Lost interest immediately?

[Anonymous]

A guy i am talking to is following 1200 people I seen a handful of accounts of h_lf n_ked women. And I instantly lost interest. I just see this as a major turn 0ff for me. I know he's single but he has told me how he feels about me but its just like making me insecure. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

Like we are pretty close, he's got me as his wallpaper and always says how nice it is to talk to me. He's very honest too but I can't do the following list its just upsetting. Its a major boundary.

[Staximus]

He's following 1200 girls or people in total? Do you think he's ever going to see any of those "half naked women" in real life? Why does it even matter? Because you are looking for any reason to get rid of him?

[Staximus]

It's not a major boundary, a major boundary would be if he cheated on you with your friend. You're just looking for problems.

[Asker]

Its not all who he's following, and no what if he could have those women? That's not the point. I just find it very disrespectful to do that.

[Staximus]

The guy is not your boyfriend, you're the one crossing a boundary

[Asker]

Doesn't matter. Its disrespectful period.

[Staximus]

You telling a guy that's not your boyfriend who he can and can't follow on dumb social media is disrespectful and control freak bullshit. Get a hold of yourself, it's not that big of a deal

[WhitneySnow]

Talk to him about it. Maybe he’ll unfollow them.

[Asker]

I shouldn't have to do this though... shouldn't even be following them in the first place.

[WhitneySnow]

True, but guys need entertainment when they’re single. I think if you ask him nicely and he unfollows them that should be enough.

[Anonymous]

I always thought it was weird for guys to do that. People can see what you are doing, and your chances with her aren't going to improve.