In the time of our grandfathers only the women did the housework. Today we are here to help our partners. We can share the household responsibility. When we are single or when our women are sick we don't panic anymore. We got this ladies! Modern men can do it all. We don't need our women to be our mothers and do everything for us right guys? We can clean, we can iron, we can vacuum, we can store, we can fix and we can cook.And we look dam good while doing it!
My dad was born in 1929. When my mom went to back to college when she was in her 40s my dad had to learn to use the washer and dryer. My mom said he grumbled a bit at first then did it.
My dad was pretty easy going and I never felt like my parents had specific roles even though when we were young my mom did homemaker stuff and my dad worked and did the lawn work and the garden.
I guess I didn't really answer the question but it is nice to have a man help around the house. My ex husband could cook and clean. He was Arab and I guess non traditional that way. I have to say that between the two of us I was more the guy in the relationship. He'd always have his clothes in the dirty clothes basket and I'd be the one to leave some on the floor. When my parents were older they shared things and when my mom started having health issues my dad took over the cleaning and cooking. One social worker talked them into getting meals on wheels because I guess she figured my dad couldn't cook. The meals on wheels lasted about 2 weeks and then they stopped it because the couldn't stand the food. They were used to eating healthier. My dad went back to cooking.
Yes !!! Definitely love it. It's great to share housework between two people. Iv dated guys that would mop the floors, iron, wash windows, dust off stuff in the house, basically clean the house from head to toe at least once a week. And I always thought it was awesome because I don't want to do everything. It's anyway fun cleaning the house together with some good music in the background.
My father often left me in charge of the house while he went to work, so I can do a lot of the things on that list, he usually cooked and ironed though, so those are the only things I do not really know too much about, but I can clean, vacuum, fix stuff, among other things, and defend the home if anyone were to try to attack, but thankfully God has not let that happen.😊
To be honest you're asking the wrong women, seeing GAG is mostly made of feminists.
Most women (as in like 70%+) like a man to go out and earn a living, while she stays at home running the household. Women have told me a man that takes on female roles such as housework & babycare is a submissive beta male & not masculine, therefore a turn off.
We can be masculine, have a good paying job, workout and help at home when we can. And look at the answers so far. They seem to love it. Of course they also like a manly man, they just don't think that a cleaning man isn't manly.
Housework is an adult task, not a woman’s task. Sadly there are still people that don’t get that. Because what’s a grown man going to do when his laundry needs done and wifey or mommy isn’t around?
I want to get a job and have a career. So I think it is reasonable that we split tasks around the house. If one of us is sick, the other can cover. If I'm 8 months pregnant and can barely walk, I'd appreciate if he picked up some of the slack. But overall I don't mind keeping house for a hypothetical husband if he's willing to help when I need it.
You point them out to me, and I will happily tell them. However, you must remember that this is wholly and solely my own personal preference, and not those of all women.
I know it is. Some girls already said here they prefer do to all the work. Fair enough, but most of the girls answers here say they love a man that know his way around house dutty.
What you would be most comfortable doing with regards to helping around the house. Or are you one who feels that it total falls upon a woman's shoulders to maintain the upkeep of the house.
When I was in college I was alone in a rented room. I had to learn to clean, cook, iron, fix stuff, everything by myself. I even had to do some pluming. So I feel confortable doing anything really.
What I usually do? Well I always arrive after my fiancee at home so she cooks but I clean the dishes after. When we clean she dusts, I vaccum. She clean the bathroom I clean the kitchen. Basically we share the work in a even way.
I don't understand guys who don't help. How can you sit on your ass while your girl is working alone? Those guys don't want a partner they want a mother!
Wow! Your fiancee is one hell of a lucky woman, which I'm more than sure she already realises and appreciates. I wish the both of you all the love, luck and happiness for your future life together.
Bruh, this so right!😂 Not all of us are useless like some. But, I'm the type of guy who would treat the lady like a queen where she won't have to do any of it. Just me. If she wants to help then sure😊
When I was in the Army, it was still mostly men. We cleaned our own bunks and barracks and latrines. Why would a man who has done that not want to clean up in his home?
I'm not saying that helping is out of order but it's a fact that men generally do the more difficult and dangerous housework. Such as crawling through crawl spaces, lawn mowing, roof work, working under the family minivan.
Oh no. I don't believe in that. I've never been in a relationship with a girl who works. Well one did but I did not allow her to work more than 15 hours a week because i still expected her to do all the housework.
No. I just don't want to do housework or sit with the kids all day. She works hard but in the home. So i come home knowing everything is taken care of and her JOB is to have a hot meal, clean home, back massage, whatever i desire because its her job to support me in doing what i do.
I would never be with someone who didn't put family first. Im not a cuckold selling my girls fertility for a few bucks an hour so some other man can boss her around. Nobody tells my girl what to do but me.
So you want a girl sponge. She just cleans and soaks up you money nothing more. Do you also want her to feed you and give you a bath? Aren't you independant? Can't you do stuff on your own? Will you never help with your kids? What if she gets sick? Will you call your mother to help you? Also you want a weak girl with you. Strong women don't stay all day at home they have their ambition.
