Is it really the women who don’t like the guy that always get the guy?

[jennifer_bloom]

If you can recall Jake Pavelka's season on the bachelor all those years ago, Jake had all these gorgeous and faithful girls that would have jumped at the chance to be in a relationship with, and he chose Vienna Girardi, the one woman who was not too serious about him, and did not care if she ended up with him or if they broke up one day, and she would later choose another guy over him when he begged for another chance with her.

And then you had Hiba Abouk who was married to a good looking, loyal, and devoted athlete 12 years younger than her, she did not like him and just used him for money, and divorced him after 3 years with dreams of taking half his money, but she discovered all of his assets were in owned in his mother's name and not his, which meant, she did not have a single penny from her divorce, and was forced to give up half of her own assets instead.

I find in my life and in the lives of those I observe and know, it is always the woman that do not really like the guy that get the guy in the end. The ones desperate for a chance, never get a chance with the guy they like.

[DecentMan]

Don’t put any man or women on a pedestal - if he is not interested in you move on and find someone who is - we are all just people - nothing more.

[RichardCranium6201]

No. It works both ways. People like the chase.

[leviopperman]

there's usually a reason for that

[Bykurs10]

Sometimes