As a Black woman, will dating white men mean worse sex or smaller size?

[Anonymous]

A lot of white men treat black women way better than black men… white men seem more romantic, attentive, great providers and don’t ask “what do you bring to the table?”

But I’m afraid that sex with them won’t be good or they have smaller packages

[jazzy34]

From black woman to black woman. Girl, stop. Okay? Just stop it. Making prejudgments makes you look ignorant. Remember, we have to fight twice as hard to be taken seriously in the first place. I’m sure you wouldn’t want a white man to prejudge you as loud, ghetto, and ignorant, would you? Alright then.


Anyway, now that we have that out of the way. Let me more directly answer your question. If you and a white man get into a relationship (or just to hook up), have a conversation before any intimacy occurs. The two of you can ask questions in order to know what your expectations are in bed. That way, you can make a factual decision as to whether you want to have sex with him.

[Screenwriter]

You're talking about stereotypes, aren't you? I wouldn't assume that all or most black men treat black women worse than white men do. That's been your experience, hasn't it? But have you dated all black men or all white men?

Since you have limited experience with both, I wouldn't make assumptions. Most men are within average size and anyone can be good at sex. Don't rely on stereotypes to judge a group of people.

[Vegasrunner]

@Screenwriter Kind of a low IQ response.. All isn't a pre-requisite for anything she's making a generalization based on her experience which is appropriate. Meanwhile you're making an assumption based on even less information.

[Screenwriter]

@Vegasrunner I'm not making an assumption based on "even less experience." What do you know about my experience? And, of course you can make a generalization based on your experience. But what does your experience encompass. A limited sample.

I'd rely more on scientific evidence and I know of no general scientific study that shows that black males are larger than average or white males smaller than black males. The only information I have is that Asian men are somewhat smaller than either black or white males. And I have no idea what the "somewhat" comprises. 1/4 inche, 1/2 inch? .

But, I'd never make a generalization based on a limited sample. Even if I were a professional prostitute who'd had sex with 1,000 men, which would be far more than a scientific sample, there would still be a bias to my methodology. My sample would be limited to men who engaged postitutes. That's not a "general" sample and therefore it's value to a scientific survey would be equally limited and not follow the rules of scientific method.

[Vegasrunner]

@Screenwriter You literally wrote a response based on assumptions about the authors experience. You even went so far as to tell her "she has limited experience with both"

[Screenwriter]

@Vegasrunner She is seeking a response from people who can only cite personal experience. There will be a bias on either side and even with someone who has experienced both groups of men because the facts presented have not been gathered using scientific methodology. That is all I am saying.

Her question indicates she is not a scientist doing a physiolgocial and sociological survey interviewing and measuring the bodies of both groups of men. and interviewing the women they have had sex with.

[Vegasrunner]

@Screenwriter My point is what you're saying is low IQ. By your logic no one can ever have a valid POV because they would have had to study every single metric or individual. This is not possible and is simply a tactic used by low IQ individuals when they can't articulate a valid point. You dont need a study to know 1+1 is 2. Its very reasonable she could have had sex w/ 50 men half white and half black and based on that sample size she concluded white men are worse in bed. This is subjective but she is the only one who's opinion matters on the subject. She doesn't need time be a scientist, to determine what feels better to her.

[Screenwriter]

@Vegasrunner All opinions are subjective. What I'm saying is someone can weigh other limited experience opinions, but scientific evidence in a valid study would carry the most weight. She's asking for opinions from small samples. 50 subjective opinons will give her ideas about other women's experiences But subjective opinions contain biases that can't be ascertained.

It's like asking whether tall men are better at sex than short men. Or blue eyed men are better at sex than brown eyed men. Those are genetic traits that have nothing to do with prowess at sex. Penis size has nothing to do with skill in the bedroom or being a caring person/lover,. Neither do those other traits. Nor does race or ethnic background.

I guess my answer would be some white men will be smaller and worse at sex than some black men. And some white men will be larger and better at sex than some black men.

[Vegasrunner]

@Screenwriter Actually no. I hold the opinion that 1+1 is 2 that is a fact. A scientific study is not a prerequisite for a belief, and the absence of the study of a study doesn't invalidate a belief. I think I see your confusion, the author is asking for an opinion from a large sample size, because she's asking a social media platform "will dating white men mean worse sex" She never once made the claim it will, only saying she is concerned that it will. She never gave you a metric for what constitutes "better" in fact its you who have arbitrary assigned the answer.
Its naive to believe the size of appendage penetrating a women's sexualy genitalia doesn't contribute to sexual please or discomfort. Any guy who's had sex with numerous women knows thats not true.
Your answer is a non answer. Saying some do some dont is the type of ambiguous, non sense that is articulated in today's politically correct climate.

