How do u not get attached to a man and keep him obsessed with you. I feel like sometimes he will get sick of me?

[Anonymous]

Give me step by step please

[DishLady]

You sound crazy... YOU don't want to become attached but you want HIM to be obsessed with you? Egocentric and crazy.

Newsflash... if a guy has been with you for more than a couple of days he's probably thinking about you as often as he contacts you. No need to "keep him obsessed" bc he'll do it voluntarily.

He may get sick of you if you stay distant and manipulative the way you're suggesting you'd like to be.

[Sunshinelips]

It’s hard but just act nonchalant and cool. Don’t act all clingy or needy, they don’t like that. Remember that there are billions of men out there so don’t focus on that one man who can be replaced easily.

[Asker]

But what if he wants to hang all the time

[Sunshinelips]

Just act cool and when it’s the end of the day or night be all friendly like okay see you tomorrow 👋🏻

[jahaims]

That's not how reality works. Your personality is appealing to someone or it isn't.

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately, I'm just a victim. It just kinda of happens from my perspective.

[Nikki1989]

Why would you want a man obsessed with you?

[firenine909]

Dress sexy, tease him. Make him seem like an option he has to work to get

[Staximus]

If he gets sick of you then he's not the right guy for you