Are most men this pathetic regarding women?

[Anonymous]

or immature or whatever you want to call it.

Let me be real clear that this is not aimed to ALL men cause there are men who are not like that, but many are like that. One more time Im not generalizing this is aimed to all men.

I have a FB account and last week one day out of the blue a guy contacted me and sent me a private message through the FB messenger. I dont know the guy, never met him in my life in person or anywhere else. So this guy told me "your name popped up to my FB search and to be honest I could not let pass the opportunity to say something, you are a very beautiful woman" I thanked the guy for the compliment though, ima polite lady. The he continue saying that since im pretty he was sure I may had tons of admirers and right away asked me if I was single because he was single too. I replied to him yes I was single. Then the guy for sure wants to get to know me in person just like that and we did not even know each other but just because I was pretty he wants to score something with me, cause in the following days he continue texting me beause since I did not continue answering him anymore he said in one text I am a serious lady.

Once I again text him I told him "Im not looking to date anyone", so the guy replied and asked me "Not even an adventure"?, whcih I immediately respond : "No, and much less with someoen I dont know, sorry, as I suppose that is what you are looking for here on FB, an adventure" He then answered me: "Well... not exactly". I respond him again "Well it looks like as you mentioned adventure it says it all and also cause you sent me a photo of yourself earlier (the photo was not him naked it was just a photo he took listening to some music in bed with clothes, maybe he thought I was going to be impressed by his photo). He continue replying to me and told me: "Well, let say I tried to caught your attention. You are a beautiful woman and to be honest, I was looking for a way to have some contact. And my

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last reply to him was: "Thanks for the compliment, but actually im not looking for adventures or any of that stuff in this moment".

But he had the nerve to continue and text me and told me: "MMm, I understand, and I was hoping to invite you for coffee.. Maybe if you try you can change your mind, haha!!! and we can stopped being strangers. For example Im a photographer and you can see my photo worksen my IG account" I mean some guys really do nto accept a NO for an answer and this pathetic

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insisted in knowing me for an adventure just because Im pretty and of course I blocked him already , what a creep!! I mean why there are some guys who are this pathetic for God sake!!

[Anonymous]

An adventure? that makes me cringe, but I've read women's dating bios asking for an adventure - so it's not something exclusive to guys...

Unless you precisely use the word "No" some won't realise what you're trying to say. Trying to be nice about, it or saying it through indirect means, is less effective. A simple "No thank you" should service, if they don't back off you can choose to block.

Sending unsolicited photos is just pathetic, that's plain to see. "An adventure" in this case is code for a hookup... ew.

[Asker]

Of course he meant sex just beaue he found me pretty and he wanted to ivnite me for "coffee" he believes he can ask me out just like that

[Anonymous]

The nerve of some people. Who would ever stoop so low as to be attracted to someone who's attractive? Men are just disgusting. Thank God women base everything on personality and not looks, or height, or financial stability... I can't tell you how many fat, ugly, pizza-faced troll-looking men I've seen who have women fawning all over them because of their winning personalities.

All sarcasm aside, though, congrats. Someone on facebook thought you were attractive enough to want to meet you. Bravo.

[Jacobbbb]

Some men shoot for opportunities like that even if their approach is a bit shallow. I think it's pretty fucked up though that he couldn't drop it after you gave him the no. Not sure what he was referring to with an adventure but that's weird considering it's a stranger from FB and not even someone you know

[Asker]

Im sure his term adventure means sex and he just texted me again soem minutes ago and said: I Hope you will have a wonderful afternoon, just as beautiful as you are" Oh my God!! What a creep

[hyperben]

just block him, some peoples modus operandi does not include knowledge/understanding of the word "no", they won't stop, they have to be stopped.

These kinds of guys are the epitome of beta males who would never behave this way in real life or amongst other guys.

[Jamie05rhs]

Gen-X men (the generation before mine) were raised before "no means no" became a part of the core corriculum. So, for all of the problems that young women have these days ("He won't say anything to me.". "Am I not attractive?". "Why won't he chase me?". Why do men never approach anymore?"), women of YOUR generation have the OPPOSITE problem.
(And it's worse if the guy is from a foreign country.)

[Plinko]

No. A very small subset of men are like this, but there are a lot of men so it feels like a cascading and never-ending wave, I'm sure.

[Asker]

Some mintues ago the guy kept texting me he insists maybe he wants to see at what moment I yield to his proposal

[Plinko]

He wants nudes.

[Asker]

Obviously but I stopped responding He told me this.. Have a beautiful afternoon just as beautoful as you are

[Googlemyahoo]

I’m curious why you don’t simply block the guy instead of carrying on? In contrast to your opinion of guys being pathetic I’m sure if the guy hitting on you was rich things would be much different

[icetome]

you sure you wanna talk about pathetic when it comes to men

there is a ton of pathetic,

when it comes to you women

I can prove it

[maximumpower]

No. Most are not.
The behavior isn't gender-specific, tho.

[LazerBean]

Maybe, but women aren't any better.

[Zolly99999]

Wow. .. that is pretty pathetic..😳