I can do housework on my own. But what man wants that? I'm not a fag. I like feminine women and i like being masculine. And of course i will spend time with my kids, im just not going to be their primary caretaker. And actually my current girl does soap me up and wash me in the shower and she dries me off when i get out. She treats me like a king and it makes us both happy.
"Hey everyone he can cook and actually keep his house clean, what a fag!". Really? To have a clean house and having cooking skills already got me laid actually.
She actually bathes you? This has to be some form of stockholm syndrome!
Look at the answers most girl gave here. Today the vast majority of girls expects the man to help around the house. Not do all the work, but definitely help.
Well i don't want the vast majority of girls to be my girl. I want someone exceptional that is far better than the average because I am quite amazing myself.
I hurt my back not long ago. My fiancee rubbed my back and helped me to get up. No problem in asking for help when I need. When I don't need why should I let her treat me like I am a toddler? This is a relationship. Both should take care of each other.
Toddlers have women cook and clean the house? And they pay for the house? None of this had anything to do with being treated like a toddler. Are you a little child because you had your back rubbed? But why only when you hurt it? I have mine rubbed every day its just part of her duties. And she greatly prefers to make me happy for an hour rubbing me vs being at some dumb job serving strangers.
Her dutties? Is part of her dutty to take care of you, but not yours to take care of her? Money and sex are not everything that women need. So kiss your feet is more fulfilling than making a carrer for herself?
Oh yea absolutely. Work is dumb. Family is by far the most fulfilling thing in life and if i keep her around she will be able to focus 100% on family. How lucky for her!
Nobody ever regrets not putting in a few extra hours at the office on their death bed. They definitely do regret not spending more time having and building a family. Thats for sure.
Yup and that's why i put family first and dont want to waste my wifes fertility making her work when instead i can have her be pregnant. And i only work part time as it is and from home so ill be able to spend tons of time w them.
How you going to turn that on me? You literally only want a woman who is going to bring you a paycheck. You value a woman at her hourly wage and that's fucking sick and disgusting and very selfish of you.
I value a women that values herself. That has ambition. I don't care how much she makes. I care that she ins't a sponge. Oh well we want very different things. Nothing wrong with that
"I value a women that values herself. That has ambition. I don't care how much she makes. I care that she ins't a sponge." Thats exactly what i think too. I just think children are more valuable than money so a woman who values herself is more concerned with having more kids and spending more time and effort raising them. Ambition to have a larger family and one that sticks together. I dont care how much she makes either, zero is perfectly fine. And if she's being a great mom and home maker thats very valuable, i couldnt afford to pay someone to do that but luckily she does it out of love so its not a sponge at all.
Chilren are important yes, but if they are why don't you stay at home and she goes to work? Doesn't sound so good right? Because you have that ambition. Because you would never feel right with yourself if you did. Some women feel the same. If yours doesn't and feels happy in that life well great. Then I am sure you two will be very happy.
No id love to stay home with the kids. Except biological women need to take time off. What career she going to succeed in where she got to take a lot of time off every other year? Also im already far more successful than pretty much all women. Im top 1% earners for my age. A woman would have to earn like $200,000 for me to ever consider such a scenario. But also i dont find women like that attractive either i like soft and sweet not cutthroat and hard. So we would never have sex lol.
Why? I said family comes first. Im going to do whatever is the most efficient thing to have the biggest and best family possible. Although its clearly going to be earn the money based on where i am in life and for biological reasons.
And I don't know if i will marry my current girlfriend. Its a new relationship.
Feel free to check most of the answers girls gave so far. They love a guy that can cook and clean. Make no mistake they still want that guy to also be able to lift the heavy shopping bags like they are nothing, they still like manly men. To them a men can still do house work and be manly anyway. We are not doing all the work, we are just helping them.
Women lie. They'll say they want a guy to help around the house, but if he does, she will lose respect, interest, and attraction and go find herself a real man to stuff her hole. Bet On It.
No they won't. I make that bet with you. My girl not only hasn't left me, but she also accepted to marry me. There is a big difference between being submissive and simply help.
Oh how I love that attitude xD "He helps clean the house what a bitch!" zero logic. How small must your dick be for you to feel less of a man just for helping your loved one around the house?
You needn't feel less of a man, but she will think you are. And my dick is just fine, thank you. That was a bitch comment for you to make. You're already on your way.
Really? You called me a bitch and expect no retaliation? Acting all offended now? Come on... She really won't think that. Do you really think they want a lazy slob that sits his ass on the couch all day as she cleans his majesty mess? That is what you are suggesting.
You think I don't? That I stay home cleaning all the time? Of course not I have my job and a dam good one. And she also has a good job. We both make money, I make just a bit more than her. What you are describing is a stay at home wife. They are out there, yes you can find one. Not the majority of women today. They want an equal.
If you say so. The BS being said here is doing house work is subservient, man. It's called being an adult and being responsible. I hope you still live with mommy otherwise I'm sure your house is a disaster since you don't do house work.
Thank you @LMNOP123. I told you that @JamesRandiDebates. Look at the majority of the answers here gives by women. They love a man that can help around the house.
I was just arguying with a guy that thinks like that here... Don't understand how a guy can just sit on his ass while his girl does everything. He wants a mother not a partner.
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