Girls, you can only choose up to 3 kinds of guys. Which do you choose and why?

[HawkPerception]

Gym Bro – Fitness-focused, disciplined, routine-driven
Soft Boy – Emotional, expressive, artistic, sensitive
Bad Boy – Rebellious, dominant, risk-taking
Nice Guy – Kind, agreeable, supportive
Sigma Male – Independent, lone wolf, self-reliant
Alpha Male – Assertive, dominant, leadership-oriented
Nerd / Geek – Intellectual, niche interests, analytical
Gamer Guy – Gaming-focused, home-oriented
Business Guy – Ambitious, money-driven, structured
Minimalist Guy – Simple lifestyle, low materialism
Outdoorsy Guy – Nature-loving, rugged, adventurous
Spiritual Guy – Mindful, introspective, growth-focused
City Boy – Social, trendy, nightlife-oriented
Homebody Guy – Cozy, introverted, comfort-focused
Art Guy – Creative, expressive, emotional depth
Hopeless Romantic – Affectionate, love-focused, idealistic
Player – Charismatic, flirtatious, avoids commitment
Gentleman – Polished, respectful, traditional manners
Edgy / Alt Guy – Non-conforming, bold identity
Tech Bro – Startup-focused, productivity and tech-driven

[Crimsyjo]

That's hard and males me feel like I can see why I have trouble finding a partner. I want a guy with several traits in one lol.

I like Bad Boys. But thats why I get toxic relationships. I think I need to recognise an Alpha male instead. Similar qualities but channeled not toxic?

I like Edgy/Alt too. Someone different. Not mainstream.

I like Nerd/Geek too cos lots of interesting hobbies but they probably aren't dominant enough for me.

Best thing about this list tho is it does show that girls like different things so guys need to stop worrying so much about being Alpha or Outdoorsy. Every type gets his pool of girls liking that type. So guys should be confident being who they are. And changing to try attract girls only attracts wrong ones and lead to incompatible relationships.

[valentina4eva]

gym bro 💪🏻💪🏻
alpha male 😎 (i would change this label tho)
outdoorsy guy 🌲🌳


it’s tough to only pick 3 tho!!😅

[HawkPerception]

Appreciate you sticking to the rules 🙏🏼

And there's nothing wrong with the title of alpha male. It's a title like anything else. An alpha male has certain traits just as any of the other titles.

[valentina4eva]

i am a rule follower if nothing else!!😅😂

i knowww, it’s just dominant guys are my type but i always feel like people judge me if i use the term “alpha male” 😅😵‍💫

[HawkPerception]

It's mostly women who hate that term because they associate it with toxic masculinity. We all know there are alpha males just by living. They are natural leaders of the pack, usually the popular guys in school growing up. They have a natural aura and people literally feel their presence in a room.

[valentina4eva]

i guess I've never specifically payed attention to who the judgement is coming from (women/men) 🤔🤔
but yess ur description is the type of guys im drawn to!! 🧲

[Rei13]

Nice Guy (actual nice guy tho), gamer guy, outdoorsy guy. It’s hard to pick three

[VioletHaze]

1. Nerd/geek cause I'm very attracted to intelligence and I'm nerdy myself. Plus, we could teach eachother new stuff, keeping things novel and exciting.

2. I hate the term 'Alpha-male' but I do prefer the man to lead and be assertive. Its comforting.

3. Gamer guy, cause we can have a lot of fun playing together.

A mix of these three would be great.

[VioletHaze]

I read your reply about the alpha male. If it's that, I retract. I'd rather go with the sigma. I want him to lead the household, not the masses. And I don't have a lot in common with people who grew up popular.

The reason I hate the term is because it's so overused. Especially by insecure men. I just cringe.

[HawkPerception]

Love your opinion as always

[RandomGirl42]

The one with booze! 🤣

Ok, I'll play by the rules, if I was into guys the type I am attracted to are the Sigma, Spiritual, Outdoor types. (With some hopeless romantic thrown in 💖)

[thegreenyogi]

So difficult to pick just 3: outdoorsy guy, artistic guy and minimalist guy.

[HawkPerception]

Glad you stuck to the rules 😂

[thegreenyogi]

Lol!!

[queenofcardio]

Gym Bro - We can train together. I've always loved going to the gym with a partner.

Outdoorsy Guy - I'm outdoorsy so there's lots to do together

Hopeless Romantic- I'm one too.

[MissSunshine2]

Business guy, intelligent. Outdoorsy guy, fit, adventurous. Arty guy, the most like me.

[smashleyy]

spiritual
outdoorsy
gym