[Screenwriter]

@Vegasrunner She;ll have the weigh the answers of the women who respond and come up with some ideas about those responses. Too many variables.

[Vegasrunner]

@Screenwriter Nah, all the female answers will be like yours, indecisive ways to provide non answers and not take a position. They're all going tp say "some will" or "it depends etc.

[Screenwriter]

@Vegasrunner The questioner is asking for an answer to a question that has many variables and vagueries.

Physical/genetic attributes don't ultimately determine how well someone treats a person, or how well they perform sexually. This depends on socio economics, education, emotional and sexual maturity, how someone was raised, personality, mental health, age, life situation, religious upbringing, and how all of these factors interact..

How do you determine that person to person? I say it's difficult and answers she will get will differ due to combinations of these factors and the interplay of those factors with the women evaluating these men! It's not 1+1=2. Would be great if it could be so simple.

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[Vegasrunner]

@Screenwriter Not sure why you think that but as written they are seeking a tangible answer. You're also interpreting what you want to hear vs what is being said. She never asked for any advice on how to be treated, she asked one simple question, "will sex be worse w/ a white guy?" Its actually a very simple question however like most women you've overcomplicated it letting your emotions get in the way.

[Screenwriter]

@Vegasrunner Emotions? I listed rational, logical factors that would influence how man treats a woman and how a man would likely act as a sexual partner. She mentioned sex and treatment and penis size. Penis size I have no factual stats on, just rumors.

[Vegasrunner]

@Screenwriter Lol, You do realize she asked the question. If you didn't have anything to contribute to the question asked, why contribute anything at all?

[Screenwriter]

@Vegasrunner I think my contribution was valid. She can weigh the responses she gets, but consider the responses she gets depend on many narrow factors. Whereas the average height of groups of men, American, vs. Canadian, vs. Belgian are statistical facts. Gleaned from medical examinations. And how people of different ethnic backgrounds treat women emotionally/socially? Also highly subjective and limited. It's a sample from GAG people and from people who care to answer this question. Narrow. Might satisfy her. Wouldn't do for me. That's MY bias.

[Vegasrunner]

@Screenwriter In the sense that you were able to say something words it was valid. Im relation to the original question ask, O do t see how saying it depends is valid.

[permanentem]

The guy with the largest dick in the world is a White guy. The guy that held the record before him was also a White guy. When I see Black guys posting fake penis size studies with horrible sample sets and then boasting about Black penis length (even though their studies are invalid), I laugh because what they think is big, is smaller than me as a White guy... It seems like you're entire community has been sold a line of bullshit and you never bothered to ask questions because it tickled your own racial superiority complex.

[Vegasrunner]

@permanentem Actually the proof is in the fact that women rarely have sex w/ other races after they've had sex with a black man. Not sure there's even a valid study for largest dick in the world because no one even contacted me about it.

[permanentem]

@Vegasrunner Why would anyone contact you tiny?

[Vegasrunner]

@permanentem For starters im black. Secondly, unless every dick was measured how would you know who has the largest?

[permanentem]

@Vegasrunner So what you are saying is that you have a tiny dick and you can't compete with the big boys, but you want to ride on "trust me bro" because you're full of shit.

[Vegasrunner]

@permanentem Nah I never said anything remotely like that but I can understand your need to make up random things to pacify your emotional state.

[permanentem]

@Vegasrunner It's obvious that you have a micro-penis due to your need for attention.

[permanentem]

Otherwise you'd have to be a girl...

[Summeroflove]

Oh my gosh….. If all you care about is sex you don’t really need to be seriously dating anyways. Sorry. Interracial relationships are completely natural unless there is an unhealthy obsession with race.

[777GgG]

White men definitely ask what you bring to the table... in my experience lack if romance and attention have nothing to do with race. Neither does the size ir rather ability to perform well.

But making assumptions on what a man us based on his race is a little outdated.. .

[slatyb]

Sex is mostly in the mind. Some white men are great, others are terrible, same as any other ethnic group.

[Screenwriter]

I've tried to say this. Too many factors to determine this one way or another.

[Anonymous]

Dude, stop sharing your black dick fetishes on here.

[Anonymous]

Yes the sex is not as good and they are smaller but make better husbands.

[Anonymous]

An 800 credit score. Are you turned on yet?😆

[beefcakebradybatson]

BS. LOTS of white lads have plenty of #boyjoy !!!

[Anonymous]

I like black women, but thats for sure we have smaller D than black guys

[Anonymous]

Fake pink alert.

[Agape93]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Do you live abroad?