Why do calm, logical men seem so attracted to emotional, quirky women?

[MissSunshine2]

I love a really private, dry and logical, reserved man. He loves me and I’m a warm person, warm and emotional, but my down side is that I’m slightly neurotic. I seem to attract calm, logical men; ones who are very conventional, whereas I’m quirky.

[Grond21]

Because while it is great to be calm and logical and have that feeling of control of your life, it can become sterile and cold. A woman with a rich, emotional personality brings warmth, life, and passion where it wasn't before. They complement each other.

[Grond21]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Well, maybe they need something adventurous in a somewhat flat landscape?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t know why, but I am emotional and quirky and extremely attracted to those type of men… Both my exes were like that.

[msc545]

Calm logical men often find it very difficult to deal effectively with emotions and often misinterpret what they mean and underestimate their power. It takes a particular skill set that most people do not possess to deal with emotional intensity effectively. Calm, logical men often think that an emotional woman is also a woman who is easy to get into bed and they're often not wrong about that because emotional women often use sex as both an attractant and a weapon. It is the weapon part that calm emotional men are often unable to deal with.

[Cyfris]

Opposites have always found a way of attracting, I am stoic in nature and prefer a woman more extroverted. Someone whos strengths are my weaknesses. Means as we grow together we make a stronger whole. If you love to read you dont need a book lover you need someone to build bookshelves. I dont need someone to remain calm when the bullets crack out accross the mall, I am already going to do that. I need someone screaming at me to hurry up.

[jahaims]

It's common for a people pleaser to end up with a selfish person. The people pleaser doesn't have healthy boundaries and the selfish person lacks the self awareness to know they are selfish.

[MidnightRivers]

SOund slike the type of woman I am attracted to lol, as a calm guy

[Zionne]

totally you're not the only one

[Jennz6]

Same here lol

[Anonymous]

I think they compliment each other well.

[LC75LC71]

We absorb the crazy.

[Emmabrow]

Haha