Why are men so cynical about women these days?

Question

Why does it seem like men are getting more and more negative about women?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because society clearly doesn't give a fuck about the needs and wellbeing of males, and women are the reason for that.

Society views the rights and needs of males and females very differently. When females were oppressed and disadvantaged decades ago, society (men) stepped up and addressed it. Over the last few decades many laws were passed and trillions of dollars were spent to help females in the form of scholarships, grants and financial aid.

Today, it is males who are in bad shape everywhere in the world. The alarms have been sounding for more than a decade, but no one cares enough to do anything about it.

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One example of many is how gender specific college scholarships and financial aid today are still overwhelmingly for females, despite the fact that females now represent more than 60% of colleges students and graduates at every level.

Another example is how poorly boys are performing in grade school, because the school system, curriculum and schedule is very gynocentric and ignores the needs of boys. If the reverse were true and it was girls who were failing, addressing the problem would have been a major priority a long time ago, laws would have been passed and billions of dollars would have been spent to correct the problem. But because it's boys and not girls who are hurting, no one cares and nothing has been done.

These problems are a disaster in the making for western society. We are already seeing the results in the form of high male suicide rates and mass shootings. But most people are not honest enough to make the connection, let alone acknowledge it.

Feminists see these issues as a zero sum game where helping males somehow hurts females, or more specifically, takes power away from females. And THAT is the biggest reason nothing will be done. Any politician knows that taking a stand for males in today's political climate would be career suicide, and it is the female half of voters who will ensure that won't change until it's too late for western society.

razelove · Accepted Answer

You have a small number of men and women that ruin it for everyone else. Women who are on a feminist wave that seeks to push women above men rather than have equal opportunities. Men who take the words of Andrew Tate as gospel and seek to push women down.

They aren't the majority, but they are the most vocal, in how they date, speak online, and more so in the feminist area, drive policies in the work place and laws.

Add on to that women not wanting to have children, and shaming men who don't want to date women that have children and don't want to have more, it leads to a situation ripe for a divide.

It is small numbers, but you have enough small numbers representing x, y, and z, that it adds up to a majority who "aren't like me" as you may be x, y, or z. So you feel cynical as you feel marginalized, and really may be, though it is a corner that you have pushed yourself into whether you're a man or woman.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because A LOT of women nowadays are selfish, cheating, lying, manipulative bitches. So men are eightfully getting more cynical. The opposite is true too - a lot of women are getting cynical about men and absolutelt rightfully so as A LOT of men are selfish, cheating, lying, manipulative, commitment phonic assholes. These days people in general are unfit for relationships and dating. They just hurt each other, have no trust in each other (rightfully so) and are just unwilling to commit and fight for something real and lifelong.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Because men are lost, we lost our value, puropose, role... society shifted, so many are confused, frustrated, feel hopeless. Add to it, where do we go for support... GAG?

so it comes out on women, fair or not. The feminists are irrelevant. The real solution is men need to "re-man up", with support from other men. For the most part, I see women trying hard, I don't blame them for men's problems. They are a reason men are corrupted though and they need to own that.

Lastly, women are being successful... going to college and such.

Anonymous · Answer

Society in general, and women in particular, have been treating men as a whole disrespectfully for a lot of years. Feminism has driven a wedge between men and women and created an ever widening divide.

Also, most women today are not what men want. They no longer offer men most of the benefits that made women of the past valuable in a man's life. The only exception to that is sex, and that's really the only reason most men still pursue women anymore. Women complain men only want sex, and they're right. If women want men to value them for more than just sex, they need to offer men more than just sex. Most women today don't.

That, in a nutshell, is why men are cynical about today's women.

Clarkkk · Answer

Too many are “conversational narcissists”. They might be nice, even giving people, they might even talk about me, but only in relation to how it directly affects them.

They have absolutely no interest in talking about anything going on in the outside world. Sooooooooooooooooooooooo boring!

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

Women don't cook, don't clean, won't go dutch or pay for anything, expect a hand out, talk incessantly about themselves... Women are more and more narcissistic by the day. There isn't a whole lot a modern woman brings to the table, often with the way the justice system and the rest of society is setup women treat us like we're disposable.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Bad reports. If 5000 people eat at a restaurant and are fine, and one gets food poisoning, almost all you'll hear about is the food poisoning. When a woman does a man wrong, that might be all he focuses on and talks about. Add to that the seeming human tendency to group people by inherited traits irrespective of their individuality and you have the setup for "All Women Are Like That" and "All Men Want Is One Thing" attitudes throughout swaths of society.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm sorry I missed this question when asked about a month ago. I agree with most of the guys answers. Women need to work on being what men want and also appreciate that men in society are being abused and neglected. Suicides, homicides, alcoholism, loneliness... men lead all of these categories.

Anonymous · Answer

Women stopped being women. So men had no reason to continue being men. These two problems feed off eachother. I'll tell ANY guy who will listen the solution is just be a solid dude, Don't tolerate scandalous women, and this problem will fix itself.

Anonymous · Answer

When women post nasty things about men. Women have been very cynical since I was 15 and I didn't live in the 1960s or oppressed women yet they treat us like we were those men. Hate breeds more hate.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Because modern women have fallen off the deep end of sanity.

Dreamclouds · Answer

Only some... I don't feel I am negative in any way

Anonymous · Answer

If you give them a blowjob they start being positive

Anonymous · Answer

Prepare for a barrage of man tears. 🤣

In_Trance · Answer

The same reason women are about men

clampfan101 · Answer

I’m not.

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