Seeing A Stranger While Both Of You Happen To Fancy The Other. Feel Free To Share Your Experience?

[SabinaV]

Today, I stopped by a convenience store just to grab a drink. I noticed the guy in front of me right away he was genuinely stunning.
What I didn’t expect was that he felt the same way.

When another cashier opened beside him, I moved to the counter on my right to save time while he stayed on my left. I overheard the cashier asking if his order was chicken, but he didn't say anything.

After paying, I lingered outside for a moment.
Through the glass door, I could still see him at the cashier.

I didn't expect got surprised, he glanced over at me. There was an expression in his eyes quiet interest, a moment that occasionally happens every now and then.

It was adorable.

Of course, we were both too shy to make any move. Maybe sometimes it’s just admiration.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah it happened a few times but when it happens I don't know what to do😅
The two times I remember most is once I was checking out at the store and there was a guy standing a bit behind the cashier he was tall and handsome.. He was staring at me the whole time and I would look at him but didn't get why he was just looking at me and when I was leaving he kept watching me and I turned and looked back at him but we both didn't say anything lol. Second time I was leaving the bank and walking to my sisters car parked by the door. I seen this guy who looked cute and cool and I looked at him but he didn't look at me but when he walked behind me he turned back and was checking me out from the side (the whole up down gaze) but I was looking down. He was licking his lips and I could see him in my peripheral vision but I was too shy to look at him again. So I just got in the car my sister was laughing and saying that guy was checking you out hard core cuz she was staring at him the whole time smiling yet he was just starring at me and he was blatant with it.. I felt it was funny because I looked like crap that day cuz I just had my hair down and was wearing a sex pistols tshirt with grey pants lol

[jennifer_bloom]

In my 20's I was visiting my female friend who lived on her own and we were dining at a Korean restaurant in Toronto, while two handsome white guys were dining at the table right next to us. I told my friend after we left the restaurant, that those two guys were super cute. She said, if you felt that way, you should have said hi to them. I assumed those guys were already taken, and would be comparing me to girls more attractive than me, so I did not bother.

[SabinaV]

I would say she is a good friend. You should have considered. Don't assume but try because you never know, and if it's a no at least you found out.

[Mark_Est]

Its shyness for men.

Its simple, men dont chase women. We chase goals. And you might look decent but not something we want as most of you have the personality of a modern woman.

Secondly, women spent years telling men that they dont want to be approached. So, now you either do it yourself or keep it pushing.

[Mark_Est]

Meant to say it isn't shyness to men

[Iron_Man]

Most of those experience nothing comes of it. Those people are way too shy to take it to the next level and too shy to even bother talking they just look and smile and show interest, but nobody does anything that’s happened to me so many times

[SabinaV]

I think this mostly happens. It can be silly.

[Iron_Man]

Well, it’s flattering, but that’s about it. It makes you feel good, but nothing really happens because the people are shy.

[SabinaV]

I would say I got shy, because I could have stayed a bit and waited for him to get out the store so we could talk.

But I shouldn't let ridiculous things get in the way either.

It's alright, if I see him again then that's it.

[Iron_Man]

Well, that’s true but the shyness makes us nervous so we end up moving on but we always think back on that magical moment and it makes us feel good

[Finchie40]

That’s why you should take the chance , because it’s better to have an answer than no answer at all. So now the chances of you ever seeing that guy again is going to be a very slim chance. That’s why I take the chance when it happens to me , especially when I lock eyes with a girl, I realize I rather have an answer than no answer at all. I use to be shy but I realized being shy was getting me nowhere with girls , so I stopped being shy and it’s worked tremendously for me , because unfortunately being shy loses your chances of meeting someone that could be absolutely amazing to you. Even if you get denied, at least you have an answer. So my advice to you is to stop being shy , and realize you really have nothing to lose , whether someone denies you or not at least you have an answer , instead of going home and kicking yourself in the ass for not trying.

[sage2021]

Maybe you two will run into each other a few more times and then he will probably say something to you, or you can say something to him.

When you think 🤔 about it, couples had to meet somewhere right? You two happened to meet at the same convenience store. 🏪

This lady I know told me that her daughter was going to Starbucks every morning and kept seeing the same guy there. Eventually they went out and ended up getting married and having a baby. By the way, he's a millionaire.

[Anonymous]

@sabinav

I was walking down the street and a stranger stopped to ask me if I wanted a ride. He was cute but I was too scared to get in his car and then he asked me how much money I wanted. He thought I was a prostitute. I was embarrassed and ran away.

[molonski2]

The opportunity may have been there fleetingly , but you needed to act on it , but now sadly it's passed.

[queenofcardio]

Personally, in those situations, I usually say something like a small joke or a completely random comment.

[Anonymous]

It’s happened to me. Glad you got to experience it too. It’s really amazing.

[TonyMetal___86]

My fancy days are over 😄

[Ironco]

Snooze you lose...