What do you think of a successful man who cannot get a girlfriend?

Question

Imagine a man, at 33 years old, he has lots of skills.

Knows 3 languages, college degree, coding skills, he can make music and beats, he is intellectual and he has lots of knowledge, he is not bad looking. He works out and eat clean.

But he never had a girlfriend. He wanted so bad but he has zero woman in this life.

What could be the problem you think? Please give some helpful and mature replies about possibilities.

Master_Debator · Accepted Answer

You need women skills... I mean like learning how to deal with women, talk to them, and so on. This goes beyond just being a good boy that's polite.

You got to learn how and when to be a fucking asshole and check them... not in a harsh way, but in a way that makes their pussy wet.

I think you're talking about a friend, and your friend probably would have an idea of what I'm talking about because he does sound pretty smart and driven. I think this guy is just so programmed to be professional that he doesn't know how to even hint at a chick that he'd like to get his dick wet. I've seen it before and honestly banging whores all night is how I snap them out of it... not just for fucking... I mean the type of hooker you hang out with between fucking. Humor, wits, and the learned confidence from that can talk the panties off most women face to face.

Cyfris · Accepted Answer

Sounds like his skills aren't getting a girlfriend or anything that would attract another person, Coding points to a person who is less extroverted in public. The never have had a girlfriend is not helping at 33 either. I would say the same thing I say to everyone which is live a life someone would want to be a part of. No one wants to sit in your dungeon and watch you with headphones on make sick beats.. no one cares. I would say he needs to get a hobby that is out where there are people that would date a man in his thirties. Do things other people would be attracted to in place wheres they can be attracted for reasons of not datign but having fun what your doing.

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

It is likely to do with approach, vibe he gives off, personality... things that are hard to step back and critique oneself on.

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

Or he doesn't put himself out there enough or a personality issue like the "nice guy", we all know and hate.

slatyb · Answer

So he has no female friends? That's the problem. He has no social skills, has no idea how to approach people. He's probably hitting on women he encounters in the street. That will almost never succeed. He needs to join some group that includes single women.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

"What could be the problem you think?" Based on how you introduce yourself here, that could very much be the problem. What you typed above is written exactly like a pesky ad. It isn't appealing to interact with an d ad.

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

None of the skills you mentioned is a relationship skill. Everything you mentioned is meaningless in a relationship.

exitseven · Answer

Expand your social circle. Meet new people. Get involved with some new activities. You have spent your life doing things that you can do by yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

I think most successful men can easily get a girlfriend.

Staximus · Answer

No social skills

Anonymous · Answer

he's ugly and has NO sex appeal

Zionne · Answer

that's better than being broke

In_Trance · Answer

He's clearly not as successful as he thinks he is

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