Men, what do you wish women knew?

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Reaperbot666 · Accepted Answer

it is fine for a girl to work on your career path or go to college to better yourself and learn new things. so you can one day hopefully get a good job or career path. but truthfully most guys don't expect or want a girl. who is only focused on her job/career. since most guys are typically the main provider in a relationship. guys generally just want a girl with a decent income. who can help with the bills and be self sufficient most of the time. so she is not always asking the guy for money to buy things. while you don't have to worry about marriage or children at this stage in life. consider at least looking for a long term or life partner you could see yourself with. so you both can build a bond and foundation together for a relationship to grow. ideally I say 3+ dating before getting engaged. then 3+ engaged before getting married. then consider children after marriage. but it does not always work out like that. or people might not want that even. however the longer your together with someone. the harder it becomes to hide your true nature from them. or they can hide theirs from you. many modern girls these days seem to want a guy with. above average height, above average muscle tone, above average income, above average intelligence, above average looks, above average penis size. which already limits their choices to roughly 5-10% of guys world wide. if you factor in all of those requirements. so if she only wants one of those type of guys. she should be ready to share him with other girls. as there is a good chance those guys will never settle down. because those guys often have dozen of girls throwing themselves at them. some reasons why many guys avoid the topic of marriage in western culture. because modern marriage is no longer a guarantee. that either person will remain loyal and committed to their partner. over half of first time marriages fail within 5-10 years of the couple saying "I do's" and roughly 70% of the time it is the woman that files for divorces. because many people rush into marriage now without getting to really know their partners true self. recent studies show that typically. the woman is the one to get bored of her partner sexually first. even more so if she has been with many partners over the years. because she'll tend to compare all her former partners to her current one as time goes on. plus over time both sides start to slowly become less likely to engage in sexual interaction with each other. if their sex life becomes boring or mundane to where it is just the same thing each time. part of why people need to spice things up once in a while. but also keep an open mind to ideals their partner brings up. so once the man stops being able to get any from his partner. he starts to think about out sourcing for his needs. also likely she will start out sourcing for her needs over time. as she becomes board with their sex life. if you get divorced the guy is likely to lose roughly half or more. of his money and resources to her in court and legal fees. more if they end up having children together. because 75% or more of the time. the woman gets full custody with child support or 50/50 custody with child support. only ways a guy can get more then 50% custody. is if he can claims she is an unfit parent. while having the proof to back up his claims in court. or she passes away for whatever reason. so until the legal system is removed from all forms of relationships. I don't see any of this getting better for either side. exactly why western culture needs to remove the legal system. from all types of relationships married or otherwise. with how the current world works both males and females. have their own right to earn their own wealth and recourses. without needing to be given part of their partners due to a bad breakup. from the legal system stepping in and forcing them to divide up their wealth and resources. some places have common law marriage where if you live together for X amount of time. the local and state government consider you married. which if you have a bad breakup their is a form of divorce. with which you can try to claim wealth and resources for time spend together. so that is why they need to remove legal system from all types of relationships.

Zack232 · Accepted Answer

Wearing hot cloths will not get you boyfriends in fact will bring you game players who only want your body not you

jadspop · Answer

Hmm... I know this will probably get lost... But...

I know that there are a lot of men.. that do or don't do something for the sake of the relationship and his partner will never know about it... Granted some men want you to know every thing they're doing for you and can be about about it... But personally... There have been countless times I've gone out of my way or put in effort that you'll never know about... Maybe talking to someone for you to help an issue. Or definding you or who knows what else... And it's hard to explain it look for it cuz if it's done right... You'll never know...

But it sucks some times cuz we do stuff like that and then when you don't see it act like we don't do anything... Or if we're in a fight we don't bring it up cuz we didn't do it to hold over you...

I know it's not really a fair thing to point out... And not every guy dose it... But I wish some of the girls I had been with knew how much I actually cared and the lengths I went to for them...

But at the end of the day I still don't tell them cuz I did it to make them happy c and not hold over them... It's not about me or getting an "attaboy" so we stay quiet.

Most men do this in some capacity... And I don't know enough to say girls do it don't... But I know guess deffinatly do.

Ripper_E · Answer

Just because men are horny doesn't mean sex is all we think about
I'm not your ex, so stop putting all the shit he did to you on me
We're not mind readers. Either tell us what is up, or shut the fuck up about it.
If we stop complimenting you, maybe, just maybe, it's because you dismiss it.
You are not special. You do not deserve an investment until you give us a reason to invest in you.
While some men may like it, most men do not like to chase. If you play hard to get and another woman presents herself, we are done with you.
Your hints suck. Just tell us how you feel.
If we can put the toilet seat up and down, then you can put it down.
Male privilege isn't a thing. You actually have more "privileges" than we do.
Women are more visual than men are and judge us more harshly than we judge you.
You shouldn't get on a man about lying if you lie about your appearance and who you are every day.
If you are going to eat our food, then get your own food because we are paying for it anyway, knowing you are going to eat it. It doesn't make you any less of a fat ass.

MCheetah · Answer

How insanely HARD it is to get a girlfriend, or to get laid, for the vast majority of men and how what's extremely easy for you is a massive feat for most men. That's why players get major respect from most men, but sluts get disrespect from most women. What's worse is, most men lack the Three Big Things that impress women (tallness, ego, and social status), so the fact any of us can get a girlfriend without these three things is a feat in itself. Meanwhile, pretty much all women higher than a 2 out of 10 can easily get a man; often times without even trying since women never do the chasing and men are always obligated to.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

1. That don't always use silver tongue and ve selfish and controlling with sex don't use it as a tool use communication

2. Donot react at everything but respond

3. try understanding guys point of view before playing blame game.

