Ladies, what do you want in a man? Guys, what do you want in a woman?

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Alli39 · Accepted Answer

Kind: is willing to help people without reward and enjoys doing so, or at the very least is polite to people Caring: is able to consider how his actions affect the people around him and works to have a positive impact on those people, is willing to make compromises Good sense of humor/funny: but really just generally enjoys life and isn't afraid to show it, able to go with the flow a little and find happiness in where ever he's at (I'm a homebody and an introvert so if he needs to go out and be entertained that will probably get exhausting for me pretty quickly) Good at appreciating other people: doesn't take others for granted, readily thanks people and considers what they do for him, and is happy to vocalize this And superficially? Cute, a bit fit is nice, at least a little taller than me (which is most people since I'm short lol), but looks aren't a dealbreaker in the same way the other stuff is. I also tends to find guys who are more extraverted/friendly really attractive.

TheSimFans · Accepted Answer

men that i want are , respectful, kind, honest , know from wrong to right and to do have both types of intelligent ,

Avicenna · Answer

Hardworking woman who's intelligent, has a great personality and wants to have a family.

Deliciouscookies · Answer

Okay, so first off, I think physical attraction is important. I mean, there has to be some kind of spark, right? But it's not just about looks, it's about how someone carries themselves and the energy they give off.

Emotional intelligence is a biggie for me. I want a guy who's in touch with his feelings and can understand mine too. It's all about being able to express what we're feeling and being able to handle emotions in a mature way. A good sense of humour is so key! Life can get pretty serious, so being with someone who can make me laugh and not take things too seriously all the time is a must.

Ambition is also really attractive to me. I want to be with someone who has goals and is driven. It's not about how much money they make or anything, but more about them having a passion and working towards it.

Communication is super important too. I want to be with someone who I can talk to about anything and everything. And not just the good stuff, but the hard stuff too.

Honesty is a big one. I need to be able to trust my partner, and that starts with them being honest with me, even when it's hard. Respect is fundamental. I want a guy who respects me for who I am, values my opinions, and treats me as an equal.

Shared interests are great because they give us something to do together. But I also think it's important to have our own separate hobbies and interests.

Lastly, kindness is really important. I want to be with someone who is kind to me, of course, but also kind to others. It says a lot about a person how they treat people.

MilaRay · Answer

I genuinely believe that every persons list of wants are way longer and way more specific than they can afford to admit. Most people want to meet someone who is exactly what they want in every way, and then the dating process is just hoping to meet someone who comes close enough to the ideal person in their head to be considered a good match for them. What most people will ADMIT that they want is usually only going to cover enough for their prospects to actually come close to even meeting THAT shortened list. So when someone says they want man who is family oriented you can’t assume you qualify because they may not want someone who isn’t fun. A man who isn’t family oriented might still come closer to her overall list than you even though he lacks a quality that she SAID she wanted. And before you think that it’s worth being upset about that just remember that you should be with somebody that values your best effort and meets your standard as much as you can manage. Love is gamble I hope everyone wins

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I want a man who wants to have a family with me someday, who appreciates loyalty and stability and peace and who can offer me the same. Someone who’s intelligent, empathetic, introspective, caring, romantic, open-minded, strong willed and reliable, who supports me to become my best self, instead of taking on all the responsibilities on him.

That’s not good for me, that makes me dependent on him.
I want to have my share of things to do and contribute.

On my part I am everything that I named on top.

RavVid · Answer

The girl in the pic has a very short list. IRL I think it would be more likely to be 10 foolscap pages closely written.

Jibes aside. I think my top req is that she is collaborative. When I first heard another man say that I was surprised but he was right I quickly realized. It is the core of a number of desirable traits.

She always says Yes even though I do like overcoming No's and a little resistance is always a piquant sauce. It does fall under collaborative but deserves it's own call out.

I'd want strong morals and vision of life. The later might be different in some regards to mine but one that I can subscribe to.

Pudsmucker · Answer

I want to carrying woman that loves me for who I am. I want you to pay attention to me. Stop being so concerned about what other people think. Just be yourself don't put your mask on. Take time to make love. Stop asking if I'm too fat or too skinny just be you. Let life happen. Stop being somebody that is true to themselves. Other words stop being a Kardashians. Be yourself. Who cares if you're fat or skinny as long as you're cuddly. Show some affection. Do not be afraid to step out and do other things. Maybe surprise your man when he comes home to greet you at night. Your new outfit will be just a smile.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

-Sense of humor

-Loyalty

-Healthy (in shape and doesn't engage in drugs, smoking, etc)

-Family values

-Intelligent

-Feminine

-Good personality

-Respectful

-Caring

-Friendly

-Can communicate directly and effectively

-Decent sex drive

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

It works this way for men too. If he's willing to tolerate a lady who's never home, won't comfort him, makes a mess, never cleans it up, will scratch him without a good reason, carries lots of germs, and expects everything for nothing, he'd be better off getting a cat.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Someone I can be myself with, and feel accepted by and comfortable with.
Someone where we support each other, push each other and want to spend time together.
Communicate, respect and is loyal to each other.

Kinda geeky too, and wants to be somewhat active.
LGBT positive.
Accepting of my friends. (Especially one if them is pretty.. alternative, so thats important to me).

Physical compatibility as well.

Seems like a lot, huh

MrPickles13 · Answer

I know it's cliche as anything but well a partner that is my best friend as well as my partner. A woman I can build a life with, travel with and make memories with. Someone who I can talk to easily, a sense of humour, a few similar interests would be nice. I would like them to be compassionate and well attraction to them is required.

