What do men secretly wish women understood before dating them?

[Sunglassesx11]

[SueShe]

I think that men would want women not really to understand them but rather to agree to what they say and what they want from women and we all know what they really want from us.

I see it in so many posts here that men would want to fornicate with women they date on the first date. How many times have I seen here that if they can't, there will be no subsequent dates.

So, men basically only want one single thing and women do understand that message very well. There is no need to try to want to understand much more.

[Nikki1989]

Men expect us to be mindreaders.

See the blue anon comment.

[Cyfris]

That the majority of men actually want to do good and are usually trying their best with what they have to work with.

[Sunglassesx11]

And how are they achieving that if I may ask?

[Cyfris]

By getting up and working hard hours building a universe so safe people can fight about what they think instead of for their survival and continuing to do what needs to get done regardless of the pressure or obstruction.

[Sunglassesx11]

Are you reffering to something specific perhaps? I have the feeling you do.

[Cyfris]

No that was just a wide picture lens abstraction. If I had to point specfically to something I would likely tell the story that happened where I watched a carnival ride i'd gotten off of maybe twenty mins earlier broke dropping a seating booth loose from the main rig and the unknown to her guy in the other seat of the booth unhooked himself to then unhooked her and pushed her over the barracade to safety in time for the rest of the ride to complete its loop and swing around expiring him on the spot.

[MikeMcMansion]

I feel like the question asker is a bot

[Sunglassesx11]

I am not? I just know how to write well and to reply respectfully. Is there a problem with that?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I'm not aware of what men secretly wish in this department, nor in any department for that matter.

[Abbycado]

That they want in your pants if they pay for the date.

[MikeMcMansion]

Bring an extra pair of pants for them next time just in case you don’t want in theirs

[Staximus]

That we don't understand most of women's mysterious bullshit and prefer clear and effective communication

[Sunglassesx11]

To be honest, from my own experience, I am a very straight foreward person as a woman. Often times to an extend that some people tend to think of me as rude or too cold. But on a moral prefference, I just preffer to be so and not to pull stuff long. But I have met a tons of guys who were complicated and frankly mysterious for no reason what so ever but to act like a macho. Being complex is a trait found in everyone 🤷🏻‍♀️

[MidnightRivers]

We like directness, let us know if you're upset, if you want something give us some hints to things and we can barely multi-task hahah

[MikeMcMansion]

Carnal knowledge of myself - it would compensate for my shitty personality

[Daytoday79]

It takes some time for some guys to really open up.

[Sunglassesx11]

Thats understandable. As an introvert, I relate.

[Daytoday79]

Thank you, same here. Once I get to know someone and/if we have common interests some people think I talk too much 😂

[Anonymous]

Women should definitely realize that some guys prefer dominant women who like to take initiative.

[Anonymous]

If I need her to understand something she's not worth dating.

[Sunglassesx11]

I am not trying to date you, dude. You are too old for me 💀

[Opinion Owner]

What does this have to do with the question i just answered?😆

[Sunglassesx11]

Your comment was obviously oddly specific. Reread it maybe.

[Opinion Owner]

Only in your peanut sized brain hun.😆 you give yourself far too much relevance i wasn't even thinking of you. All meant by that is that if I need to explains things to her then she probably too judgmental. I'm not a dentist and I'm not interested in pulling teeth at this point. I can converse with her and we can figure things out. But if she pre-judging based on her past mistakes, no that's, I'm not interested.👍

[Mike_Hum]

Every problem can be fixed with a blowjob.

[Sunglassesx11]

"Hey honey, we lost the house, can you blow me? It might solve the problem." Thats an absurd claim but okey.

[Mike_Hum]

deny reality at your peril.

[Sunglassesx11]

How is that reality? My guy 😭. Not every problem is about you, therefor not everything is about you. Ergo: No. Many things cannot be fixed by just fcking. You are a grown adult, you cannot be this unserious.

[Mike_Hum]

lol. It's not your dad's dick. don't take it so hard.

[Sunglassesx11]

You are an old man. You have no right to make hard dick jokes as if yours wouldn't be flat already anyways. Sit your ass down, grandpa. If you cannot make a meaningful conversation, do not make one at all.

[Mike_Hum]

bahahaha... your punk ass fake aggressiveness doesn't do jack shit.

[Sunglassesx11]

Just take your meds dude. I don't know where old farts get this much edgy energy near their graves but yolo I guess 😭.

[Mike_Hum]

ok cupcake. Go back to tiktok.

[jahaims]

How to directly communicate and accept criticism

[MasterKS]

How good they are in sex. LOL