What’s one subtle thing that can quickly kill your interest in someone, even if they’re attractive?

Question

It’s funny how one small thing can suddenly change your attraction to someone. What’s one that stands out to you?

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

Oh I have lot's of triggers, let's see... Stupidity. It becomes a common theme for all the other stuff in this list. Poor manners. An irrational sense of entitlement. A lack of curiosity about the world. Inability for introspective thought. Lack of accountability. Poor life decisions. Inability to make decisions. Lack of empathy for other people. Failure to set and enforce boundaries and standards for themselves and others. No sense of style. No attention to personal grooming.

dragoblack · Accepted Answer

Usually personality, and how she reacts to vulnerability.

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

Controlling behavior. You can be 10/10 in every way but the moment you try and control me, you drop to 0 and I will cut you from my life

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

Anyone who is rude to other people especially service people.

Finchie40 · Answer

Their personality, especially if they are a selfish person , I can’t stand selfish people that only think of themselves , that don’t have good moral values that don’t value loyalty and respect in relationships. I don’t care how hot she is , if she is selfish , I will lose attraction towards her and kick her to the curb where she belongs

ohsheeT · Answer

I dis like when other people talk about other people and they paint themselves in a different light. Or someone one that is loud and like bringing attention to themselves, because I don't like that.

DonaldDarko · Answer

If I get any hint she's not on my side any little veiled snide comment will do it. I'll drop her like a hot rock. I remember taking sailing classes and the only other person in the class was this woman. I had to sail with her every time, she was in the habit of making snide comments. She didn't think the instructor or I would notice but I wanted to punch her fucking ass overboard. I bet she treated her husband like that all the time too. Eventually neither one of us would much talk to her if we didn't have to.

realbiggrin · Answer

Someone who's opinion of a sexual alignment or preference is called gross or disgusting by them before they know what mine even is. I dont know if it's their close mindedness or their arrogance thinking they already have me you figured out and Im just like them, that turns me off more.

MontBlanc · Answer

One subtle thing that can kill interest is a lack of respect even in small moments.

It could be dismissiveness, rudeness, or showing inconsideration to others.

No matter how attractive someone is, poor character or inconsiderate behavior is a major turn off.

MrChinaski · Answer

People that are rude to wait staff. You can tell most of everything you need to know about a person by how they treat people with less power than they have.

Billlewis · Answer

If she's either too nice or tells me she hasn't engaged in intercourse for a long period of time. Conversely, if she admits to recently engaging in hot, passionate PIV, I will always bend over backwards to spoil her absolutely rotten, but that I honestly don't view myself as worthy of her, and I will therefore respectfully avoid pestering her for PIV, unless it's with a real man's VIP (Very Important Penis).

Rangers · Answer

Cursing a lot, it's repulsive and indicates a lack of maturity which raises the big red flag of bad intentions.

It's not cool, it's not sexy, it's repulsive and it makes me want to teleport anywhere but where she is

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

The question : one subtle thing The comments : USUAL RED FLAGS RIGHT? SUBTLETY? FUCK IT BRO!!

RandomGirl42 · Answer

Anyone being mean to animals. (Like blaming their farts on the dog. 🤣)

AydenHazor · Answer

They are rude to people they find "beneath" them. Every human deserves basic dignity and respect and if you don't treat everyone well then your kindness and decency is a farce

Twalli · Answer

For my sister it's if he has my name or is a Chicago Cubs fan. I probably couldn't do it if she had my mom's or sister's name. The problem is that my sister's name can be spelled in several ways but still pronounced the same. My mom's name is also common, although not the way she spells it. My girlfriend's middle name is my mom's first name, spelled the way most people spell it.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

One thing that makes me lose interest fast, is rudeness to people in public such as cashiers or the wait staff in restaurants. Funny that is the photo on this post! Of a lady who appears to be complaining about her food in a restaurant.

msc545 · Answer

Lack of personal care, inasmuch as the person has a mishap in clothing or curses too much or has bad breath or bad hair or any one of a number of personal things of that sort.

IloveMacDemarco4 · Answer

Being rude to employees, dirty fingernails, not being interested in anything, bad music taste, etc.

Gobbyjobby52 · Answer

Being very rude the waiter, this is not a good thing as she probably does this with her family and potentially me and her previous boyfriends.

Hawaiikai · Answer

When a talks about his ex like more then 3 times when we are still in the “getting to know eachother” phase

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Jumping to conclusions when you don't have to

Amy10223 · Answer

Conceitedness, loud behavior, clinginess, wolfish behavior, coming on too strong too quickly.

AgentG111 · Answer

At times it can be how gross they are in reference to food or hygiene. If they are a chain smoker. If they have some sort of mental illness that is there even if they try to hide it.

RavVid · Answer

In one case the girl let drop she had taken on multiple guys in a car park

Massageman · Answer

Continuous blabbing about themselves, obvious lies, hates dogs, trying to impose their will of life over mine.

Phoenix98 · Answer

septum piercing's and belly button piercing's.

Iron_Man · Answer

if the girl burps during dinner and starts farting. and you can smell it and she talks stupid that would turn me off

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Being needlessly rude. I seriously hate that ish with all my heart.

abc3643 · Answer

They're conservatives.

Sammy098 · Answer

If they are rude, selfish, nosy or they think that they are above everyone

slatyb · Answer

Smoking. Disrespecting others. Religion.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Conservative.

msg321 · Answer

If she farts in public.

Lliam · Answer

Bad smell. Bad attitude.

Bricealan · Answer

@7phoenix7 Tattoos

Shiprex · Answer

Smoking or bad attitude and entitlement

exitseven · Answer

If I see her using drugs

AngryCarl3 · Answer

Lack of any real convictions.

Seangreen · Answer

how they treat the waiter or waitress

MidnightRivers · Answer

If they treat others badly / rudely

Paige2006 · Answer

Has an issue being honest

RHK36 · Answer

Their personality, voice, laugh or smell.

Still-alive · Answer

wasting food is a no no for me.

BigD210 · Answer

Signs of disinterested on the other side.

sage2021 · Answer

If they lie to me!

blackeagle007 · Answer

Bad hygiene, unfriendly. Narrow minded

LiamJHayden · Answer

Rudeness.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

F-U-N-K !!!

jahaims · Answer

They are morons

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