KlinkyCoder · Answer

I'm assuming this is only talking about personality, so I want somebody who is basically not uptight or overly prudish, politically and socially she will be conservative/right-wing or moderate. I don't care as strongly about religion, but she would most likely be Christian or nominally religious, which I can be cool with. She would want to have a family too.

Raaj4you · Answer

I am looking for woman with these qualities.

1. Cooking and cleaning

2. Good in bed / SEX

3. More family oriented
4. Educated
5. Career oriented
6. Mature
7. Mentally stable
8. Loyal and faithful
9. Calm and composed
10. Has high moral, ethics and values
11. Spiritually inclined
12. Emotionally strong
13. Kind and big hearted
14. Ability to handle stress
15. Loving and caring
16. Self less
17. Sympathetic and empathetic
18. Respectful towards people, men, in laws.
19. Economical
20. Smart and wise
21. Loves kids and ready to make babies

dragoblack · Answer

A caring woman who has emotional maturity & intelegence,
is passionate about what she likes,
is willing to be there when i go through emotional stuff,
wants to get out and do things, acknowledges her negative traits and works
on them,
open-minded,
enjoys deep conversations,
wants a relationship to be like best friends with romantic benefits,
and we both find each other attractive.

PeteA380 · Answer

The one I saw that was as bright eyed and as large headed as me recently totally did it for me. She was too young and a bit too short, but I have found and confirmed what gets me to fall in love (and within minutes of sighting each other, not wothin weeks or m9nths)

kakaling · Answer

I'm someone with no financial liability, no emotional liability, no family liability, no health liability. Not rich, not flirty, not too family oriented, not a junkie, not a smoker, not a drinker, not a gambler. Someone born to have a life with no worries but not too comfortable.

I want her to be similar, I want someone that is equal, I'm looking to give and she looking to give.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

Well I want my crush.. and he has self discapline, is loyal, works hard, emotions under control but can share in the right moments. Very logical and he is dominant and empathic! So thats a lot lol but he has that 😆

4ngelic · Answer

cute guy around my age who is nice, funny and likes me back

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Someone who is willing to put up with my crap and me put up with his.  I found him…we compliment each other well.

BCA6010 · Answer

Ultimately... She should be fun and pleasant to be around, and motivates me to be my best self. And hopefully I do the same for her.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i want my equal. astrive to that! be someone that is not in your head. be someone that sees you in all equality.

Sasha0426 · Answer

I have no fucking clue. Just leave me be, that’s all I want 😫

LostandFound__x · Answer

I just want a best friend that I can rely on.

dolemite58 · Answer

my mom used to say all women are crazy, u just gotta find the kinda crazy u can work with. i’m still on the search for the kinda crazy i can work with 🤣

JackCarter · Answer

A perfect relationship is a one in which both partners would sacrifice and take effort and love to see each other happy !

Jazzy54 · Answer

Compassionate  Friendly  Hard worker  Intelligent  Good sense of humor

gothbxtch · Answer

sweet and kind, loyal, loves me and i love him, i’m physically attracted to him and he is to me, wants kids someday.

sheenagwapa · Answer

someone who doesn't abuse me and someone who can protect me from abusers like my mental experts

Redstang88 · Answer

Affection, respect and a few shared interests would be a bonus

zero444440000 · Answer

someone who is cute. understanding. isn't a smartass. is sex positive. vegetarian. ps that image is pure gold.

DextroShade · Answer

Fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, submissive, childless, and younger than me. My wife checks off all the boxes.

MihirLopez · Answer

I think the best qualities in a man are loyalty, honesty, respect, caring, and responsibility.

Jerre · Answer

Cute, good personality, friendly and a desire to have sex as often as I like, 4-5 times a week.

Provingdatruth · Answer

A voice that sounds intelligent Simple Complements me instead of complicating me Wears less makeup

LavLavLuv · Answer

A man who is intelligent, assertive, loyal, humorous, humble, and fun. My man…😜

LiamJHayden · Answer

Just a lady who is not obese and is faithful.

Christoff92 · Answer

Personal traits, honestly, down to earth, courteous, intimacy love, etc.

CreedOfIron · Answer

Tbh it's never going to happen in a million years which is why I'm not monogamous but I'd want a woman to actually put me on a pedestal, financially support me, show me complete love and affection in hopes that I will reciprocate it, be my personal therapist without me having to give any of my sacred precious emotional labour back...😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

MementoMori777 · Answer

I'm tired of answering this question 😂

Abdulwahh · Answer

Perfection doesn't exist but id like a women i find physically attractive with a down to earth personality.

krin_m · Answer

Self-assurance, great sense of humor and laid back attitude towards life!

BLP11520 · Answer

Personality humor character and decent looks. Similarity in beliefs and values

Billlewis · Answer

All I want is a woman who knows how to dominate that ass, and will make me squirm.

MadhuriDixit · Answer

Someone that cares , nothing more!

collie22 · Answer

Someone who like to do stuff and have fun

clampfan101 · Answer

According to that picture, I’m a dog. lol

EmmaMary · Answer

Compatibility.

Fuentes · Answer

Nothing but money

Kaamraj · Answer

Fit, Feminine, Friendly (Kevin Samuels)

msc545 · Answer

They want MONEY, height, and looks

Leme2 · Answer

Everything. Just going to keep it simple you.

justabuddy · Answer

Lol... so many bad jokes come to mind.

MackBoy · Answer

I forgot about it, i have to rewind my brain

boobliker · Answer

a good figure and some fun and smiles all round.

zebronics · Answer

A traditional, feminine, pious woman.🌱

driven159 · Answer

A real woman not fake for starters.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Catwoman

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Beautiful, sexy with wish to be go in bed anytime

Berethor · Answer

I want in woman good looks and virginity.

DrKrieger · Answer

Partner in crime

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Sex?

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