This very short clip is making me wonder why so many women are so down about men these days. Would someone please tell me why?

[sage2021]

youtube.com/shorts/uNdST0WpZtg?si=yrAdxIzY7Y-Pt-hz

[Anonymous]

Well, I think there’s a couple issues that come to mind.


First off, we are entering an age where people just do not communicate enough, Realistically, speaking in a relationship, the husband and the wife should be open with each other and should also be respectful of each other’s boundaries, Something I’ve realized pretty consistently is that for a lot of of these bad relationships. Something they have in common is just piss poor communication because they either don’t uphold boundaries like they should or they just simply do not communicate like adults, And when you do not communicate in your relationships, that builds certain behavioral patterns, which can turn into abuse or neglect or just Giving up on relationships and things like that.


Next, These days, people listen to their friends, way too much, And that is stupid.


Ladies, your “girlfriends” do not have your best interests at heart all the time, just because you like them does not mean they aren’t toxic.


Guys, I know you’ve heard a lot of horror stories, Some of you end up, walking on nails, some of you Just end up, getting scared of the whole situation and going full black pill, this is not the answer, Yes, this stuff does happen and it sucks, There’s also ways of dealing with it without becoming a prick Or a coward.






When it comes to society and a lot of the things, men and women complain about, Something I’ve realized is that while their situations aren’t the same they do mirror each each other roughly, And then often times those were the same exact people rarely if I ever see the other side or how they help cause the very same issues that they complain about, But in the end, All the issues people complain about, can generally fall down to three things.


The first is communication, Y’all made to talk to each other more, Sometimes you need to open your ears and close your mouth and other times You just need to buckle down and say your peace, But most importantly, do not argue over it, There are plenty of the people you can argue with if you’re looking to complain, Your romantic partner is not one of them if you think that complaining is the right way to solve things with your partner you’re going to be single or you’re going to be miserable, But most likely you’ll be both.


The second consistent issue, Bad taste, I hate to say it, ladies and gentlemen lot of your issues. Just come from the fact that you keep picking bad partners meanwhile, Completely ignoring the majority of partners who are actually pretty damn good, Why does this phenomenon happen? I do not know.


The third and final reason is because so many people fail to take accountability and they failed to self reflect and then they just move on because for some reason in their mind if this relationship didn’t work out, the answer isn’t that I change myself and be a better person, but instead move right onto the next relationship having learned absolutely nothing from the previous one.


Which is interesting because if you combine all three of these together, what you get is this endlessly circulating group of people who are constantly available, emotionally and psychologically damaged from a previous relationship, Never truly so reflect and then Drag that Toxicity behind them, And into the next relationship, Meanwhile, A certain subsection of people look at these people And decide THAT is going to be their partner, Only for them to get the same treatment that those other people received, which then makes them just another person in the endlessly cycling Tornado of bad personalities.






Of course, all of this is just my Observation.

[TonyMetal___86]

Nice video, it shows that the world isn't only a mother, but a father too...

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks for the mho

[kissmyring]

A lot of women are one bad date away from swearing off men completely. And there have been a lot of bad dates

[ohsheeT]

Don't have a clue its just father's loving there child i did the same thing those are real men with 100 things going through there mind and heart its a beautiful thing

[Zack-Bann]

The internet will have us thinking it’s the case by giving a loud voice to the few who have been burnt by a man and decided to carry out a campaign against all men


But the average man and woman are still very much what the other needs in their life and longs for


Nothing truly changes when it comes to human nature

[exitseven]

I do not remember this the same way. I remember the terror in the thought of being responsible for a family. I was totally unprepared and did not have a clue how it was all going to turn out.

Anyway- these guys are in the minority and probably posed for these videos. I bet if you looked these guys up a year later most have new girlfriends and abandoned their kids.

[sage2021]

@exitseven

You didn't do that and you have 3 children! What made you say that? 🤔

[exitseven]

@sage2021 I had a real low paying dead end job and had no marketable skills and no college degree. Having a kid was something I never really thought about. I knew I would do my best but did not know how I was going to pull it off. I figured that at this point my life was basically over.

[Cyfris]

Because for every clip like that there are 1000 of some rage baiting out of context moment distributed to a much wider audience because over sensationalized content stimulates more reaction.

[Mike_Hum]

You can thank feminisim.