What do I need to know about dating an Arab guy?

[lemonette]

What do you think I will experience? My date seems cute but I am kinda worried because I know nothing about their cultures, to be honest.

[hannah]

Dating an Arab guy can be a unique experience that comes with its own set of cultural nuances and expectations. Firstly, family is often of paramount importance in Arab culture, and you may find that family values and traditions play a significant role in the relationship. It's not uncommon for extended family to be closely involved in each other's lives.

Religion can also be a significant aspect, especially if the individual is Muslim, as it dictates certain behavioral codes, including those related to relationships and gender interactions. Be prepared to discuss this openly and respectfully, especially if you come from a different religious or cultural background.

Gender roles can sometimes be more traditional than what you may be used to, so it's essential to communicate openly about your expectations in the relationship. Arab men are often stereotypically seen as being very protective or dominant, but individual attitudes can vary widely.

Respect for tradition and culture is significant, so it might be helpful to familiarize yourself with the customs, foods, and religious practices of your partner's background. Open communication, mutual respect, and understanding are key in navigating the intricacies of dating someone from any different cultural or religious background, including an Arab guy.

[intovertedguy]

The information I give below is mainly about muslim Arab man because the majority of Arabs are muslim.

They are very conservative.

Their wives are supposed to obey them in everything.

I found this online:

Well, I married 2 Arab men, both Muslim and I converted, because I wanted to.

#1- if they date you, they will never marry you. This is not an acceptable practice in Arab society. Of course there may be exceptions, but it's rare.

#2- if they are Muslim you should only marry them if you plan on converting. Only convert if it's in your heart. This is the only way to be fully accepted, drama-free in the family. (I've done it with both, even after a divorce I'm still accepted).

#3- you will do most of the sacrificing. This is only because as a man, they are used to getting their way. They don't know how to be #2, only #1. Don't take it personal, it's not.

#4- many are narcissist. I hate to say it but I believe it's true. I don't know why and it's very sad.

#5- you will need to assimilate into the culture. Does not matter if they live in U. S. the culture is strong. Learn to cook like an Arab woman, clean, and sometimes argue like one. This is my downfall because I'm not an arguer. I don't like to do it and don't, it drives him made, so much so that he creates problems.

#6- there is no such thing as “dating” an Arab man. If your “dating” he's just having sex with you and probably a few other woman too. Sorry but true.

What is it like to get married (as a Western woman) to an Arab man?
Usually a bad idea.

Once he has you “on side” he’ll remain nice as pie until he gets you “back home”. At which point the ‘rules’ of “his culture” take over and you better get used to being a second class citizen.

There may be some great and wonderful exceptions, but do your own research and you’ll see how many women end up as abuse victims; not loved and respected wives.

No offence meant but you're not the type of woman a muslim man would ever marry.

[lloull34]

Keep in mind not all of us are Muslims

[intovertedguy]

@lloull34 I know, that's why I said the majority of Arab men are muslim, I didn't say all Arabs are muslim

[intovertedguy]

Some Arabs are Christians, Maronites, Copts, Assyrians among others.

[intovertedguy]

I forgot also Catholics and Orthodox too.

[artgorgeous]

You might study a course of lectures about arab culture for months, and then on a date you might find out that the guy is just a regular guy who wants sex. Don't bother. Just go on a date with him and see how it goes.

[sheikalana]

Arab as in saudi like the one you posted in the picture? Cuz arab men from the north of africa are very different from the ones in the middle east.

The ones in the middle east tend to be a bit more traditional and strict. Islam is part of their lifestyle 24/7. They expect their wives to be modest, elegant and they expect them to respect their husbands, no partying and no vulgar behavior.

These type of men tend to be very caring with their wives and like to shower them with gifts and they make sure they have everything they need and want.

In another hand and as I said before Islam is a big thing in the middle east and while some can be open minded others may want you to convert to islam and follow the islamic laws and rules and even dress code. Your kids will be muslim too. In the middle east if the man is wealthy enough he can have up to four wives given that he can provide the same lifestyle and benefits to the four of them. The four of you won't live together. If you're not willing to change your life do not try to change his point of you because he won't. Islam is a lifestyle and muslim families in the middle east tend to be strict.

Hope this helped.

[lloull34]

Nah I'm in the middle East and not all of us are Muslims plus we party a lot, we drink, and we live like any other being. However if the guy is a Muslim then it would be better. I met a lot of Muslim men and they're all respectful and not all of them would marry a lot obviously.

[sheikalana]

@lloull34 I never said all people in the middle east are muslim. I live in the middle east too and I'm not muslim either but the middle east is mostly islamic.

[ummi59]

Iam a muslim and i know that we are good people and islam is a religion of peace. i want you to know that a muslim guy will respect you.
Let me tell you in islam women are not property they are covered and hidden so that no one will mess with them they are pampered. if you say she is a property yes she is but only the property of her husband that means he will take good care of her till his took his last breath and i think that is a good thing.

[lloull34]

They're just like any human beings tbh. I'm arab and I noticed how arab guys would respect you on the first date, so no need to be worried. you can talk with him with whatever topic but pay attention of sensitive topics don't bring them up on the first date.

[Miah05]

Nothing up front. Just like everyone new ya date part of learning there culture comes with the dating process

[Billlewis]

Well, for one thing, they're not known for treating women particularly well, but you might find him different.

[Tessafowler03]

Be careful.. they are Muslim …. women mean shit to an Arab …if he is mad at you You will get a physical beating …same goes if you don’t cover up with their traditional bed sheets

[MrNameless]

The fuck at the xenophobia and racism coming from your mouth...

[007kingifrit]

yea, just don't.

they will treat you like property, in arab cultures they literally have "marry your rapist" laws where you are at fault and he can just marry you to get out of all charges

[spartan55]

If you cheat on him you might get stoned to death by his family... so there's that.

[Anonymous]

I would expect things to be wonderful to begin with until you are trapped inside a culture where you have no rights and no say at which point you will be treated like the property that you are.

[Anonymous]

Well first, the Arab guy you date is not going to be the crown prince of Saudi Arabia as you have pictured...

[Anonymous]

Well know them well

If they are too traditional, they might want you to wear a burka and be submissive to them

[Fuentes]

The same thing u need to know about dating another human lol

[Fuentes]

Humans these days

[Yk8846]

I suggest you to trust your intuition and care if you get weird vibes or something makes you feel uncomfortable

[Breebree8]

You will need to obey them, there will be no drinking no going out

[guyinterested]

Don't do it. Theyll. make you wear a sheet and theyll. abuse yiu. you

[lloull34]

Nah dw they won't. What did you watch exactly to think they're like that?

[spartan55]

Let's just say women are regarded a bit different in that culture.

[BLP11520]

I have been to Saudi Arabia you will be a second class citizen there

[Anonymous]

You will likely need to convert to islam before it goes further than dating.

[Cheerfull009]

Don't date them, you cannot run with their culture, you will regret

[AlbantheGreat]

Some have strange kinks.

[Anonymous]

you shouldn't be jealous of his other 3 wives

[KarimScreamy]

Just like any other men.

[KarimScreamy]

First, be respectful and considerate of his culture and traditions. Second, be open-minded and accepting of his family and friends. Third, understand that he may have different values than you do when it comes to relationships and marriage. Lastly, be patient - courting an Arab man can take time!

[KarimScreamy]

https://youtu.be/fVxkIY1tUdg?si=L6loKF9wuyC4M0bL

[Jmmmfi4]

Hope he doesn't get his pilots license