though, its all a confusing mess of emotions and sudden needs.

[ChiTown33]

Honesty, loyalty, and consistency. But that makes up only about 10% of what women want. There are an occasional few are simple like that.

[Pinay_ako]

What qualities do you have

[ChiTown33]

I just listed them

[Andres77]

Patient, good listener, kind, empathetic, and a master of giving oral.

[Pinay_ako]

You got me at oral 🤣

[Andres77]

🤪🤪🤪

She said "let's put your stuttering to work FOR you instead of AGAINST you."

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 yeaaaaa

[Andres77]

I replied "yes, lick, ma'am... slurp gulp..."

[IceCreamSandwich]

I am assertive, respectful, play the violin and rock climb. Uh. I also am officially not a sociopath or narcissist.

[Chazmatazz269]

I’m smart and funny, but we all know that’s not enough for modern women.

[MCheetah]

I'm smart, funny, caring, devoted, reliable, interesting, and ever-improving, and I can confirm none of it is enough for modern women. Hell, I could be the biggest POS out there, and I'd still have more women if I were 6'6" while abusing them.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Respect, Communication, Affection and Loyalty and I will already be very happy.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’d be happy with a facesitter 🤷‍♂️

[Ms_Facesitter]

@WhiteBoyChill O, right. He has to be into facesitting too!

[MCheetah]

@Ms_Facesitter
No. You forgot the two things you told me.
One of them is ego ("confidence").

[Ms_Facesitter]

@MCheetah I have left many things, the list could be way way longer, but with the four mentioned I will ALREADY be very happy.

[MCheetah]

Most men can easily provide a woman with those things, though? So are you saying you aren't picky? Cause I'm not sure I believe that! 😂

[Ms_Facesitter]

@MCheetah If that was the case, most men and women wouldn't be single. But either side usually lacks one or more of these basic qualities.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I went on to the questions after this reply, and already found this.
"Do I choose my ex or current boyfriend?" Posted by an anonymous. No communication with the boyfriend, affection may be lacking, loyalty, what's that. Respect for the boyfriend is fading or gone. Goes to show how many people lack these qualities or don't want to commit.

[MCheetah]

@Ms_Facesitter
I have all four of those qualities in abundance and most straight men I knew had all four of those qualities. They're nothing rare or unusual. Now what I DON'T/STILL DO NOT have though, is height/tallness, 10% body fat, wealth, and a Jupiter-sized ego. And in *my* experience, that's what most straight women want in a dude. In fact, the last one is damn-near universal among all heterosexual women on Earth. What woman doesn't want a 'confident' guy? I'm unwilling to act like an arrogant complete piece of sh*t though, so while that's the one thing I *can* change about myself, I don't want to be that type of person. Although it works wonders for Kanye and Trump, though.

TL;DR: Most women want way more than those very basic things in a man in order to be very happy.

[andreasderjuengere]

My good qualities? ... Wait! I know I had some. Can't find them right now. But I bet that google had stored them as a ''back-up''

[Lionman95]

I´m a good listener, I like to cook and I also have an eye for the small things plus I´d say I´m consistent because I can´t leave a problem or situation unsolved and I don´t give up until I really tried every way I have to solve the problem.

[plredhead]

Someone who is kind, honest, listens to what I say, shares some common interests with me, is not lazy, and has a sense of humor. He also has to have good hygiene.