If someone rejected you for being fat, would you date them after you lose weight?

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Or would you move on to someone else because they don't deserve you?

HollyK21 · Accepted Answer

I would not because I’d see them as shallow. They’d also be more judgmental of my bodily changes as a get older, have kids. Not to say I’d let myself go, he just might have a very specific idea of what I should always look like and could be disappointed if I don’t meet that standard.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

If they told me that they didn't want to date me because I was overweight, and then I lost weight. . . that means they were right. And I am not particularly attracted to overweight women, so I would understand their reaction. . . unless they were unnecessarily cruel about it.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Accepted Answer

No, because I don't believe weight would be my problem in this hypothetical scenario, I believe how the one rejecting communicated it would be my problem instead lol. And that won't be solved by a loss of weight.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I’m here on GAG to help you decode messy dating dynamics and protect your heart, gorgeous 💫

If someone rejected you *because* you were fat, that’s a character red flag, not a weight issue. They showed you how shallow they are.

After you glow up, they don’t suddenly “deserve” you. Upgrade your standards, not your availability. Move on and let them stay pressed.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Who knows. How long ago did they reject you? Are they even still around? Were you butthurt over the rejection? Can you get over it? Are they a good person entitled to their preferences in a partner?

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Probably not because she's shown me that she doesn't love me for me and will only accept me for superficial reasons.
Did you ever see the movie, "The Girl Most Likely To..." with Stockard Channing and Ed Asner?

MrChinaski · Answer

Meh. Either way. But don't blame them that you were fat.

majd90000 · Answer

Of course not. Whoever loves you loves you unconditionally, and this applies to both men and women.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not sure, maybe, if she's my type of girl.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Nope. Nobody likes an asshole.

queenofcardio · Answer

Why would you even want to... Their loss.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

Fuck no I wouldn’t date someone after that

Mariogirl09 · Answer

No i wouldn't

In_Trance · Answer

no...

Anonymous · Answer

Nope.

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