Do guys actually like helping carry your stuff, or just being polite?

[Lalalove11]

For example my hands were full and I had to unlock the door. So he held out his palms like facing up to carry my stuff and even picked up a letter on the floor.

[Orion84]

We like feeling useful, and if it's someone we like, we enjoy easing her burden, even if that means just carrying stuff for her.

Guys like doing things for women. It's ingrained, and one of the ways in which we show affection, so if a guy wants to help you, he probably has feelings for you.

[Lalalove11]

So sweet I love that

[Cyfris]

I actually like it. I feel awkward otherwise. There are times where I am like why I am so steadfast on such old traditions when there is so much toxic male noise but than I remember it is because I am better then that and eye of an eye only leaves the world blind.

[Lalalove11]

Well I really like it. It feels like teamwork if anything. As long as they want to help and everything.

[Cyfris]

I prefer to offer than be asked but I will do either without any hard feelings on things she can easily manage herself. And on big actually heavy things I will be furious if she doesn't ask for help.

[Lalalove11]

He seemed very willing and the fact he picked up the letter after I could have done it easily, was very sweet
Oh yes I totally get that! I was never identified strongly with what feminism has become so I'm happy if I can ask a guy to help me with stuff like that lol

[OneViewpoint]

Ummmm... common courtesy, being polite, good manners. I'm pretty certain no guy ever a had a hobby that involved finding people who needed stuff carried. But we'll volunteer if someone looks like they need a hand. It's not like it's a lifetime commitment.

[slatyb]

Your partner? It would be really sad if he didn't. That's not a partnership.

[Lalalove11]

Mm he's more like a crush or person of interest and I think he also has interest in me

[slatyb]

His behavior shows that he has little consideration for others.

[Lalalove11]

Wait can you explain please

[Lalalove11]

I don't know maybe you're being sarcastic.. cos I think he's been considerate.

[slatyb]

Sorry, misread. He sounds like a thoughtful person.

[Lalalove11]

Oh no worries 😊

[slatyb]

best wishes. He sounds like a keeper.

[nolabels]

As a guy and a human being, I like being helpful when I can be.
Just being polite is uplifting for me, also.

Win-win!

Cheers!

[bowenw]

I would say partly just being polite, but we also like being useful.

[Anonymous]

Lol probably polite or

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just being polite