How do I get a guy to stop asking me out after I’ve said no?

[Anonymous]

Yes , a guy met me on Facebook ( Not on a dating app ) in a group that I'm in... I found out later that we live in the same state , but he's a few hours away. I've rejected this guy a few times and told him that I couldn't go out with him and he keeps asking me out. Right now , I'm switching careers and getting ready to move so that's where my focus is. Outside of that I'm not interested in dating anymore or going out on dates. He won't take no for an answer and won't leave me alone.

Updates

2 mo

He seems like a great guy , but I lost interest in dating a few years ago... I just don't have the energy for meeting and dating new people anymore...

[Screenwriter]

Block him on all apps and on your phone. Maybe he'll get the idea. And tell him you're blocking him because he's an annoying pest. Geez. If that doesn't work, tell him you're filing a restraining order against him and DO IT. What a moron.

[Screenwriter]

What he's doing is called HARASSMENT and is illegal. Give hiim ALL of this information. Maybe if the law is involved he'll finally stop.

[Asker]

These men never stop it doesn't matter how old or etc they are a nag..

[Screenwriter]

What he's doing is HARASSMENT and is illegal. Maybe if the law is involved he'll know you're serious.

[Screenwriter]

He's an ass. I'd file a complaint against him. Ask the cops if you need to do the restraining thing, or if a complaint alone will work. If cops show up at his door, might cool his jets! Maybe you're too polite.

[Asker]

I've distanced myself from him and backed off... told him last conversation that I wasn't ready for a relationship as I have too much going on work - switching careers, going back to class from leave of absence in 3 1/2 months this is my recharge months, and move the last thing I'm thinking about is a relationship

[Screenwriter]

Don't respond to anything from him eitherr. If you respond he thinks you're saying yes and you're sending mixed messages. Stop doing that...

[Nikki1989]

Immaturity will do that, and many men never grow up. All you have to do is listen to them. Age doesn't equal wisdom, and this website clearly proves it daily.

[Asker]

I know young or old they act like kids

[Alex-Snow]

Some guys just do not understand what NO means. Block him and if he tries again ignore him or ghost him

[Asker]

That sounds like a msle problem this is why I stopped trying to date until I sort things out in my life

[Asker]

Male * I avoid you unemotional immature males IDC what age... I'm not about to raise a man child

[bowenw]

I would warn him that you will block him if he ever asks you out again, then do it if he does.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊
Best of luck getting him to stop.

[Sunshinelips]

Time to block him if he won’t take no for an answer. Some people don’t understand the word no.

[NathanDavis]

the answer is obvious... but you don't want to do it, so...

[Asker]

Me taking a grown man no should be enough he should walk all these men should walk

[Asker]

Telling *

[Asker]

At his age anyways pass the age of 50

[NathanDavis]

yes, the thing is... he ain't a grown man

he's just and old male

[Asker]

He should know better all of them SHYT

[NathanDavis]

but they don't so...

this is actually about you... expecting apples from the pear tree... lol

[Asker]

Some of you men need to grow up

[NathanDavis]

that's definitely true... but also true

a real grown up woman, would have blocked him already and forgotten about the trouble as well

[Asker]

The only time I block men is when my safety is infringed
.. he can call or text doesn't mean I have to answer

[Asker]

He doesn't know where I live or etc... i can see him calling and texting and forward him to voice mail.. if I have to block and etc just further proves you men aren't stable in relationships or access to women

[Asker]

Him call or texting doesn't bother me because I ignore it - it's the mere fact he doesn't understand boundaries

[NathanDavis]

[Asker]

This is an entitlement problem with you men / males.. when your mother told you no you couldn't have the cookies before supper... I expect this childish bs from a 5 year older... You men are grown and having mantantarms about not having access to women or sex

[NathanDavis]

[Anonymous]

Tell him, "I'm really surprised you're not turned off by me. Most guys don't want to date a woman who's HIV positive (just say AIDS if you think he's to stupid to understand HIV positive😆)."

After that you'll hear crickets.😆

[Anonymous]

It's facebook. Block him.

[Asker]

I will the thought of dating exhaust me

[Zionne]

ignore the message

[exitseven]

Can you block him?

[Asker]

Yes , but wasn't trying to go this route

[exitseven]

He will get the message

[Asker]

He should have got the message when I told him no the first time