How attractive is a man doing chores?

[Rangers]

Let's say you have a lazy boyfriend, you have to go away for a few weeks to visit family. You expect the place to be disgusting when you come back.

You come in to a spotless apartment with everything stocked exactly the way you like it, exactly where it should be, and before you can remind him to do the laundry, you look an see he's already folding it like a pro and steaming away every little crease that he finds.

How attractive would this be to you, a man stepping up and showing this devotion to you?

Full disclosure, I sucked at chores forever but now I'm downright obsessive with making sure there's not one hair in the bathroom, not one smudge on any mirror, and ensuring plates are spotless and then even still, washing them again.

If I was your boyfriend and stepped up like that, would it change how you see me by showing my willingness to change, or creatinf resentment in the realization I was capable but ignorant?

That's attractive

That's not attractive

[petitedollbabee]

Very, very attractive. Keeping the household in order is a form of foreplay in my eyes, lol.

[Rangers]

Are you calling my behavior hot? I'm flattered

[Anonymous]

no, i can't get along with OCD people who clean non stop. there is a huge difference between someone who cleans the house once a week versus someone who obsessively cleans every few hours of the day. I know people like this and OMG, their home is even cleaner than an operating room.

[Rangers]

Let me guess, you're the negative girl from the other post?

[Opinion Owner]

everything that isn't a compliment to you is considered "offensive" to you.
just being honest, dude.
nobody likes obsessive neat freaks who spend most of their lives cleaning

[Rangers]

Your comment is noted and in the meantime, if you are who I think, you should really look inwards to why you feel the need to put others down, run away when someone challenges you, and all while hiding behind an anonymous profile.

That's all

[Opinion Owner]

@rangers

do I need to compliment you? no i don't.

deal with what i've said.

[Opinion Owner]

@opinion owner

I set myself as anonymous because crazy people like you tend to stalk me for stating the truth.

[Opinion Owner]

you should look inward to see why you can't deal with any sort of negativity.

why does everything in this world need to be a compliment?

[Rangers]

Your insecurities are yours to deal with on your own. It's not your negativity itself, it's the manner in which you said it on your post.

You projected your own feelings of inferiority and inadequacy on others due to your own inability to grapple with them, yourself.

Nobody cares if you think they're "lesser quality", and you're bitter over your inability to make others feel as lesser as you do.

Keep this negativity up, there's not a soul on the planet who will even want to be near you. And your decision to stay anonymous won't prevent you from developing a reputation as a depressing downer who can't deal with your own insecurity.

If it took me 1 post to figure out it was you, everyone else on this site and in your personal life can't be far behind in connecting all the dots and forming a negative view of you.

Either way, I'm done discussing things with you. I am adopting a happier lifestyle and forming a good life for myself. I suggest you do the same, or just keep on being alone, insecure, cowardly and miserable as you are every other day.

Bye

[Opinion Owner]

@rangers

ok... so the fact that I don't like OCD neat freaks then it must mean I am insecure?

haha

this tells me a lot about you.

it shows someone who cannot take criticism.

you can call it projection but it was all just honesty. I don't have to say that I like you

[Opinion Owner]

@rangers

you can't accept the fact that its mostly only lower quality people using dating apps?

because you can't deal with criticism.

you expect the whole world to sound good to you.

anything that sounds bad, you can't deal with it without a huge temper tantrum

go throw your temper tantrum elsewhere.

i don't have to compliment you

[DishLady]

It's nice when he at least tries to help with them.

[queenofcardio]

Very attractive