What are instant ‘icks’ for guys about girls’ personalities?

[Gamer20282]

What's an immediate icky for guys, that girls do, like mostly personality wise and do not say whores, like come on,

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Half of u guys are just gay in the comments, very few who could actually give some reasons

[NathanDavis]

not being genuine...

one of the most clear examples... when they agree with you just to agree, or when they lie just to impress or with the idea of "I want him to like me so I will pretend"

usually... I can tell right away, when someone's pretending and that's a big no for me, lol

I actually love a girl that is HERSELF, and doesn't have a problem with being herself, as well

[slatyb]

Being disrespectful to others or themselves.

[ohsheeT]

This taught me a lot about what girls go through. the first time it happen to me

When you ask a girl to stop touching you you dont like them in that way.

And when they talk trash about other girls

[Master_Debator]

Excessive attention seeking is one for me. Even when I'm the target to get the attention from, I'm simply way too aware that isn't going to last forever, but the attention seeking behavior will. Self validation seems to be a skill set that a lot of women lack... I see it even when the ego is inflated artificially. It can also be really annoying when I want or need to give my attention elsewhere. I had one chick get mad at me for watching TV... and I was like, "How about you go home, you've been here for a week already... leave."

This is just me though... I myself don't need much attention nor want it, so when it's being demanded out of me... I feel smothered... sort of like I can't do anything I want to do because her.

Women that have their own interests, can entertain themselves, or just do their own thing without dragging me along are sexier in my eyes. Someone I can walk next to and talk about bigger things in the world beats the hell out of some chick hanging on my arm and asking me a bunch of dumb questions about me, her, us... and it never ends. That constant pull make me want to push them away.

[Gamer20282]

Agreed but question, why is a girl who u don't like or want around in ur place? Like why did u let her in if u didn't like her?

[Master_Debator]

Good question...

I didn't start out irritated with her, it was over the course of that week where she basically overstayed her welcome. I got a few weeks off work for leave (use it or lose it time), and I think her plan was to eat up all my time so that I couldn't get upto nothing. All I really wanted to do was nothing... just vedge out in front of the TV and drink some beers.

I was already irritated and dropping hints and she was just all on me. It was that moment with the TV where I finally got pissed enough to be angry. One momemnt she agreed to leave me alone and 30 minutes into a movie I was interested in, she was in my face because she's bored.

That particular issue was probably always there, but working 19 hour days had me not noticing it until I finally got some time off. I got some time off, and she basically quit her job just to not only eat my food, but she was expecting me to entertain her on a constant basis. Hopefully all that makes sense... I tried to keep that story short. lolz

[William7489]

Well, there’s a number we could always list but I’ll give it a shot. For me number one at the list is constantly or regularly referring to ex-boyfriend’s or girlfriends. There’s no room for a third person in a committed monogamous relationship. Being too focused on just money is a big red flag. Being a liar, drama, queen, or having main character syndrome are some other general ones that most guys probably have as well. But the first one for me is the quickest dealbreaker because that person is not ready to date.

[InknKink]

Women who demoralize men for kicks in order to inflate their own egos. Attention seekers who do things simply to be seen. Women who validate their own self-worth based on how strangers see them at first glance. Social media mongers.

We all know the type. New age girls.

[Gamer20282]

I'm a new age girl, generalizing much? Ohhh my badd ur the kind of guy who agrees when girls say all men right? Luv ya

[InknKink]

Good example

[Gamer20282]

Love a guy who agrees that all men are shit

[dragoblack]

Self-entitled mentality, lack of emotional intelligence, wisdom, & maturity, refusal to take responsibility for ones actions & reactions, dehumanizing of men, expensive lifestyles, finding ick in men having hobbies & interests, lack of communication skills, refusal to communicate, manipulative, unrealistic expectations, finding romance movies about cheating to be romantic, refusal to work on overcoming her own trauma & insecurities, finding healthy relationship boring, women "men need to be the provider" (our economy is shite and most jobs don't pay well. 1950s expectations don't work in modern day economy)

[SamIam96]

The big ick for me is when a woman chooses to use a vocal fry in everyday speech. The sound irritates like finger nails on a chalk board. They do it with the mistaken perception that they sound more authoritative.

[Kaneki05]

Performative, is a Karen, Prudes, Pro Censorship, also hate it in guys all the same.

[MrChinaski]

I started writing but then realised my insights are pretty unhelpful based on casual observations of other people's relationships.

I've never been close to someone who wasn't a kind, genuine gorgeous woman.

