What should a woman know before dating an Afghan man in Europe?

[Wemix]

What behavior is usually expected from the guy and for the girl?

[Jessica405]

Just don't do it. At least, not until you know he is safe.

[Agape93]

And his family. From experience, they might not be friendly if they think you're westernizing him or drawing him to apostasy

[Jessica405]

@Agape93 So very true

[majd90000]

If he's Muslim, you should respect his masculine feelings—I mean his jealousy. There might be some problems in his family because of dating, but these can be resolved through marriage. Not all families are like that. I'm telling you this as a precaution.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

The logic of that first sentence was a weird read lol. Jealousy isn't gendered, it's universal, and feelings aren't religious either, they're universal...

[majd90000]

It seems you misunderstood. I wasn't referring to the jealousy of men in your community. The woman who posted this will understand what I mean if her boyfriend is like that.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

... What is my community?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I believe she should anticipate a massive culture shock. And I'm certain she already knows that, since Afghanistan is quite a famous country.

[Agape93]

He will start controlling you and putting you below himself. I say that as someone who has dated both a Saudi and a Lebanese man.

[lilBigPotato]

Go on with the expectation that he's controlling. It's a very common trait.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

You dated them?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Probably wouldn't judge a person by their culture, even tho sometimes its tempting to do so.

[abc3643]

Ummmm, yeah, ... don't do that.

[bowenw]

It will depend on his beliefs.

[MasterKS]

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