How can I make myself truly happy without relying on a man?

[Anonymous]

[Master_Debator]

Work on yourself and become happy with yourself and what you've done for yourself.

This fucks a lot of women up because society gives a green light for a girl to just sit around and wait for a man to fix all her stupid muther fucking problems. Guys cum... sure... but they don't fix shit other than fucking you for a little while. Oh yeah they'll pay your rent here and there, but when they're done... they're done paying for that pussy.

Think about this... a guy that actually has his shit together and wouldn't fuck around with a slut that's just fucking whatever smiles and says she has a nice smile... he's gonna look at her and not even talk to her. A girl that has her shit together though... is at peace with herself and not always legs up with random assholes... that girl might look like she's worth the effort.

See... the lost art of you girls recognizing the difference between a man that wants to build a life with you and a guy that just wants to fuck... I think you girls lost that skill. Probably have no idea what I'm talking about.

Let this sink in if nothing else does... that's why I only advertise my big dick and muscles and pretend I'm broke af... because of the thirsty wolf women out there. Probably why I took on the "No fraternization" as a policy with girls I worked with and know about my finances. Bitches would literally one by one try to seduce me everytime I moved up the ladder. I know what they're upto... they didn't like me before when I made no money at all did they? Why now? Oh, I fucking know. Thirsty bitches.

Just work on yourself and deny the easy meat... if you know what I'm saying. Those guys would fuck you even if you had 4 kids in tow and major college debt... and that's because they don't give a fuck about you and your life, they just want to fuck. Become attractive to what you really want to attract or buy a sybian and STFU.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Excuse me but I want to split that sentence in half so:

"How can I make myself truly happy"

That depends on what you think true happiness is, after thinking and defining what it is to you, you may want to act upon this definition. But maybe these actions towards true happiness will not bring true happiness, because there's a difference between the thought of it and the reality of it. I don't want to sound discouraging though.

"without relying on a man?"

You don't have to rely on a man. Unless the society you live in forces you to. A man isn't an essential component of your happiness unless you want him to be.

[Nikki1989]

Ask yourself honestly — what specifically does having a man in your life give you that you can't currently give yourself? The answer is probably nothing. Because that life — the one you'd build for yourself — is actually the foundation on which everything else should be built.

[Jammannn]

Look a bit deeper. You wouldn't be married if that was true.

[12karen]

work, get money and go shopping

spending money on yourself feel a lot better

[HighValue]

Pay attention. If you try to live life not relying on men, you are falling for the feminist bs and you will be miserable and hate life. You will make irreversible mistakes and suffer for many years.

If you truly don't want to rely on men, live without the internet, phones, cars, electricity, premade food, fuel, heat, water plumbed into your house, don't have a house other than a hut or cave, don't go to medical facilities, don't call emergency services when in trouble, etc. Men created almost everything you will ever want to use in life. The internet you posted this on, the computer or phone you used to post this, the electricity it took for this website to operate, etc. are ALL made by MEN. Women have contributed almost nothing throughout history. Seriously, if you do research, you will find that women are responsible for much less than 1% of things we have and use. Once you can admit that to yourself, THEN you may be able to actually find happiness in life instead of trying to live in a make believe fantasy and trying to deny what you see in everyday life.

[altaboy]

I've always found that I have to look within to answer such questions. I don't think anyone can tell you how to to find happiness. I also don't think you can find happiness being what everyone else expects you to be, unless you want it too. All I can definitely say is that you should be patient with yourself and willing to ignore what others think.

If you are asking because you've been badly treated, I'm sorry and I hope your life gets better. Everyone deserves happiness!

[Anonymous]

If that's your obsession, you probably can't.

But if you EMBRACE being single. If you focus on your solo happiness. In time you might learn to put men behind you.

I did that for 15 years. with women. Life gets uncomplicated when you remove the opposite gender as anything but a platonic relationship.👍

[beenherebefore]

Take care of yourself mentally and physically.

[Anonymous]

Live for your own accomplishments first and foremost, not someone else’s validation

[msc545]

Just become a lesbian and get interested in women if you aren't already.

[Asker]

i actually consider that all the time🥲🥲 but i’m not a lesbian

[Anonymous]

Find out what you want.

[jahaims]

By being emotionally healthy

[karlaatsd]

Just focus on you and do what you like

[Caurav1997]

Start using fingers twice in a day...

[glennos89]

Love = happiness