As soon as women ask me what my disability is, they immediately get the ick & no longer want to kw me.
Even if there were aspects beforehand that they liked about me, i. e., found me funny or had similar interests before that question, this happens both romantically on dates & in a friendly meet-up way.
Even if there were aspects beforehand that they liked about me, i. e., found me funny or had similar interests before that question, this happens both romantically on dates & in a friendly meet-up way.
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Maybe once they know what they will have to deal with relationship wise, they decide that it is not for them. Just a guess. I really can't speak for individual people.
But I also experience it even if it's a non platonic setting.
Like I mentioned, I can't speak for the individuals that you meet. I am purely making a guess that perhaps they think it is going to be too much effort or work to maintain a relationship, platonic or not.
Not saying it is right of anyone, just my logical guess.
That is mostly likely the reason & i guess that would mean that I would never have a spouse in life or if I want to have children.
I wouldn't say that. I look at your current age range and then what girls my +/- my age are focused on. I think that is going to be a major factor.
Exactly in that case, that would mean that would never be chosen.
It wouldn't matter what I look like or what type personality i have to offer.
That is not at all what I am saying. What I am implying is that you are at a bad age for a girl of similar age to want to take on what she may view as a relationship or friendship that is going to require lots of effort that she doesn't think she can give due to her own life.
I look at myself and think could I do it? My honest answer is likely, I could not. I have classes and things to focus on. I have a normal social life that I want to enjoy for the first time away from home. I'm trying to figure my way out in the world.
I have a feeling many other girls have similar views. If they don't think they can fairly and honestly support a relationship that requires a lot of work, then that is their choice to make. We all have free will.
My entire point, that I think that was missed, is that the older you get, the more stable potential partners will be in their life and can dedicate more time to a relationship that needs it.
So what you're implying is that I should be avoiding young women from romantically poverty date women slightly older my age unless I want to wait 5/10 years. If I want a non platonic, just don't mention it.
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I think non platonic or friendship is much easier to juggle. Perhaps not, but that is my opinion.
As for the first part, girls that are more established would likely be better candidates. That doesn't necessarily mean a certain age. It is more that they have their life put together. Not everyone goes to college.
I would be a bad candidate. I still have approximately four years of school left. A girl that didn't go to school and got into the workplace and is comfortable yet is 22 is much more suitable. Hope this makes sense.
I think that’s terrible. I would recommend not telling people this until they’ve gotten to know you better, unless it’s obvious.
Yes, I've had that issue throughout my life as i turning 25.
The thing is, the question is always getting asked straightaway on the first time i met someone.
People ask me why I don't go past second dates or have had a connection beyond 1 year with women it because they decided in a moment that I wasn't worth keeping or be able to procreate with later down the line to be father.
Maybe try waiting longer to tell them about your Asperger’s. Maybe just answer vaguely that things didn’t work out.
Well, I never had a relationship with a woman before because they were digusted by the fact of my condition. I wouldn't I just get dumped anyways once that's happened?
No. Once they get to know you better they will probably be more accepting of your condition.
I have to go. Good luck.