Why do I keep attracting racist men as a Black woman while dating?

[Anonymous]

[jazzy34]

The same reason slave masters raped and had multiple children with female slaves. They don’t see you as a person, but something they can use. They’re “attracted” to being able to control you. Don’t flatter yourself.

[beenherebefore]

Because they see black women as less then them and probably only show interest in you because they fantasize about being with a black woman.

[Xoirwinkan]

The definition of racist has become super broad, but in general many people are into raceplay, can look like racism to people without that kink.

[DuSith]

In what way? I might be able to explain some things, since I'm in a "nice, racist" area that is still trying to deal with the 1960s.

[Anonymous]

Are they racist or believe in treating people equally rather than with special treatment?

[Anonymous]

Racist in what way? You're probably attracted to men who fetishize you.

[Asker]

I’m not attracted to men who fetishized me if I was why would I complain about it

[ChicoFromThe305]

What did they say?