His texts suddenly dropped off after we got closer—should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

I've been seeing this guy for a month now and we still talk everyday and I was just over at his place 2 days ago and had stayed the night but it's like the responses aren't how they were?

(A little context) We used to text a lot during the day and like send snaps and save stuff and he still makes an effort while hanging out and even texting and stuff for like some time before he disappears for hours and so it's like we are talking less than normal, especially this past week. It worries me cause we had recently done stuff and I know he was saying that he is moving in a few months to a different state and wanted to go on dates with multiple people to better at dating then about two weeks ago he had planned a really romantic weekend and it was amazing. And before it he said that he really likes me and depending on how it went a relationship could happen. Now he said he would come out my way this week so I'm glad I get to see him again soon even if it's only been a few days, I just really have really started getting attached and so the overthinking sets in and my biggest fear is another woman as that seems to be my luck. I guess I just hope I'm the only one he's seeing cause it's a vice versa situation. I really want a relationship with him and I hope the does too but I don't want to be the one to ask and or rush anything either but it's hard because like I said I do like him and quite frankly he has been the first to ever put in this amount of effort. I hope I'm just in my head about it and it's just been a busy week but I still have that fear of not being the only one and I hate it.

[William7489]

The way I feel about these kind of things is that while it’s possible to overthink it it’s also very possible to underestimate your gut. In one of the first signs of something going wrong in a relationship is when communication seems to suddenly drop off. You can hear the usual things about work and people being tired and doing family stuff, etc.. But if something doesn’t feel right, then talk about it. And if you’re not happy or satisfied, then maybe somethings going on. Trust yourself.

[Asker]

I have no idea what's going on with him, I haven't gotten a reply in over a day and he's never done that and he hasn't been very active on anything so of course he's busy with work but I am absolutely petrified and I don't know what to do because I like him a lot and I just hope he's with family or work, and he's got a bike so maybe riding too. I'm sorry

[Qiero]

Who knows

[Asker]

It's silly to stress about ik but man I do really like him and I'm just terrified because not even 4 days ago we were talking about future plans and everything too.