4. Don't always be complaining he does try the best he can a little push is necessary but not from the 12th floor of the building

5. Modern feminism doesn't care for feelings of a man but be little sensitive to his feelings as well

6. Care for the guys be nurturing seems most women have co sidering it as weakness now

Lionman95 · Answer

That if we don´t talk with you, it doesn´t mean that we are not interested anymore. We just don´t solves by talking about our problems. If we you want to how we feel start building a comfort zone for us by helping us trust you. Because if I really trust a woman I´m talk about my feelings and emotions.

blondfrog · Answer

Women know a lot more about us than us men know about you. That's because we are more open books. If you are still confused on why men think a certain way that's because you will never fully understand something you are not. That's just the way it is. Changing the topic here a bit, but its kinda hard to convince anyone on here at least male or female. What I see people do on here a lot is ask for advice but only actually want the answer they were looking for. Like they dont want actual constructive criticism even though I get it because most people here dont give good advice. So its like when they actually get good advice it throws them off. At the end of the day its hard to convince someone on the internet who you dont know and people will just repeat their same behavior and go back to their normal habits. So in short dont give advice or get advice on a site where you get free advice and actually expect it to be good.

Curiousnesshmmm · Answer

Wish women knew that whenever you try to stop your partner from pursuing something they were doing while they met you will be the death of their relationship. Ex. I was dj'ing a club when a girl walked into the dj booth introduced herself etc. next thing you know we're in a relationship and 6 months down the line she wanted me to stop djing. FYI I never drank, partied or flirted with girls while I played and that is how I earn my living. So when she said that I knew the relationship wouldn't work out. This isn't the first time this has happened so I stop dating anyone I ever meet when I play out.

perfectchaos · Answer

First how strong our sex drive is and feels like. That we have feeling too but just Express it differently. Finally not all guys want to just sleep a lot actually want a relationship. Its getting tiring answering the all guys only want sex questions.

panorpan · Answer

I wish women knew, how much cum is gone "wasted"...
"wasted" in the masturbation procedure, while if they offered themselves, for the real one, guys and girls, would be happier!
Isn't this simple? Sex is happiness. Why not making sex, regularly, without relationship etc? ... just for the fun?
We live only once, and we let one of life's best pleasures (sex), go away...

Jakeofalltrades93 · Answer

that men actually do have emotions and are far more sensitive than we show. i don't know how often my girl says something off hand that bothers me but i can't say anything

Unit1 · Answer

I really love women. i know a few men, who also really love women.  don't be hard on us. Life is hard enough as it is.

Massageman · Answer

Only focus on one topic at a time when you talk to us.  Please?

FriendlyEnigma · Answer

Please stop waiting for us to make the first move, sometimes we shy as fuck and don't wanna risk ruining a friendship

Juxtapose · Answer

It's not what we wish you knew, it's what we wish you actually cared about.

Anonymous · Answer

That we love you for who you are and not because we want to have sex with you. And we don't care what job you have. Only women care about what job a man has or how much money he makes, not the other way around.

MiraiKuriyama · Answer

That not all men are strong, and powerful mentally and physically and sometimes we are all soft inside.

andy530 · Answer

I wish they would be more sexually in tune with themselves and more sexually curious and not buy into the gendered stereotypes and sexual shame that culture projects

Thatsamazing · Answer

That they do not understand male sexuality, at all.

Makeushiver · Answer

How much I would relish the chance to simply give them physical pleasure with no strings attached. I'd love the chance to go down on almot eveery attractive woman I see.

Anonymous · Answer

That men are biologically different and how we think isn’t how you think but that doesn’t make US wrong just because you don’t like it.

Ex: Showing emotions, talking about feelings, our visual fantasy vs your mental fantasy, etc.

thatnicksuitsme · Answer

We guys have feelings too. They can get hurt, badly.

Dave31989 · Answer

That all men aren't the same Just like every snowflake isn't the same Not ever many is the same

Anonymous · Answer

I can’t open up to you. I wasn’t raised that way. I don’t show emotion often. I only show anger really. Men are trained to not let emotion overcome them. We can’t fucking cry.

Also if you complement me we are in a relationship now. Guys don’t ever get compliments so when we do it catches are attention.

Creamernick1 · Answer

To stop eating the assholes who don't treat them well, or the cool guys with no future but to instead invest time in friendships and relationships with kind men who have a direction.

Bananaman177 · Answer

How to make their fucking goddamned car GOOOOOOOOO down the fucking ROOOOOOAD. GO, YOU BITCH, JESUS CHRIST!!! That fucking goddamned light don't stay green forever!

invalid1 · Answer

I wish they knew no matter how week we can become at times. We are much stronger from the inside.

joeldalton · Answer

We don’t give a shit about half the things about your appearance you obsess about.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

We really hate your social media addiction/obsession.

mattmanyah2 · Answer

That all women are crazy... The mass of men too... Just because you see a bunch of other people do something dose not make that a sane thing to do.

DamnSam · Answer

An exact amount of what they want to eat Im not sharing mine anymore...

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