🤷‍♀️

[genericname85]

if she's a "feminist", that gives me the ick. cause to me that's the equivalent of a male andrew tate fan... ick. and then also smoking, morbid obesity and tattoos on her tits

[Gamer20282]

Go learn the definition of feminism and try to avoid words that u don't understand

[genericname85]

even you just saying that shows you don't know what the fuck you're talking about. feminism isn't an istitution or a political movement with a manifesto. it's goal is more rights for women and since we live in a society with more opportunities for women already, giving them even more would increase inequality to the disadvantage of men. the only reason feminism was started (by men by the way) was to get more women int he labour force so the government could multiply the taxes they collect, overall skyrocketing inflation and effectively causing brith rates to drop while lowering the standards of living for everyone in the process. that's why i'm against feminism. if you think feminism means equality, you are in no position to to talk down on others. you're at the bottom at the educational system and THAT is what gives me the ick. sit down and your homework.

[genericname85]

and do your homework*

[Anonymous]

Divas, strong independent which usually means masculine, argumentative, entitled, spoiled princess mentality. Thinking she should get princess treatment just for being a girl.

[Gamer20282]

Princess treatment and independent don't go together,, are u sure u interact with girls often?

[Opinion Owner]

I know they don’t go together. Who said they did. They’re two different things that are turn offs. Yes I interact w women just about everyday. Medical is dominated by women. That’s where I work. Only male last night w 10 female staff.

[Gamer20282]

U retard, u said independent divas which usually mean princess mentality... at least read what u write

[Opinion Owner]

Oh look another female who can’t handle the truth lol let’s me guess you’re probably single.

[Gamer20282]

Yeah cause mne are embarrassing to date.., like hardly men exist who make u feel proud of saying that my boyfriend, most of u embarrass us

[Gamer20282]

U don't even understand what u write, what truth? Make ur sentences make sense

[Opinion Owner]

Men aren’t me today because you wanted feminized men. That’s what you got now you don’t like it. Oh I want a man who’s in touch w his feelings. I want a man who cries. Not to mention a lot of single mom’s who feminize their sons, telling him what not to be but can’t tell him what he should be as a man. Look at today’s
Women your age. Embarrassing as well. Dressing like slurs, can’t cook, don’t know how to be feminine. Do you even blame men for not being what you w at them to be when your gender can’t even do the same? You’re single cause you’re an idiot for one. Two you don’t even know what it means to be a woman. Wouldn’t be surprised opulent cook. You’re probably career first. Fugly as hell.

[RavVid]

I think we have yuks rather than icks.

I get the yuks immediately a girl virtue signals.

[Spencer10]

Being racist/bigot, disrespectful, clingy or high maintenance... oh and stupid drunk.

[Gamer20282]

U don't drink?

[Spencer10]

Oh I drink... but the key word is "stupid"

[Gamer20282]

Ohh so u drink but u don't get too drunk right? Not even with ur guys friends on a guys night?

[Spencer10]

Thats pretty much bang on. I rarely go hard when it comes to drinking.

[abc3643]

She's an idiot conservative like Candace Owens, Tami Lahren, or Laura Loomer.

[LiamS95]

Nose ring priercings, like they do to bulls. to lead them by the nose

[whosnumber_1]

Women that are not genuine or empathetic. Women that are high in themselves.

[DryGermanGuy]

Princess, diva, drama-queen types. 😵

[beefcakebradybatson]

B***hy, not girlish enough.

[Gamer20282]

Good thing ur 72 cause I hope guys around me ain't like u

[Gamer20282]

Plus yk guys who say this, are the first to fall for a tomboyish girl, atleasts guys my age not.. 72.. yeah so are u sure ur not being misogynistic?
Like genuinely think

[beefcakebradybatson]

You mean you want a bunch of fugly, dull-normal white chaps?

[Gamer20282]

So ur misogynistic and racist, g4u

[beefcakebradybatson]

I'm neither, just realistic and enjoy being a lad.

[Gamer20282]

I pray every night to not meet men like y in my college

[beefcakebradybatson]

Better someone like me than an abusive pr*ck !!!

[Gamer20282]

So u think when u comment not girlish enough, u think ur better than a lot of people? Ur just insecure... u couldn't beat me even if u tried cause guesss I ain't girlish, j for muscles, I do boxing little bitch,

[fish5505_87]

Talking about exes, early and often.

[Leakyfriend]

Expect to read their minds, only this

[Gamer20282]

Are u sure they aren't just asking u to be attentive to them?

[Leakyfriend]

I dunno : p

[Gamer20282]

See thats why basic shit seems like mind reading to u

[Leakyfriend]

;-; uh

[Masumgunahkar]

unnecessary jealousy

[jahaims]

Attention whores

[Gamer20282]

Fuck u dude I said no whores

[Qiero]

Endless things tbh